Dream Interpretation Requests

[momo3bur]

Originally Posted by samkirwan

i also had a dream where an old woman handed me a black ring shaped like a flower n said 'you have to live' in my dream i asked her 'am i going to hell' but she didnt answer me. she just repeated 'you have to live' any interpretations? i saw a similar ring in a shop shortly after and bought it.

I think this may have been a guide or your higher self giving you some advice. I hope that doesn't sound incredibly far out, but I put a lot of faith in my messages like the one you received, as they've helped me quite a bit in my life.

To me this would say that "you need to live" or really blossom. Don't hold back. Remember that you have tons to live for, much positivity in your life (some of which you may be holding back on), and don't get bogged down with worry and negativity, especially that which revolves around others, like your stepfather, that you have absolutely no control over.

You can think of the ring as a little piece of string that you tie around your finger to help you remember to stop biting your fingernails. It's a little reminder to be positive and that you are in control. It's a reminder to see the beauty in things and to really "live" your life, find your path, as I believe the old woman was trying to tell you (again, quite literally). Perhaps you're in a bit of bog right now that you need to come out of. Depression, maybe? Just a guess.

Again, I'm not very good at interpreting dreams, but to me it seems this dream is sending a VERY clear message. I really think this was someone special who looks after you that is showing up when you need her to help you out a bit.

[Midnite]

I had a dream that has impacted my waking conscious for a very long time. It is one of about 2 dreams that I can remember so vividly. This one left me uncontrollably depressed for days on end.

Summerbreeze you can have a crack at it if you like. However if anybody would like to also take a punt at interpreting it, I would be most grateful.

My dream starts with me riding a chrome chopper (motorcycle) up and down sand dunes in the middle of the desert. The sun is setting in the background in a hazy mist as I speed along. Tall structures start appearing on my horizon. They almost look like tall, thin buildings, except made of long pieces of wood, with dark red cloth wrapped around them. They look outworldly or prehistoric as they aren't perfectly straight, with jagged edges and exposed wood here and there.
I ride past a few and stop at one of them to ask for some food and water as I have been travelling a long time. They seemed to be individual homes with an opening at the bottom. A woman greets me and takes me up a rickety staircase to drink something. I then realised I was wearing a white cloth-like garment that seemed quite worn, the woman was in similar attire. I felt glad that somebody took me in, however as the woman was speaking to me, all I could think about was having to keep going before night falls. For some reason I was scared of something. The woman kept insisting I stay, I then however peered through a window and discovered the sun had nearly set and ran back downstairs to the bike.

In the second part of the dream, I was a little boy, maybe 5-6 years old, walking through a different part of the desert. I was homeless and wearing a dark, scrappy desert attire. For some reason I knew I was alone, I had no family and nowhere to go as if I was an orphan. The sun was overwhelming as I walked to the edge of a cliff and noticed a small desert town at the bottom, and became really excited .

As I was walking into the town, I became very sad at the thought that I didn't have any family and nowhere to get something to eat. I then realised that everybody was running in doors and shouting at me to hide. I heard somebody shout "Bandits!". I quickly ran into an abandoned general store to my left, locked the door and tried to find somewhere to hide. Outside a large mob of angry men dressed in black started running down the street with outstretched swords; hacking people down in their path, killing people as they screamed. I became more frightened and decided to lay down underneath a window sill, in hopes that the bandits would look in the store see nobody there, and walk off without realising I was right there underneath their nose.
As I lay there I could hear them breaking into the next door store, and a woman was screaming so loudly, until I heard footsteps rushing in and slaughtering her, leaving muffled bloody gurgles. Then I noticed the shadows of a bandit walking right up to the window I was hiding beneath. My back was flat against the wall, and he was right behind me outside. I could sense him trying to find somebody...
Then he broke the window and grabbed me-

I suddenly woke up thinking I was going to die.
For some reason I really thought I was that orphan.

Midnite

[Summerbreeze]

Ok, Midnite let's see... Well, well, well.

My dream starts with me riding a chrome chopper (motorcycle) up and down sand dunes in the middle of the desert. The sun is setting in the background in a hazy mist as I speed along. Tall structures start appearing on my horizon. They almost look like tall, thin buildings, except made of long pieces of wood, with dark red cloth wrapped around them. They look outworldly or prehistoric as they aren't perfectly straight, with jagged edges and exposed wood here and there.
I ride past a few and stop at one of them to ask for some food and water as I have been travelling a long time. They seemed to be individual homes with an opening at the bottom. A woman greets me and takes me up a rickety staircase to drink something. I then realised I was wearing a white cloth-like garment that seemed quite worn, the woman was in similar attire. I felt glad that somebody took me in, however as the woman was speaking to me, all I could think about was having to keep going before night falls. For some reason I was scared of something. The woman kept insisting I stay, I then however peered through a window and discovered the sun had nearly set and ran back downstairs to the bike.

Okay, I see this first part as a bigger picture, to offer you a grounding for further understanding, that makes it maybe easier for you to interpret other life situations you've been in.

I see driving through dunes as a journey from a higher perspective, because any other environment would deliver already another more specific message and prevent you from seeing things on the horizons.

You're driving with a potentially fast, but comfortable vehicle (sitting position), that needs a sense for balance to drive with it. The chrome is a material that reflects it's environment, without having the fragility of glass and can be therefore used in many different ways.

The moon and the night are representative of female energies as are the sun and daytime representative of masculine energies, so as your attention was drawn to the conditions, we should look if it has a meaning too. Maybe you coming to a phase of your life where masculine things, like control, power play less a clear role than before, I mean a transition on a higher level not just in this incarnation, integrating both energies.

The purpose of cloths is too show us where we belong to. Some people like buy expensive clothes to show they belong to a specific group of people, there are policemen that wear a uniform, to show their representative institution. A white cloth-like garment could indicate, 'looseness' to fit in specific roles in a further sense, as they also might represent the purpose of your journey you have intended. White is a color of purity. White is the color that is not divided in it's single colors. So there is no need to be specific about a single potential color that can come out if we break it, like through a crystal. So your purpose is a very undivided one, you have much freedom, but you have to be your undivided self. Also indicating for the overall purpose that we are shifting into unification again without a specific role. That are not two different interpretations, in fact we are living in times where we come with this very specific purpose to support this place and reconnect and heal from here. That's why we have a strong urge to want to know so many things, many older generations would say "What do you want to know else, can you stop asking everything in circles?". Well, we do a god job in finding our truths by asking the right questions and therefore align to build more truthful future reality.

We can't remember when a dream began, it's like being born, the situation should represent where you started and now where you are heading. You see things on a horizon can't tell what they are - they look prehistoric, so the difference between those old looking things and your chopper is stretching. Maybe this is also your impression of life, when you compare your inner being with the environment. The things look more fragile when we look closer at them, even as they should represent the 'grounding' of that area.

You wanted to have met your needs and you came to a person, that could represent the female, nurturing side. How this applies to you is probably more accurate if you interpret that part.

Look how this situation applies to your life, maybe there is something it for you.

In the second part of the dream, I was a little boy, maybe 5-6 years old, walking through a different part of the desert. I was homeless and wearing a dark, scrappy desert attire. For some reason I knew I was alone, I had no family and nowhere to go as if I was an orphan. The sun was overwhelming as I walked to the edge of a cliff and noticed a small desert town at the bottom, and became really excited .

You wear white clothes before as you were older, wiser or in a higher perspective. As a child you wear dark ones. People who have higher visions, were often to a similiar potential stuck in the dark in their past, whatever form it had.
It is the same terrain and now you were walking, without the comfort of a chopper, that takes you to making quickly progress if you want.
Homes represent our inner self, if you felt you have none you maybe felt you had no connection to your inner self, cut off, sent on a 'mission', without remembering the self. The masculine energy (the sun), the rules of our games we play here where for you overwhelming and yes we all go through this process. Maybe you even felt disassociation to your family, the reasons again for yourself to interpret.
I personally can apply the "7-year-rule" to my life.
It is saying covered by numerology that our life will change every 7 years. So we change as person as a 7 year old, as a 14 year old, as a 21y .........

So you maybe stood on a new edge in this age, as the plateau came to his end, you finally decided to go down, so to speak maybe even more involved into dealing with things on a more material-level, that possibility to better connect maybe made you decided, as you found some life in this journey of feeling alone and disconnected.

As I was walking into the town, I became very sad at the thought that I didn't have any family and nowhere to get something to eat. I then realised that everybody was running in doors and shouting at me to hide. I heard somebody shout "Bandits!". I quickly ran into an abandoned general store to my left, locked the door and tried to find somewhere to hide. Outside a large mob of angry men dressed in black started running down the street with outstretched swords; hacking people down in their path, killing people as they screamed. I became more frightened and decided to lay down underneath a window sill, in hopes that the bandits would look in the store see nobody there, and walk off without realising I was right there underneath their nose.

I see you here in looking for connection. This environment is fear and need based, though you only had very basic needs. Also there are dangers, to be robbed (our personality and not accepted gifts and views), so this might be indicative that you were shown you are in danger with what you have or with what you are. Well, the environment is dangerous metaphorically, when we have fear that they may took us the things away. The confrontation alone, especially as child is not possible, this seem to be a settled structure that has this environment in its conditioned and persistent control (you can apply that to our society, from the view of a child). You have fear that they could sense who you are, even when you are hiding, though you even had no home to hide.

As I lay there I could hear them breaking into the next door store, and a woman was screaming so loudly, until I heard footsteps rushing in and slaughtering her, leaving muffled bloody gurgles. Then I noticed the shadows of a bandit walking right up to the window I was hiding beneath. My back was flat against the wall, and he was right behind me outside. I could sense him trying to find somebody...
Then he broke the window and grabbed me-

I suddenly woke up thinking I was going to die.
For some reason I really thought I was that orphan.

The last part looked like a traumatic experiencing out of it all, again makes more sense if your analyze it with your knowledge.


~sb

[Midnite]

Thank you Summerbreeze for the in-depth review. It's always so interesting to see what other people can pick up, that I missed altogether.

Originally Posted by Summerbreeze

The moon and the night are representative of female energies as are the sun and daytime representative of masculine energies, so as your attention was drawn to the conditions, we should look if it has a meaning too. Maybe you coming to a phase of your life where masculine things, like control, power play less a clear role than before, I mean a transition on a higher level not just in this incarnation, integrating both energies.

Very interesting, very interesting indeed.

The purpose of cloths is too show us where we belong to.
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A white cloth-like garment could indicate, 'looseness' to fit in specific roles in a further sense, as they also might represent the purpose of your journey you have intended. White is a color of purity. White is the color that is not divided in its single colors. So there is no need to be specific about a single potential color that can come out if we break it, like through a crystal. So your purpose is a very undivided one, you have much freedom, but you have to be your undivided self.

This part is really good. I like that you picked up on the meaning of the white cloths. I myself believe I have to live on a path of purity.
In both this dream, and the one other I remember so vividly, I was wearing white cloth. You interpretation is accurate in discerning colours.

We can't remember when a dream began, it's like being born, the situation should represent where you started and now where you are heading. You see things on a horizon can't tell what they are - they look prehistoric, so the difference between those old looking things and your chopper is stretching. Maybe this is also your impression of life, when you compare your inner being with the environment.

Yes this resonates with me. This part is something I completely missed when I tried interpreting this dream myself.

You wear white clothes before as you were older, wiser or in a higher perspective. As a child you wear dark ones. People who have higher visions, were often to a similar potential stuck in the dark in their past, whatever form it had.

talk about a dark past...
If you think this lifetime is bad, you should have seen what happened in my previous incarnations.
Let alone before I even commenced this cycle... dear God.

So you maybe stood on a new edge in this age, as the plateau came to his end, you finally decided to go down, so to speak maybe even more involved into dealing with things on a more material-level, that possibility to better connect maybe made you decided, as you found some life in this journey of feeling alone and disconnected.

This part is good. Maybe a little bit too good

This environment is fear and need based, though you only had very basic needs.
.. so this might be indicative that you were shown you are in danger with what you have or with what you are. Well, the environment is dangerous metaphorically, when we have fear that they may took us the things away. You have fear that they could sense who you are, even when you are hiding, though you even had no home to hide.

I am trying to figure this one out. This part of the dream is the reason why I remember it in the first place. I know I had a lot of fear when I was much younger; fear of the unknown, fear of loneliness, fear of the ugliness of humanity who had the reins of power. I have never liked people who instill fear into others in order to hold the onus of control. I developed in my own way, turning those fears into anger, resulting in a powerful change that I can only describe as existing in an absolute living nightmare.

When I sit here and think about it, fear and anger have been fuelling my spiritual and psychic development since I can remember. It's unbelievable isn't it? I never once undertook any of this for the pure love of it. But in saying that I have lead a very pure life. My life interpretation would place half my Soul wanting to fly in the Heavens above, and the other half shackled in the very pits of Hell.

Midnite

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Midnite

It sounds like your 'guide' is present in and out of your dreams. What I'm trying to figure out, is why it keeps changing gender and not just approaching you straight up. It makes it much more easier to trust them that way. Which then leads me down to thinking that you need to contemplate the authenticity of this 'guide' and not in fact some mischievous spirit who got bored one day.
I think you should learn how to connect with you guides in a more controllable environment, such as through trance or meditations. Lucid is an effective way, but you need to develop a level of control where you aren't passing in and out of consciousness. Next time you see them, tell them to stop changing on you and ask for clarity in your environment.

Sienna Miller... You know it isn't the first time I have heard of her name, but I couldn't remember her face. When I googled her, I managed to find out two things; Firstly Sienna Miller is really hot, secondly I have managed to effectively miss every single one of her movies that she was ever in.. lol...

I don't know what your relation is with her. But through some deductive thinking patterns I have been able to effectively establish that "back to her old ways" could possibly mean either; dating problems, rehab, or her previous career before becoming an actress; which was photographic modelling. I don't even know where to begin to try and interpret this part for you, unless of course you are having dating problems, going to rehab, or want to be a photographic model. If you however saw her in a dream, then I would be able to interpret further. Sometimes when we see people we adore in our dreams we want to learn from them or adopt certain traits and qualities of theirs in real life. But you didn't dream her... it was a message.

In any case why was that particular name given to you? What has it got to do with the price of fish? Absolutely nothing. Which stems back to my original thoughts of the clarity and authenticity of your 'guide'. I think you need to instruct them to give you a more clear symbolic representation like a black cat's paw with little spiders jumping on it.. lol

I think you need to recruit the services of somebody who better understands that actresses life. Every time I tried to do some 'research' I kept getting hung up on her photos.

Thank you. I found myself noticing as well, that though I have heard the name, I have not seen any movie or anything of the sort, nor have I even seen her, until I of course looked her up online.

Odd enough, as to the guide thing, I don't really deal in thinking of things in such ways. I know who it is "guiding" so to speak, and he/she appeared in that mysterious fashion because such things are trivial, and he/she does not, and seemingly, refuses, to allow for me to have any clarity in things that do not pertain directly towards what I need, such as what is to happen here or there, or how to deal with this or that. I'm headed for music, so I have a lot of quick preparing I have to do, and thus, I cannot be caught up in this and that, such things as, male or female, black or white, this or that.... It's as though this, "guide' if you want to call it that, has no sex, no form, no name really, "it" simply ... Is what "it" is..... I refer to "Him" (Christian upbringing, but don't get caught up - Abandoned such things, or rather transcended), as "Father" thus, indeed "He" is....

So, I get that part of the dream. What made no sense to me was simply the sienna miller part.

For now, I must focus upon my music, and thus, any attempts to delve into anything other than that, seems to be thwarted, and any clarity on anything other than that, is refused me.

It is terribly frustrating. But... It is what it is...

Thank you for your insight.

Have any dreams I could dissect for you? As I seemingly can do such things when I feel the need to...

[Midwinter Mist]

Blasted. Dreams.

Alright, last night was a little rough as I was waking up at least once every hour, and that was even after a sleeping pill. They just don't seem to work for me. Anyway, I was having many dreams about an ex-girlfriend, one that still sits on my mind here and there and she did contact me again this year, but I have never had such long and constant dreams of an ex, so this night was difficult. Even after waking up and returning to sleep, it was back to her.

Maybe it was an outlet, because the dream kept bringing up things that happened when she last contacted me, and for the record, the girl is actually insane. She's one horrible girl.

The dream also reflected her way in general, with how she was persistently trying to tell me to move on, but then she continues to contact me, stalk me, etc, etc. It's like putting somebody on a leash and then telling them to run away from you.

But there came a point, and this is really the point I'm here to write about, when she had drawn me a sketch in the dream, though I think it was a bit more 3D. The sketch was like, how can I put it... some sort of spinning table. Think of a game show (Wheel of Fortune will do, lol) when you have to spin the wheel and whatever it lands on affects what happens next. Except, the arrow was hanging on these two choices. One was a sketch of a polar bear, and one was a sketch of the figure of a man, which came beneath the polar bear. My ex's voice was then saying, "Live life like a man or the polar bear inside."

Polar bear? I don't know, but I can tell you that the arrow was pretty much stuck on the polar bear option.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

Blasted. Dreams.

Alright, last night was a little rough as I was waking up at least once every hour, and that was even after a sleeping pill. They just don't seem to work for me. Anyway, I was having many dreams about an ex-girlfriend, one that still sits on my mind here and there and she did contact me again this year, but I have never had such long and constant dreams of an ex, so this night was difficult. Even after waking up and returning to sleep, it was back to her.

Maybe it was an outlet, because the dream kept bringing up things that happened when she last contacted me, and for the record, the girl is actually insane. She's one horrible girl.

The dream also reflected her way in general, with how she was persistently trying to tell me to move on, but then she continues to contact me, stalk me, etc, etc. It's like putting somebody on a leash and then telling them to run away from you.

But there came a point, and this is really the point I'm here to write about, when she had drawn me a sketch in the dream, though I think it was a bit more 3D. The sketch was like, how can I put it... some sort of spinning table. Think of a game show (Wheel of Fortune will do, lol) when you have to spin the wheel and whatever it lands on affects what happens next. Except, the arrow was hanging on these two choices. One was a sketch of a polar bear, and one was a sketch of the figure of a man, which came beneath the polar bear. My ex's voice was then saying, "Live life like a man or the polar bear inside."

Polar bear? I don't know, but I can tell you that the arrow was pretty much stuck on the polar bear option.

Before I get into the interpretation, I would like to talk about sleeping problems. The regular pills don't work, unless you get medicated ones from your Doctor, and even then they can be harmful to your natural sleeping ability when you get addicted to them. I am a complete nightstalker and I find it very hard to sleep before 2-3am. One solution however, is to practise very deep meditation or trance 1-2hrs before your normal bedtime. Get extremely mentally exhausted, and you won't have sleeping problems.

Let's talk about energy. Energy is a universal trait that is also transferable. It exists in you, me and even our ex-girlfriends (though sometimes hard to believe). Now, the reason for why psy-vampires are able to perform their techniques so well, is that the energy in one person is able to be effectively filtered and transferred into the energy system of another. Such techniques are often remotely performed via visualisation. On some level, when we fantasize or even obsess about a certain person, we may accidently draw their energy away from them; or what's called unintentional psychic vampirism.

This relates to ex's as they have spent a great deal of time with us in a relationship. When we first meet somebody, we are able to discern if you like them or hate them within seconds, sometimes they don't even have to open their mouth. This is a result of the human aura projecting a large energy field around its body. When meeting somebody our energy fields inter-mingle upon contact and intuitively tell you if it accepts or rejects the opposing energy field. When we spend a great deal of time together, we are able to exchange a whole lot of energy with each other through expressions of love and gratitude. Those energies fuse with our own system. When we break-up we no longer have that supplementary energy and therefore desire it back by getting back together, or the next best thing; unintentional psychic vampirism.

Now in order to stop such a crazy cycle of hate and negative energies being exposed into your mind, you need to perform psychic defences. Without these defences you are being left exposed to such negativity. Block her out on a psychic level, then block her out physically, as this ex is causing your health to suffer.

she had drawn me a sketch in the dream ... some sort of spinning table ... when you have to spin the wheel and whatever it lands on affects what happens next. Except, the arrow was hanging on these two choices.

This is highly suggestive that she has effectively maintained the onus of control in her hands by being the one to give you options. This is where you are firstly going wrong. You need to be the one who has the power to start or stop your relationships, or else you will always be at the discretion of your partners. The onus of control is very powerful in relationships, whoever has the power is the one to decide how it plays out. Some people believe there should be a mutual understanding, this is absolutely true, however there has always and will always be a dominant and recessive force to any great relationship.

One was a sketch of a polar bear, and one was a sketch of the figure of a man ... My ex's voice was then saying, "Live life like a man or the polar bear inside."

To dream of a Polar bear is to symbolise ones own emotions to a particular reaction. Polar bears are very harsh and emotionally cold, they are also known to be quite aggressive when threatened. What your dream ex is trying to suggest, is that she wants you to treat the situation with more compassion (like a human being), you are however treating it very coldly devoid of emotion (like a Polar bear).

Subconsciously you feel your ex thinks you have treated/still treating her very coldly. You feel guilty about it, but at the same time you are happy you have acted that way, as you no longer desire her company. This has risen internal conflicting emotions that is causing these weird dreams. Therefore you need to completely decide to either follow option A (act coldly through justification of your health) or option B (start feeling more compassionate at the risk of sending the 'wrong' messages). Though you feel she has given you options, it is at your own discretion to what path you will follow. Take control of the situation and stop letting other people decide how your life plays out.

It's up to you which path you decide to follow.

Midnite

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

Blasted. Dreams.

Alright, last night was a little rough as I was waking up at least once every hour, and that was even after a sleeping pill. They just don't seem to work for me. Anyway, I was having many dreams about an ex-girlfriend, one that still sits on my mind here and there and she did contact me again this year, but I have never had such long and constant dreams of an ex, so this night was difficult. Even after waking up and returning to sleep, it was back to her.

Maybe it was an outlet, because the dream kept bringing up things that happened when she last contacted me, and for the record, the girl is actually insane. She's one horrible girl.

The dream also reflected her way in general, with how she was persistently trying to tell me to move on, but then she continues to contact me, stalk me, etc, etc. It's like putting somebody on a leash and then telling them to run away from you.

But there came a point, and this is really the point I'm here to write about, when she had drawn me a sketch in the dream, though I think it was a bit more 3D. The sketch was like, how can I put it... some sort of spinning table. Think of a game show (Wheel of Fortune will do, lol) when you have to spin the wheel and whatever it lands on affects what happens next. Except, the arrow was hanging on these two choices. One was a sketch of a polar bear, and one was a sketch of the figure of a man, which came beneath the polar bear. My ex's voice was then saying, "Live life like a man or the polar bear inside."

Polar bear? I don't know, but I can tell you that the arrow was pretty much stuck on the polar bear option.

Emotional Blackmail is my new favorite term.

To me, she is going to show up again in your life, and was saying, and is going to say something to the extent of, "You're so cold....I love you, yet you don't seem to mind your coldness to me...."

She thinks she deserves to have you. As though she can and will affect your choice. You however see the situation without the attachment.

I share the same experience, of having women, one in particular, who tells me in one sentence, "Move on...." all the while saying in her heart, "I'm just saying this because I really want you back...."

I'm sorry, I must go now, I shall return.

[Midwinter Mist]

Thanks Midnite and TuningIn.

One thing I must say, even though I hate to say it, is that she has pretty much contacted me after each of my dreams of her. I've actually had a few topics in the emotional section to get help with dealing with her, because I was in a position where she treated me very horribly (creating problems, blaming me, and then somehow forgetting she created those problems and not me). She would use any possible excuse to turn every little thing on me, but she was the being who felt the need to use, lie, cheat, etc. Typical stuff of a bad person. I could never argue with her, because she believed in her own lies. Things were made even more difficult as she would get rid of me, so to speak, but keep that leash on me. I carried feelings. I would dream of her, it would bring me down, she would then contact me, and I'd cave in, hoping she would show signs of becoming a better person, except she'd become worse.

This year was no different. She also believes I HAVE to be her friend, regardless of what I feel, and listen to everything she says, whether or not it's destructive to my own health. She probably does think I'm cold, but if she opened her eyes, she'd see it's the other way around.

I can definitely see very valid points made, and she might appear again. The thing with me is that although I carry feelings, I won't contact her unless she contacts me (even there, I make the wrong decision). She, on the other hand, will contact me over and over again, no matter how many times I tell her not to do so. She apparently wants nothing to do with me, but then she contacts me.

She's very confusing and very weird, and I would have thought she was the cold one. Either way, I think the best decision for me is to take the route of the polar bear, for the sake of my health and my life, and eliminate her completely, as she only seems to care for herself. When I tell her what she does and how it affects my health, she doesn't really care and continues, so I feel that I need to respond in kind.

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

Thanks Midnite and TuningIn.

One thing I must say, even though I hate to say it, is that she has pretty much contacted me after each of my dreams of her. I've actually had a few topics in the emotional section to get help with dealing with her, because I was in a position where she treated me very horribly (creating problems, blaming me, and then somehow forgetting she created those problems and not me). She would use any possible excuse to turn every little thing on me, but she was the being who felt the need to use, lie, cheat, etc. Typical stuff of a bad person. I could never argue with her, because she believed in her own lies. Things were made even more difficult as she would get rid of me, so to speak, but keep that leash on me. I carried feelings. I would dream of her, it would bring me down, she would then contact me, and I'd cave in, hoping she would show signs of becoming a better person, except she'd become worse.

This year was no different. She also believes I HAVE to be her friend, regardless of what I feel, and listen to everything she says, whether or not it's destructive to my own health. She probably does think I'm cold, but if she opened her eyes, she'd see it's the other way around.

I can definitely see very valid points made, and she might appear again. The thing with me is that although I carry feelings, I won't contact her unless she contacts me (even there, I make the wrong decision). She, on the other hand, will contact me over and over again, no matter how many times I tell her not to do so. She apparently wants nothing to do with me, but then she contacts me.

She's very confusing and very weird, and I would have thought she was the cold one. Either way, I think the best decision for me is to take the route of the polar bear, for the sake of my health and my life, and eliminate her completely, as she only seems to care for herself. When I tell her what she does and how it affects my health, she doesn't really care and continues, so I feel that I need to respond in kind.

Friend, I will not tell you what is right or wrong, but I will say that any forced behavior is perverted behavior.

25 to life by Eminem. Go listen to it... It's beautiful to me, for I have left this very same situation, as I've stated. This song said everything I wanted to say and more... Plus it's just a really good song. :P

Peace be with you my friend.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by TuningIn

Friend, I will not tell you what is right or wrong, but I will say that any forced behavior is perverted behavior.

25 to life by Eminem. Go listen to it... It's beautiful to me, for I have left this very same situation, as I've stated. This song said everything I wanted to say and more... Plus it's just a really good song. :P

Peace be with you my friend.

I love Eminem.

Also listen to Rock Bottom and The Way I Am.

[Midwinter Mist]

Ah, Eminem. I used to be quite the fan. Rock Bottom is quite the classic, and what was that other one... 'If I had'. Meaningful stuff. Then I disliked his newer content, felt he sort of sold out in some way to the modern degradation of music. Then I went off Rap completely.

That's just me, though.

Anyway, thanks again for the input you shared. I would share last night's dreams, but they're quite the blur, which makes a change. However, before sleep, I did, in my mind, ask to have less dreaming and more rest (though I woke up insanely tired). It's all good, though. I didn't dream of her, at least.

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

Ah, Eminem. I used to be quite the fan. Rock Bottom is quite the classic, and what was that other one... 'If I had'. Meaningful stuff. Then I disliked his newer content, felt he sort of sold out in some way to the modern degradation of music. Then I went off Rap completely.

That's just me, though.

Anyway, thanks again for the input you shared. I would share last night's dreams, but they're quite the blur, which makes a change. However, before sleep, I did, in my mind, ask to have less dreaming and more rest (though I woke up insanely tired). It's all good, though. I didn't dream of her, at least.

I was "haunted" so to speak by an ex-lover in my dreams as well, she seemed to continually be there, until I began to focus my energy towards giving her a definite no on a spiritual/psychic level. What I was really doing was telling my subconscious, "I'm done with this ish.... Stop bringing her up... I'm past that.... And I'm not going back.... So just stop..."

My dreams started to change, in that we were no longer together in these dreams, but she was still there, either trying to talk me back, or just showing up randomly, but there was always the clear fact that we were no longer together.

I continued to express to myself, and to her (in my dreams), that I needed not to see her in my mind any longer.

The dreams changed again, and one night, the night I spent hearing this being in this room, then into a dream, then back to the room, my conversational dream...... During that, near the start, I encountered her, and she asked me why I said I didn't love her, and I told her, "It's not that I hate you, it's not even that I don't like you... It's the simple fact that you are a liar, and I'm tired of hearing you lie." and so it went on, with me telling her basically, "I know you were never faithful, so will you please just stop pretending as though you love me, I see the reality, and you still want to trick me... Just give up..."

Then in my dream, she hung her head, but with a devious smile, then peeked up at me mischeviously and said, "You're right.... And you know what.... I don't even feel bad about it.... " to which I replied, "I know..." and then the dreams ended.

I'm not saying this will work for you, but for me anyway, they did not stop until I faced her in my dream, and told her exactly what I thought of her....

It must be stated that she is involved in dark arts, and her hold upon me was not simply an emotional tie.... So I had to deal with it on a physical, and spiritual level.... And she was in my head so to speak for reasons past anything to do with myself really....

[Rookie]

Hi guys, this is my first time so please tell me if I'm doing something wrong.

I think it was nighttime. I entered my building and found that all the mailboxes were opened. Instead of just taking my mail, I took money in my neighbors mailboxes(dollars, fives, tens) because no one was around to see me do it. So after taking the money, I went to my apartment which the door was already opened. I thought this was normal because my grandma often does this when frying fish to let out the smell. So a little after I enter, it turns out that someone - an old lady, though I don't know who - had been calling "18-year old man!" in the hall and coming up the steps to my apartment. My grandma and I heard her, and although my grandma showed silent confusion - presumably because she didn't know who the old lady was calling, as I'm 17 - but I KNEW that she was coming for me. She knew I took the money and saw me. I was so scared that I ended the dream right there and woke up. What did it mean?

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by TuningIn

It must be stated that she is involved in dark arts, and her hold upon me was not simply an emotional tie.... So I had to deal with it on a physical, and spiritual level.... And she was in my head so to speak for reasons past anything to do with myself really....

-.-

People really need to start reading more of my posts.. lol
You need to learn some Shielding techniques. In others words; Psychic Protection. You have more control over what happens to you than you currently think. You need to be able to block unwanted guests.
Read the 'I think I got attacked by an entity' thread for more info on protection techniques.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Rookie

Hi guys, this is my first time so please tell me if I'm doing something wrong.

I think it was nighttime. I entered my building and found that all the mailboxes were opened. Instead of just taking my mail, I took money in my neighbors mailboxes(dollars, fives, tens) because no one was around to see me do it. So after taking the money, I went to my apartment which the door was already opened. I thought this was normal because my grandma often does this when frying fish to let out the smell. So a little after I enter, it turns out that someone - an old lady, though I don't know who - had been calling "18-year old man!" in the hall and coming up the steps to my apartment. My grandma and I heard her, and although my grandma showed silent confusion - presumably because she didn't know who the old lady was calling, as I'm 17 - but I KNEW that she was coming for me. She knew I took the money and saw me. I was so scared that I ended the dream right there and woke up. What did it mean?

Ok. It seems your subconscious has found an inherent flaw within your personality and is now exploiting that weakness to you in a dream, so you may not make the same mistakes in real life.

I entered my building and found that all the mailboxes were opened.

An opportunity has presented itself to you where you now have the ability to either; (a) walk away, (b) inform somebody of the problem, or (c) steal something unnoticed with no visible sign of forced entry.

Instead of just taking my mail, I took money in my neighbors mailboxes(dollars, fives, tens) because no one was around to see me do it.

You chose option (c). In other words you decided to do something bad, because you felt there were no repercussions.

So a little after I enter, it turns out that someone - an old lady, though I don't know who - had been calling "18-year old man!" in the hall and coming up the steps to my apartment.
... but I KNEW that she was coming for me

Your subconscious mind then creates a realistic situation for where you could possibly get caught.

This dream is highly suggestive of the fact that if the devil was to tempt you, you would follow along. You need to be stronger than that. You need to always uphold your personal morals in such situations and don't be tempted so easily. Even if you currently perceive the situation as like 'staling candy from a baby', you never know who or what could be on your trail.

In the end of the day, these types of small petty theft situations snowball in negative Karma on top of you. What you didn't think about was the full extent to your actions. That old lady could have been on the poverty line, waiting for her over-worked son to send a few dollars so she could buy the groceries. You stole the money, and now she can't eat for a few days, and end up suffering in her own dark world. All of that suffering was a result of your actions. That means you have negative Karma created.

All from a few bucks.

Be a good person every day of your life. Repeat after me: "The world-" ..

"The World is made of Love and Peace!"

Midnite

[Rookie]

Originally Posted by Midnite

Ok. It seems your subconscious has found an inherent flaw within your personality and is now exploiting that weakness to you in a dream, so you may not make the same mistakes in real life.


An opportunity has presented itself to you where you now have the ability to either; (a) walk away, (b) inform somebody of the problem, or (c) steal something unnoticed with no visible sign of forced entry.


You chose option (c). In other words you decided to do something bad, because you felt there were no repercussions.


Your subconscious mind then creates a realistic situation for where you could possibly get caught.

This dream is highly suggestive of the fact that if the devil was to tempt you, you would follow along. You need to be stronger than that. You need to always uphold your personal morals in such situations and don't be tempted so easily. Even if you currently perceive the situation as like 'staling candy from a baby', you never know who or what could be on your trail.

In the end of the day, these types of small petty theft situations snowball in negative Karma on top of you. What you didn't think about was the full extent to your actions. That old lady could have been on the poverty line, waiting for her over-worked son to send a few dollars so she could buy the groceries. You stole the money, and now she can't eat for a few days, and end up suffering in her own dark world. All of that suffering was a result of your actions. That means you have negative Karma created.

All from a few bucks.

Be a good person every day of your life. Repeat after me: "The world-" ..

"The World is made of Love and Peace!"

Midnite

As weird as it sounds, reading this made me regret my actions in the dream. Now I really wish I hadn't done it. I don't like the kind of fear that came up. Thanks for the reading, seriously. Looks like I really do have some fixing up to do. The truth is I love money, so I think my subconscious was telling me to be less money-hungry?

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Rookie

As weird as it sounds, reading this made me regret my actions in the dream. Now I really wish I hadn't done it. I don't like the kind of fear that came up. Thanks for the reading, seriously. Looks like I really do have some fixing up to do. The truth is I love money, so I think my subconscious was telling me to be less money-hungry?

The above situation doesn't necessarily have to relate to money, it can apply to any other area in your life where you feel you could be tempted to do the wrong thing. Luckily for us, dreams are excellent learning modules that allow for life-like training scenarios. You don't need to regret anything, after all it was all just a dream.

Surround yourself with positivity.

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Midnite

-.-

People really need to start reading more of my posts.. lol
You need to learn some Shielding techniques. In others words; Psychic Protection. You have more control over what happens to you than you currently think. You need to be able to block unwanted guests.
Read the 'I think I got attacked by an entity' thread for more info on protection techniques.

Yo homie, stay outta my head. I just posted the same thing somewhere in this vast expanse of a forum. Specifically the term, "You have more control over what happens to you than you currently think...."



It's funny to me, how I went from a scared little church boy shaking in his pew for fear of demons getting me, to looking around and laughing.

Fear is the demon.

thank you for this post. Reminded me that I'm not crazy. Ha...

Interesting day thus far....

Life sure is a trip. ..... And I mean that quite literally... Hehehehe

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Rookie

Hi guys, this is my first time so please tell me if I'm doing something wrong.

I think it was nighttime. I entered my building and found that all the mailboxes were opened. Instead of just taking my mail, I took money in my neighbors mailboxes(dollars, fives, tens) because no one was around to see me do it. So after taking the money, I went to my apartment which the door was already opened. I thought this was normal because my grandma often does this when frying fish to let out the smell. So a little after I enter, it turns out that someone - an old lady, though I don't know who - had been calling "18-year old man!" in the hall and coming up the steps to my apartment. My grandma and I heard her, and although my grandma showed silent confusion - presumably because she didn't know who the old lady was calling, as I'm 17 - but I KNEW that she was coming for me. She knew I took the money and saw me. I was so scared that I ended the dream right there and woke up. What did it mean?

I purposely did not read any interpretations.

What have you done lately? Whose energy have you seemingly stolen? Or whom do you envy?

People see you, even when you don't think they do, and you may think you've gotten away with it, but eventually, the universe demands that the truth be told.

I'm not looking very far into this, merely on a scientifical studying of the subconscious level. Nothing "psychic" so to speak...

[Rookie]

Originally Posted by TuningIn

I purposely did not read any interpretations.

What have you done lately? Whose energy have you seemingly stolen? Or whom do you envy?

People see you, even when you don't think they do, and you may think you've gotten away with it, but eventually, the universe demands that the truth be told.

I'm not looking very far into this, merely on a scientifical studying of the subconscious level. Nothing "psychic" so to speak...

Might be because I haven't done anything psychic. I just started this stuff, and I wish I knew how to even see energy much less steal it, lol.

But recently, I did do something now that you mention it. On my way to school one morning, I found a battered and torn wallet. There was no money inside, but there were two empty Metro cards that I did take, along with shredded credit card protectors w/ no credit cards(I would've NEVER used the credit cards even if they were in there, though - I'm really not the type). I assumed that the person(or someone else) did this purposely. Regardless, I threw the wallet in the garbage after taking the two Metro cards, seeing how there was basically nothing of value. Even the Metro cards were empty, so I didn't think I did anything too bad. But, I guess it was still wrong. But, that was a week ago, and I forgot about it since...

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Rookie

Might be because I haven't done anything psychic. I just started this stuff, and I wish I knew how to even see energy much less steal it, lol.

But recently, I did do something now that you mention it. On my way to school one morning, I found a battered and torn wallet. There was no money inside, but there were two empty Metro cards that I did take, along with shredded credit card protectors w/ no credit cards(I would've NEVER used the credit cards even if they were in there, though - I'm really not the type). I assumed that the person(or someone else) did this purposely. Regardless, I threw the wallet in the garbage after taking the two Metro cards, seeing how there was basically nothing of value. Even the Metro cards were empty, so I didn't think I did anything too bad. But, I guess it was still wrong. But, that was a week ago, and I forgot about it since...

Unbelievable...

Criminals here on 'this' forum!

I'm sure God will forgive you.

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Rookie

Might be because I haven't done anything psychic. I just started this stuff, and I wish I knew how to even see energy much less steal it, lol.

But recently, I did do something now that you mention it. On my way to school one morning, I found a battered and torn wallet. There was no money inside, but there were two empty Metro cards that I did take, along with shredded credit card protectors w/ no credit cards(I would've NEVER used the credit cards even if they were in there, though - I'm really not the type). I assumed that the person(or someone else) did this purposely. Regardless, I threw the wallet in the garbage after taking the two Metro cards, seeing how there was basically nothing of value. Even the Metro cards were empty, so I didn't think I did anything too bad. But, I guess it was still wrong. But, that was a week ago, and I forgot about it since...

I view things awkwardly, in that generally, "life is but a dream" and thus, from time to time, I see things happen in "waking life" that are symbolic just like those of dreams. I interpret them to myself in the same manner.

Perhaps this wallet you found, was just the first sign you gave yourself. What about your relationships? Have you "stolen" anything from anyone. Not particularly an item or anything of the sort, a concept, idea, their confidence, the ground upon which their feet stand.

The wallet was there to teach you to leave things alone, so to speak, but you took it.... The dream was there to teach you to leave things alone, so to speak, but you still took the money.....(This is in my mind anyway...)

Money seems to me to be two things..... A symbol for power, and on the opposite end of the spectrum, something that is a necessity. In this day and age, it is essential in order to survive. Somebody somewhere has to pay for what you consume. Money exchanges hands.

So, view the "money" or "wallet" as something personal that belongs to another, in which you have taken and don't really see it as a big deal.... Think about what that thing, idea, concept, (Energy)..... you've taken from someone, that you've kinda pushed under the rug, and said to yourself, "Blah, whatever, I didn't do that..." I think if you go back and look, possibly through meditation, or maybe even in the back of your mind right now, you know what I'm talking about.

And once you deal with it... Please, remember the words of Midnite.... "I'm sure God will forgive you.... "

[pyrogen]

Here's my strange dream... this was last night.

First off, to people who don't already know me, I'm a woman.

***

I was in a BART (our local commuter rail) station. The signs were labelled confusingly and the trains weren't marked. I was trying to get into San Francisco but I couldn't figure out which train to get on... AND NOBODY KNEW. They didn't even know where THEY were going... they were just getting on the trains and they didn't care.

I got on a train at random and then went to the next station, hoping maybe I'd find more information there... but that left me equally clueless.

I left the train station and wandered out into the street - and realized I was somewhere else. Cobblestones, it looks like 1920s Prague. I actually thought to myself "I have been reading too much Kafka".

I found a diner. It looked like something out of the 40s or early 50s. It was kind of similar to the painting "Boulevard of Broken Dreams".

A waitress greeted me. Her eyes lit up. "Hello, Amelia!" she said.

I was confused and she explained that I looked like Amelia Earhart. I looked in the mirror and realized that I was wearing my leather jacket and aviator scarf. Outfit I have in my real waking life.

"What year is it?" I asked.

"1947," she said.

"Okay. I just came from 1918. I think I'll stay here."

I sat at the counter and somehow she and I got talking. I found out she'd worked in a munitions factory but had been let go after the war.

She didn't have a wedding ring. She said she'd rather be poor and work as a waitress but be true to herself.

At the end of her shift, she balled up her apron and stuck it away somewhere, and then grabbed my hand and led me somewhere around the back and into a basement... and it was a smoky private club filled with women, all couples, some of the women were very mannish but looked very dapper. She adjusted my jacket and smoothed my hair back and said "now you'll fit right in" and she was my date.

Later, I found myself walking around *contemporary* San Francisco.

I was with a date - an Asian-American woman with bangs and shoulder-length hair. We were having a fabulous time, holding hands, kissing in the street.

During our conversation I said that my favorite time that I visited was 47.

My date and I went upstairs to this strange place and we danced slowly and sensuously to exotic sounding music. There was some man there who we were there to visit, I don't remember why we wanted to talk to him. There was a large Buddha in the corner, and incense, and low lights.

At some point, she explained to me that she had a boyfriend. She wanted to keep seeing me, though. She needed men because they were as she put it... "helpful. They do things for you and pay for things and take you places."

I talked to my best friend later and was outrageously mad. "Nobody does any of that for me!" I yelled.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by pyrogen

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Hi Pyrogen,

There is some layering of personal issues coming forth in this dream. I will work through them accordingly.

I feel you are having a slight identity crisis with exactly who you are, where you are going and what makes you happy. Often when people feel uncomfortable in the current Age, they are feeling deep self esteem issues that are being repressed to a point where they start dismissing their reality around them as being 'wrong' or out of time.

I was in a BART (our local commuter rail) station. The signs were labelled confusingly and the trains weren't marked. I was trying to get into San Francisco but I couldn't figure out which train to get on

It firstly seems as if your subconscious has created a believable scenario where you need to get 'somewhere' far enough to catch a train. I am not sure what business you have in San Francisco, however the more likely response is that this location was created without significance.
Now in this scenario where the trains are unmarked it suggests that you have some idea of where you are going, you just don't know how to get there. Often trains symbolize a journey that must be undertaken, not a short journey, but something significant. This journey does not necessarily relate to a physical journey, but perhaps an emotional journey to be at a better place, on the inside. You currently recognize what state of emotional imbalance you are living through, you also recognize where you need to be at, you are just unsure as by what method or direction you need to change.

AND NOBODY KNEW. They didn't even know where THEY were going... they were just getting on the trains and they didn't care.

Yes, you will also find this even in real life. People have no clue about where they are going or what they are doing. You have more intellect and direction than they do. Something which is tingling in the back of my mind is; why didn't you use your intuition to find the right train? You however relied on an external party to decide for you. This is highly suggestive that your answers will come from within, instead of somebody just telling you. Learn to seek the inner guidance.

I got on a train at random and then went to the next station, hoping maybe I'd find more information there...

You now decided to take a chance at random. This didn't work out for you, because your subconscious doesn't want you to take a guess. It wants the real stuff from within.

I left the train station and wandered out into the street - and realized I was somewhere else. Cobblestones, it looks like 1920s Prague. I actually thought to myself "I have been reading too much Kafka".

You decided to abandon your crossroad and find another path. This is highly suggestive that when things puzzle you beyond your intellect, your seek another path altogether and try to avoid it. You found yourself in the 1920's, you literally went back in time. 'Too much Kafka'... I find that you have somehow loved the worlds created in those books, and therefore created an ultimate comfort zone as to where you could escape your problem and live in a much more welcoming place, somewhere that better suits you.

I found a diner. It looked like something out of the 40s or early 50s.
A waitress greeted me. Her eyes lit up. "Hello, Amelia!" she said.

I was confused and she explained that I looked like Amelia Earhart. I looked in the mirror and realized that I was wearing my leather jacket and aviator scarf. Outfit I have in my real waking life.

"What year is it?" I asked.

"1947," she said.

"Okay. I just came from 1918. I think I'll stay here."

Your comfort zone just skipped about 30 years to fine tune itself. When you see famous people within a dream, it means there is something about their personality, or physical traits that you adore. Amelia Earhart was the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic ocean. She was also a character larger than life, who didn't take no for an answer. She achieved an incredible feat, especially considering those days. A true Pioneer. However what your subconscious didn't realize that Amelia Earhart died in 1937, giving it a good 11 years dead from the point of time in your dream. This is highly suggestive that you adore this woman's potential, her battle with her fears, her incredible personality, you didn't even care when she died. You wanted to be her, you even have her outfit in real life. You were living a true fantasy in that dream. Somebody who didn't have an identity crisis, however earned the respect of millions, being just the way she was.

grabbed my hand and led me somewhere around the back and into a basement... and it was a smoky private club filled with women, all couples, some of the women were very mannish but looked very dapper. She adjusted my jacket and smoothed my hair back and said "now you'll fit right in"

The most important part of that quote is "now you'll fit right in.
This section of the dream is indicative that you crave for somebody feminine, someone who will recognize exactly who you are and the strengths that lie within you. This waitress recognized you as Amelia, or your role model. You feel that if you were Amelia, really cool things would happen; like picking up dates over coffee, going to secret underground clubs, fitting right in. This tells me one of two things; Firstly you either need to go through that emotional change to get there, or Secondly you just need to find somebody who can recognize you for who are; Not who you want to be.

She said she'd rather be poor and work as a waitress but be true to herself.

You do not like people who are not themselves, or pretending to be someone they're not.

During our conversation I said that my favorite time that I visited was 47.

Currently your self-esteem in not strong enough to completely recognize who you are and where your strengths lay. You 'feel' 47 was the year to be in, however you need to realize that 47 is just a timeframe where people acted a certain way. You feel society today has lost its charm. This also tells me that there are people who live 'today' who also share similar traits to yourself. Notice how you are now also in San Francisco? Where you were meant to catch the train. This represents that once you achieve your emotional goals, you and the people around you will all fall into place.

My date and I went upstairs to this strange place and we danced slowly and sensuously to exotic sounding music. There was some man there who we were there to visit, I don't remember why we wanted to talk to him. There was a large Buddha in the corner, and incense, and low lights.

I love how you describe the only guy in your dream; "some man". haha
This is quite a strong indicator of how you generally feel towards men... Nothing much. It also explains why you want to be like Amelia Earhart. She didn't need men telling her what to do. The Buddha and incense tell me that you are a spiritual person. Somebody who values that part of life just as much as your partners.

At some point, she explained to me that she had a boyfriend. She wanted to keep seeing me, though. She needed men because they were as she put it... "helpful. They do things for you and pay for things and take you places."

I talked to my best friend later and was outrageously mad. "Nobody does any of that for me!" I yelled.

You are confused as to how women can love you, and yet still want boyfriends on the side. You are trying to figure this out because you feel you are more than enough personality to go around.
You are missing a bit of the conversation here aren't we? lol You forgot to write down; Me:"I give them everything, all the love in the world, dedicate my whole life, I am an accepting and understanding person!" -
"Nobody does any of that for me!" I yelled..
You are angry at people who fail to recognize what love is. How powerful the emotions are to you. How they don't do everything in their power to keep it.

You are angry. You are bottling it up, because who the hell do you turn to with these kinds of things? Right now you are still at that train station and you need to find the right one to catch. San Francisco or your state of emotional and spiritual elegance is the light at the end of your tunnel. You need to learn to express the personality who you have been bottling on the inside. Everything you admire about Amelia Earhart can become a reality if you chose it to be so. What you need to visualize is, instead of trying to find a train to catch, you need to find your inner airplane and soar off into the skies. There is no use walking anywhere.

Stop expressing the fears that could eventuate in your relationships and learn how to take charge, this goes for your life as well.

When you start feeling comfortable in your own skin, in 'this' time and age, people will recognize that confidence and accept it as positivity.

Midnite

[Midwinter Mist]

She entered my dream again.

I was in an area where relatives live, standing inside some house. My phone started to ring. I didn't know the caller for sure, but the number was familiar and I suspected it could be an ex. I answered the phone and she started to speak, acting all friendly, but I didn't know the voice. I knew who it was, but this wasn't the right voice for her...

So, despite her being all friendly, I kept asking who it was, which made her turn horrible again. She didn't like that. Her negative approach was so clear.

There came I point where I was able to bluntly ask her (which I probably would have wanted) what it is I've done wrong. "What have I done wrong? Tell me right now what it is that I have actually done wrong?"

Now, I can't quite remember her words, but I know her response was similar to something TuningIn stated in his own experience. She sort of responded to make the point that she didn't even care, while still being horrible.

I was soon enough looking outside and thunder started to shake the dark sky. I mentioned this, and she continued to go against me. I said something along the words of, "No, I mean there's actual thunder."

I ended up going outside, and I had a ball, which was changing between a soccer ball, and possibly a cricket ball. It ended up going through the glass panel of someone's door, shattering it. I then worried and started to run, while contemplating just apologising and giving the money for damages. At the same time, I was still on the phone, and for some reason I wanted her to hear me running, so I increased the volume of my breathing as I moved quickly, but the more I ran, the more she began to fade away. More, and more, until she was eventually gone.


(By the way, what do dangerous dogs represent in dreams? I'm often being attacked by them and there was yet another in another dream.)

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

She entered my dream again.

I was in an area where relatives live, standing inside some house. My phone started to ring. I didn't know the caller for sure, but the number was familiar and I suspected it could be an ex. I answered the phone and she started to speak, acting all friendly, but I didn't know the voice. I knew who it was, but this wasn't the right voice for her...

So, despite her being all friendly, I kept asking who it was, which made her turn horrible again. She didn't like that. Her negative approach was so clear.

There came I point where I was able to bluntly ask her (which I probably would have wanted) what it is I've done wrong. "What have I done wrong? Tell me right now what it is that I have actually done wrong?"

Now, I can't quite remember her words, but I know her response was similar to something TuningIn stated in his own experience. She sort of responded to make the point that she didn't even care, while still being horrible.

I was soon enough looking outside and thunder started to shake the dark sky. I mentioned this, and she continued to go against me. I said something along the words of, "No, I mean there's actual thunder."

I ended up going outside, and I had a ball, which was changing between a soccer ball, and possibly a cricket ball. It ended up going through the glass panel of someone's door, shattering it. I then worried and started to run, while contemplating just apologising and giving the money for damages. At the same time, I was still on the phone, and for some reason I wanted her to hear me running, so I increased the volume of my breathing as I moved quickly, but the more I ran, the more she began to fade away. More, and more, until she was eventually gone.


(By the way, what do dangerous dogs represent in dreams? I'm often being attacked by them and there was yet another in another dream.)

Your dream seems to be the same as mine. What interested me the most was the ball, and the fact that it changed, symbolizing that it was not about a ball at all, but a metaphorical ball.

I find with women, they like to play games. I relate it to a tennis game, in which they hit the ball into my court to see what I will do with it, and I generally hit it back, and see what they will do.

Now, it seems to me, that you decided in your dream, to kick the ball out of the picture entirely, and even at the expense of damaging someone elses property (make this to mean whatever it means to you upon first reading), you kicked it away, wanted to apologize and pay for what you damaged, but realized that now the ball (game) was over, not allowing for "her" to "kick" it "back", you started running away from the "field" so to speak. You wanted her to know that you were running, and as you ran, she disappeared from the picture.

The first part of the dream, seems to be something my ex would have done... She seemed to always do it, put on this pretense of being someone different than who I knew, but I told her I could "feel" her spirit, so to speak, and I was not fooled. Much like you in this dream. When I did that, she became irritated with her inability to trick me again, which she had done so easily many times before, and thus, her "true colors shined through".

Congratulations. She may still pop up in your mind from time to time, but friend, do remember, that thoughts are ultimately just that, thoughts.... You cannot control them. They are not meant to be controlled. They are meant to be directed. I.E. do not let them trouble you, and they won't.

The dog question. I have no idea. Perhaps Midnite can help.

[Rookie]

Kind of a funny dream of mine.

So, a classmate of mine and I were on a train coming from the city(lets see how good you guys are - do you know what city I'm talking about?) heading back to school. I had lots of bags and stuff on my person for some reason. That's when I happened to meet a guy who I used to hang out with all the time.We talked, I took out my Nintendo DS and we both started playing it. After, I asked my classmate friend to take a picture of us, which she did. That's when the train came to a stop, and my buddy got off the train and so did I, but then, all the bags I was carrying kept falling all over the place, making me pick them up while my buddy got farther away. When I finally got everything together, the train doors were about to close, and sadly too, as I realized that I left my Nintendo DS on the train next to my classmate, who for some reason was no longer there as I looked through the window of the train as it left ...

What happened there? It was kind of a sad dream, but I didn't think too much of it. I just wanna hear some opinions.

[mrthejazz]

From what I can tell, most of the dreams I remember are either anxiety dreams or anti-authority dreams, where some character in power, frequently a cop or government agent does something ridiculously over the line. I am afraid of powerful people, but of course my dreams exaggerate it.

A few of my dreams don't fall into this pattern however. Here's the weirdest one I've had lately, and it was kind of fun and quirky.

Eight friends, all superheroes, are kidnapped by "Mr Freeze". I go on a hunt to find Mr. Freeze. When I do, he shows me little stickers with pictures of my friends and tries to bargain with me to give me the stickers back, as if the stickers were actually my friends.

I begin to realize he's stalling. I fight him and then get the stickers, and only then do I realize that the stickers aren't my friends for some reason.

I meet up with an old friend from college, and he tells me the true villain is "Master Deathlock" We together go on the chase. At this point the dream landscape changes and I'm in some kind of bar or pool hall. I had met Mr Freeze in my parent's house, more specifically, my mother's office (she works at home).

Everybody is enslaved to this Master Deathlock guy, but one teenager grabs a pool cue and helps us try to stage a resistance. I woke up before the dream ended, but I remember wondering if my college friend was actually this master deathlock all along, as he was the one who informed me.

I have no idea if this is any kind of "enlightening" dream, but I did want to share it with you guys. Enjoy.

[Rookie]

Bumped.