Dream Interpretation Requests

[LuisSuarez]

Hi all,

I'm desperate for some help with this, so bear with me.

The dreams have contained people from my old school, but ultimately, 3 of my friends have dominated my dreams, always being with me. I'll call them Friend A, B, and C.

Friends A and B have been in every dream, but they aren't as clear. Friend C is extremely clear. A few nights ago, I asked before I went to sleep for a clear message about my future to be sent. I dreamt that night about Friend C's mother dying from cancer. The thing is, Friend C's mother had cancer 4 years ago, and was warned about it returning. However, the dream occured in Malaysia where mum is staying, with a fraction of it taking place at my old school.

I'm struggling to sleep because I know that the moment I go to sleep, I'll have a dream about those same three friends and the year group I was in forming the background of the dream. I struggle with lucid dreaming, only getting it to work once, but anything I've looked up on the web about friends in dreams of the like has proved futile.

I've had a feeling for 4 years or so that a friend will die, mainly in thought form. Last night, I dreamed that I died.

Any help is much appreciated. Thanks.

[NoJobRob]

I had a dream last night that me and some other people were held against our will but we got away in a school bus. Then the guy who was holding us hostage climbed in through the back door of the school bus while we were driving away and he had a shotgun, but I was able to take it from him. I tried to shoot him but the gun wouldn't shoot. That's all I remember.

[Dynamist]

After getting off of an island by swimming, I then began to swim towards a dark sea cave. In this cave are mutants. But I was to swim through this cave to battle with a bad mutant.

Upon entering the cave, there are three snakes. One was a deep sea snake and was yellow/ invisible, the other was red, and the biggest one was blue. These three snakes agreed to help me if I needed it. I swam into the cave and began to search.

I don't remember if I saw the bad guy, battled the bad guy, or what. I just know that I began to swim out of the cave quickly because something was chasing me! The blue snake helped me escape as it is the fastest. As this thing is chasing me I make it to the hood of the cave where the red snake is and it jumped up and hit the bad guy on the head and began to run with me. The yellow snake then jumped up at the entrance and pulled the bad guy down. This snake then also had to run.

We got onto land but the big blue snake could not move on land. I did not realize this in the dream, but the other snakes had transformed to human form. In the dream, these snakes had the torso of a person, but tales like snakes. The yellow and the red snake help me carry the blue snake.

We're walking down the path laughing and joking and the big blue snake is very heavy. I place the snake around my neck and show the others to do the same. They agree it's easier this way. While on the path, the blue snake notices a bald headed man, who's black, walking by. She gasps and I take it to mean that she has a crush on the guy. When she jumps, my feet and the other's feet gives way and we fall. But she then begins to yell, "LOOK OUT!" and when I look, there is a baby snake charging at us. But I do not know if the snake is charging at me because of the big blue snake or if it was after us all this time. I push back and dodge. The blue snake then says again, "LOOK OUT!" and there is a another small snake charging at me to bite. The same happens again and again until I wake up.

[Summerbreeze]

Hi,

seems like a very symbolic dream.

Snakes are very often representing new birth/renewal and I tend to relate the colors to the chakras.

Maybe this helps with finding meaning, If I'm honest it's seems to individual an complex to see it from my perspective.

I just assume that you are playing with perspectives/opportunities and I have the impression that you are dealing with everything as you think it should be and look for a way to go over obstacles.

~sb

[Dynamist]

Originally Posted by Summerbreeze

Hi,

seems like a very symbolic dream.

Snakes are very often representing new birth/renewal and I tend to relate the colors to the chakras.

Maybe this helps with finding meaning, If I'm honest it's seems to individual an complex to see it from my perspective.

I just assume that you are playing with perspectives/opportunities and I have the impression that you are dealing with everything as you think it should be and look for a way to go over obstacles.

~sb

Thanks summerbreeze,

My mom has been having dreams about snakes biting her lately. But they never kill her. So when i also had a snake dream like this with snakes trying to bite me and I'm dodging...I didn't know what it meant. On the flip side, some of these snakes seemed to be helping me too.My mom told me that snakes mean something bad. But those 3 snakes seemed to help me out. The others...not so much. So I dont know. She said I'm carrying the snake so I'm holding something bad.

That was her perception of it...

[nothingyouwanttoknow]

I don't know if this belongs here exactly, but one night before going to bed I told my guardian angel (I read the most benevolent outcome thread; I said it in my mind, not aloud, and just a "GA, please help me to ____" way, not in the format prescribed in that thread) to help me become a more positive person.

That night I dreamed of a person I still have issues with. I had recounted my story with her in another thread here (heard a voice - help?), but to summarize: she used to be part of my group of friends in high school until she turned out to be this scary green-eyed monster who started stalking, in her own subtle way, a friend of mine whose artistic talents she was jealous of. The issue was never resolved, though we did have outwardly friendly conversations whenever I happened to pass by her in college (we went to the same one). As I had said in that thread, over the past five or so years I had twice heard her calling out to me without her being anywhere near where I was.

I dreamed she was doing something awful to me, either spying on me or plagiarizing my work (I want to be an author in real life) through some magical means, or both, and that she was using some sort of hypnotic voice (think sirens from Greek mythology) to tell me to commit suicide. It was something I couldn't prove, and I silently seethed. I couldn't even tell my friends about it, even the friend in real life who hated her the most. We were still in high school back then.

Somehow, however, I was able to accuse her out loud. We and some other people from my class were sitting Indian-style on the floor in some narrow corridor. She did the siren-voice (I couldn't remember exactly what she said, just that it was subtly implying I should kill myself), which nobody noticed - everybody was talking about or doing something else, and she was looking at me blankly while she said it. It was a soft, quiet voice, very gentle. I grabbed her by the head, held the head in my hands in front of me, and told everyone about what she was doing to me, including her telling me to kill myself to get rid of the evidence and my conviction not to commit suicide because it would mean she had won. I wanted desperately for people to listen and believe me, and I saw some of them were paying attention. Some were starting to turn their attention to me too. She didn't say a word or even thrash about the whole time I was ranting, just stayed there almost limp as a doll except that for some reason I was holding her forcefully.

Then I woke up.

It's particularly unsettling for me since I have been playing with the idea of committing suicide - in a purely hypothetical "what-if" way, mind you, the same way I daydream or think about premises for my stories. I in no way am seriously thinking of killing myself, nor do I think I would be capable of it (I am an all-head-no-heart kind of person, and anyway I'd be too cowardly to even try).

So is it a message? Just a normal dream with a meaning that doesn't have anything to do with my GA (and what meaning could it have?)? Or am I just being neurotic?

EDIT: I'd graduated from college two years ago, if that's of any importance.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by nothingyouwanttoknow

I don't know if this belongs here exactly, but one night before going to bed I told my guardian angel (I read the most benevolent outcome thread; I said it in my mind, not aloud, and just a "GA, please help me to ____" way, not in the format prescribed in that thread) to help me become a more positive person.

That night I dreamed of a person I still have issues with. I had recounted my story with her in another thread here (heard a voice - help?), but to summarize: she used to be part of my group of friends in high school until she turned out to be this scary green-eyed monster who started stalking, in her own subtle way, a friend of mine whose artistic talents she was jealous of. The issue was never resolved, though we did have outwardly friendly conversations whenever I happened to pass by her in college (we went to the same one). As I had said in that thread, over the past five or so years I had twice heard her calling out to me without her being anywhere near where I was.

I dreamed she was doing something awful to me, either spying on me or plagiarizing my work (I want to be an author in real life) through some magical means, or both, and that she was using some sort of hypnotic voice (think sirens from Greek mythology) to tell me to commit suicide. It was something I couldn't prove, and I silently seethed. I couldn't even tell my friends about it, even the friend in real life who hated her the most. We were still in high school back then.

Somehow, however, I was able to accuse her out loud. We and some other people from my class were sitting Indian-style on the floor in some narrow corridor. She did the siren-voice (I couldn't remember exactly what she said, just that it was subtly implying I should kill myself), which nobody noticed - everybody was talking about or doing something else, and she was looking at me blankly while she said it. It was a soft, quiet voice, very gentle. I grabbed her by the head, held the head in my hands in front of me, and told everyone about what she was doing to me, including her telling me to kill myself to get rid of the evidence and my conviction not to commit suicide because it would mean she had won. I wanted desperately for people to listen and believe me, and I saw some of them were paying attention. Some were starting to turn their attention to me too. She didn't say a word or even thrash about the whole time I was ranting, just stayed there almost limp as a doll except that for some reason I was holding her forcefully.

Then I woke up.

It's particularly unsettling for me since I have been playing with the idea of committing suicide - in a purely hypothetical "what-if" way, mind you, the same way I daydream or think about premises for my stories. I in no way am seriously thinking of killing myself, nor do I think I would be capable of it (I am an all-head-no-heart kind of person, and anyway I'd be too cowardly to even try).

So is it a message? Just a normal dream with a meaning that doesn't have anything to do with my GA (and what meaning could it have?)? Or am I just being neurotic?

EDIT: I'd graduated from college two years ago, if that's of any importance.

You asked your Guardian Angel to show you how to make you a more positive person. And your Guardian Angel did exactly that.

You asked for help, but instead of some prophesy about spiritual realism, you received a more personalised message straight from the deepest and darkest pits of your very soul. In fact, what I believe you experienced is what I term as a psychological nightmare.

Unfortunately for us, traumatic experiences (as well as traumatic people) impact our lives, until we learn to drag them up, effectively deal with them and move on to become a more learned and enlightened person.

I don't know why I feel this, but it's just what I got when I thought about her. You managed to effectively create a monster from what seemed to be a girl who may have once secretly admired you. But then encountered the strength of your friendship with your best mate, and to what may of started off as innocent admiration, soon turned into all-out hostility.

"The issue was never resolved, though we did have outwardly friendly conversations whenever I happened to pass by her in college"

Yeah... she never disliked you.

"That night I dreamed of a person I still have issues with".

That is exactly right, you have issues.
What you need to do is face up to the fact that you are protecting your friends, to your own psychological detriment.

Q: Has this girl placed a spell on you?
A: No

Q: Is this girl sabotaging your life?
A: No

Your mind is a very powerful tool. It can effectively realise your worst nightmares and personify some of the most dark aspects of human contempt, because that is exactly what you are thinking about and ultimately manifesting in your life. You are manifesting your fears, because they are still hovering around and you are trying to force them deeper down, instead of letting them come to light and facing your demons.

And then you encountered her in your 'school' hallway. School was where it all started. And your friends were there. The very people you were trying to protect when you confronted her and accused her out loud. Tried to bring her into the limelight, expose the ensuing evil within, take care of the problem. But your friends weren't listening to you? They were ignoring your attempts to show them the 'real' monster within her.
The psychological need to be heard and respected by others is quite powerful. To the point where you were even facing your nightmare, all to try and protect the people you love.

"She didn't say a word or even thrash about the whole time I was ranting, just stayed there almost limp as a doll except that for some reason I was holding her forcefully".

Yes! This is the best sentence in your whole dream. She was acting like a doll. Exactly like a voodoo doll of your subconscious mind, that was moving her around and puppeteering her until she realised your darkest fears. The very words out of her mouth sounded like it was from the Devil himself. But the thing to remember is that she didn't resonate a doll until you directly confronted her, then only realising she was a moving puppet.

Solution:
You have to come to the realisation that this girl is not the puppet of evil. She is in fact the puppet of fears that you are not able to protect your friends against what you seem to think is scary. The sooner you realise that this isn't your job, the sooner you will be able to move on with your life. Your friends are more than capable of solving their own problems and protecting themselves.

In regards to the voices you have been hearing. I have one of two explanations;
Firstly that your mind is more powerful than you ever thought imagined, and is actually portraying your fears, not only within your dreams, but creating a truthfully psychological nightmare straight into reality itself.
Or, Secondly, (please excuse me if I'm wrong, I just don't know why I keep going back here...) that very deep down. If the whole scary green-eyed monster thing didn't exist. You may actually like this girl. And you may have actually wanted to hear her calling your name.

btw you are not a suicidal person. Trust me. I have been there. Stop dreaming about suicide and start dreaming about having a less dramatic social life

[Yunique]

I don't really remember my dreams, but this one happened about 5 days ago, but I only remember a portion of it.

I was living in this house, which I can only describe as old and decrepit. I had only just put my eldest daughter to bed (but she appears as a child, she is 24yrs), she drank a glass of water put it back on her bedside table and mentioned the number 10, can't remember in what content, I only remember the number 10 spoken by her.

Anyway, I turn the light off and leave the room as she settles down into her bed, then a notes on a piano start playing from her room as I walk away. My immediate thought is there is a ghost in her room, but I also know she is not scared.

Then I either dreamt somemore and can't remember or woke out of my sleep.

Everysince I have been looking out for the number 10 to appear in a specific way or piano..........not happen though

Bizarre

[Artisan78]

First dream-Happened Sunday night-- Myself, my husband and two friends were out camping (picture alaska in the summer) and we were walking thru the woods and we saw a bear. I don't remember if we were hunting animals or photographing animals but my husband and two friends decided i should kill the bear and they left me there and went back to camp. Anyhow, the bear went to attack me and i did some weird ha-cha stuff and kicked him and hit his throat and killed it... the end.. (sorry so vague-that was all i could remember when i woke that morning)

Second dream-Happened Monday night--The dream started where myself, my husband, our 2 daughters and a couple other kids and our two small dogs were in our house and it caught fire. It was an intense heat type of fire. We could not get out, until i was able to break a window. I was able to get the kids out and the dogs but my husband didn't want to leave. (that is all i remember. i'm not sure if i got out or we both did)

Any clue??????? I'm kinda leery of what i'm gonna dream tonight... i will be sure to write it down also though.

Thanks!!!!!
Crystal

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Artisan78

First dream-Happened Sunday night-- Myself, my husband and two friends were out camping (picture alaska in the summer) and we were walking thru the woods and we saw a bear. I don't remember if we were hunting animals or photographing animals but my husband and two friends decided i should kill the bear and they left me there and went back to camp. Anyhow, the bear went to attack me and i did some weird ha-cha stuff and kicked him and hit his throat and killed it... the end.. (sorry so vague-that was all i could remember when i woke that morning)

Second dream-Happened Monday night--The dream started where myself, my husband, our 2 daughters and a couple other kids and our two small dogs were in our house and it caught fire. It was an intense heat type of fire. We could not get out, until i was able to break a window. I was able to get the kids out and the dogs but my husband didn't want to leave. (that is all i remember. i'm not sure if i got out or we both did)

Any clue??????? I'm kinda leery of what i'm gonna dream tonight... i will be sure to write it down also though.

Thanks!!!!!
Crystal

Very deep down, I think you feel your husband isn't facing his own problems, or doing his active part in your family. Being a Mom means that you not only have the responsibility over your own life, but the lives of those around you too. You have no problem in taking on this level of responsibility, but you however seem to think its "all" falling on you, and not being divided amongst the two parents equally.

In your first dream in the wilderness;

"my husband and two friends decided i should kill the bear and they left me there and went back to camp

is a perfect example of exactly what's going on. The bear may represent a particular fear, challenge, or even daunting task at hand. The fact that you effectively 'killed' the bear on your own is a sign that you are not the one having problems.

"and they left me there and went back to camp"

ahuh...

In the second dream, it even came to the point where your entire house was burning down. And there you were, saving the family, getting everyone out. Even in those dire circumstances your husband didn't feel the need to react. This is just a subconscious projection that even if the house was burning down, you feel he wouldn't lift a finger.

My only solution is that you may need to consult him about the division of duties and tasks around the household. He needs to understand that you are a person to, and only have so much energy to go around.

and btw

"i did some weird ha-cha stuff"

LOL.... do you mean karate?

[nothingyouwanttoknow]

Originally Posted by Midnite

You asked your Guardian Angel to show you how to make you a more positive person. And your Guardian Angel did exactly that.

You asked for help, but instead of some prophesy about spiritual realism, you received a more personalised message straight from the deepest and darkest pits of your very soul. In fact, what I believe you experienced is what I term as a psychological nightmare.

Unfortunately for us, traumatic experiences (as well as traumatic people) impact our lives, until we learn to drag them up, effectively deal with them and move on to become a more learned and enlightened person.

I don't know why I feel this, but it's just what I got when I thought about her. You managed to effectively create a monster from what seemed to be a girl who may have once secretly admired you. But then encountered the strength of your friendship with your best mate, and to what may of started off as innocent admiration, soon turned into all-out hostility.

Yeah... she never disliked you.



That is exactly right, you have issues.
What you need to do is face up to the fact that you are protecting your friends, to your own psychological detriment.

Q: Has this girl placed a spell on you?
A: No

Q: Is this girl sabotaging your life?
A: No

Your mind is a very powerful tool. It can effectively realise your worst nightmares and personify some of the most dark aspects of human contempt, because that is exactly what you are thinking about and ultimately manifesting in your life. You are manifesting your fears, because they are still hovering around and you are trying to force them deeper down, instead of letting them come to light and facing your demons.

And then you encountered her in your 'school' hallway. School was where it all started. And your friends were there. The very people you were trying to protect when you confronted her and accused her out loud. Tried to bring her into the limelight, expose the ensuing evil within, take care of the problem. But your friends weren't listening to you? They were ignoring your attempts to show them the 'real' monster within her.
The psychological need to be heard and respected by others is quite powerful. To the point where you were even facing your nightmare, all to try and protect the people you love.


Yes! This is the best sentence in your whole dream. She was acting like a doll. Exactly like a voodoo doll of your subconscious mind, that was moving her around and puppeteering her until she realised your darkest fears. The very words out of her mouth sounded like it was from the Devil himself. But the thing to remember is that she didn't resonate a doll until you directly confronted her, then only realising she was a moving puppet.

Solution:
You have to come to the realisation that this girl is not the puppet of evil. She is in fact the puppet of fears that you are not able to protect your friends against what you seem to think is scary. The sooner you realise that this isn't your job, the sooner you will be able to move on with your life. Your friends are more than capable of solving their own problems and protecting themselves.

In regards to the voices you have been hearing. I have one of two explanations;
Firstly that your mind is more powerful than you ever thought imagined, and is actually portraying your fears, not only within your dreams, but creating a truthfully psychological nightmare straight into reality itself.
Or, Secondly, (please excuse me if I'm wrong, I just don't know why I keep going back here...) that very deep down. If the whole scary green-eyed monster thing didn't exist. You may actually like this girl. And you may have actually wanted to hear her calling your name.

btw you are not a suicidal person. Trust me. I have been there. Stop dreaming about suicide and start dreaming about having a less dramatic social life

Actually, that whole scary green-eyed monster thing did happen. I found out later that this girl had been spoiled by her family - she's the golden girl, got all the attention and praise, especially since she has a special-child sister. She was trying to outdo everyone at everything and became frustrated when she didn't succeed or whenever she felt thwarted, entitled as she is to become the Mozart-Shakespeare-Da Vinci of the era. She's always fished around (her MO: be outwardly friendly to the people she envies or thinks can be of some use to her to make them feel at ease and tell her things she can later use to "surpass/defeat" them and be the great genius of the era she was meant to be), asking us how and where we got our ideas, who our favorite authors were, etc., which we didn't think anything of until things went sour. But it was my artist-poet friend she was really envious of because she was the one person this girl couldn't "defeat". She just...can't take the possibility that there's someone better than her. The spotlight's for her alone.

E.g., Someone from our batch (not even a friend of hers) is a great singer, and sang at the prom. Later, in the bathroom, she was harping on about how the performance and the performer sucked and gave demonstrations about how it should have been sung. And she used to do the same thing whenever she was outdone by any of my friends.

Also, during the time things began to go sour, she tried her fishing MO with me for the nth time. I was in a bad mood at the time and I didn't want to deal with another annoyance, so I told her I didn't know the answer to whatever she was asking. My artist-poet friend, who used to sit beside this girl since the seating arrangement was alphabetical, later told me that she had returned to her seat angry, saying how she hated me being closed-mouthed about my ideas and where I got them, and whatever-else it was she was fishing for that day.

She used to closely and regularly watch my artist-poet friend sketch. And, as silly and childish as it sounds, she actually had this "shared notebook-journal" for her and my artist friend - my friend was supposed to write any thought that crossed her mind, every day, on the journal. Which of course she took home with her.

College was no better - when she asked about my artist friend (I told her that she did galleries now), she got a look on her face I didn't like, which she tried hiding by smiling. (Of course she asked where the galleries were, and she got the same look when I refused to tell her.)

Once, she tried to get me to join a writer's workshop she was joining, "because she wanted to see how good I really was", in her own words.

I'm sorry I hadn't been clear about the "almost as limp as a doll" part. In the dream she didn't resist by force. Her resistance was the "I'm going to be the strong and silent type, act as the wronged but dignified victim, so the others will sympathize, respect and be in awe of me; next to me, who'll believe her now?" type.

Er, no, I don't like her. I just stay away from her as much as I can.

[Midnite]

How is this girl affecting your life soo much?

More importantly why have you let her affect you even at all?

I think you feel that she was using you, in order to gain advantages over your artistic/poetic friend. Do not let her methods of sabotage be psychologically detrimental. Which relays back to my original prognosis that you may possibly be 'over-protecting' your friends.

Instead of waking up to the fact that she is nothing in your life, you are still adding details to the design of your perfect subconscious monster.

[Artisan78]

wowza.. that explains a lot!!!! let me give ya some background. we just bought a house in october. (our last house actually burnt down-we weren't home at the time) it was built in the 1860's and has been neglected a little. we have had to do alot of fixing this and that.. did i mention it is a 3400 square foot house? Ya!! anyhow, he has not lifted a single finger to help me clean or put stuff away or even hang pictures or anything of that nature. one person making sure this house is farely spotless, kids taken care of, supper fixed, plus me time.. HA!! he works from 8 am to about 5ish everyday. and i know his arguement will be, but your home all day.. you can handle it. well i am burnt out!!!! i am not a clean freak. if my floor is dirty or dishes dirty or what have you and someone comes over, i politely say kiss my a$$, clean it if it bothers you. =D

my girls are 9 and 12 and they help when i threaten them. (no computer or tv or no crafts) me and my girls love art, so crafts is a big part of things they love to do.
Anyhow!!! i wanted to give you some background as to why what you said hit the nail on the head!! i have had a lot of dreams about my husband these past few months.. it's getting really annoying. lol

and yes i meant karate. lol

Thank you for your interpretation..!.. i def feel better! =D

[nothingyouwanttoknow]

Originally Posted by Midnite

How is this girl affecting your life soo much?

More importantly why have you let her affect you even at all?

I think you feel that she was using you, in order to gain advantages over your artistic/poetic friend. Do not let her methods of sabotage be psychologically detrimental. Which relays back to my original prognosis that you may possibly be 'over-protecting' your friends.

Instead of waking up to the fact that she is nothing in your life, you are still adding details to the design of your perfect subconscious monster.

The examples I'd written down were to show that she's not the innocent-admirer victim you thought she was. She was a narcissist.

It was hard not getting affected by someone like that during high school. The situation was never resolved, she was never sorry and continued being envious particularly of my friend. When I was in college (during the times I heard her voice), I couldn't avoid running into her from time to time since we went to the same university. And she never changed, only got better - she still was fishing around for stuff about us, particularly my friend. My other friends, who regularly attend our high school reunions (I don't, but not because I want to avoid her), say she hasn't changed. Still fishing around.

After high school, I wasn't really thinking about her - to us, she was out of sight, out of mind. Which is why the voices and the dream disturbed me - why now? She's not a part of our lives anymore except as a past annoyance reappearing from time to time. Of course, a past annoyance I wanted to minimize exposure to (who wants to be pestered?), which is why, for example, I take a different route if I happened to see her.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by nothingyouwanttoknow

The examples I'd written down were to show that she's not the innocent-admirer victim you thought she was. She was a narcissist.

It was hard not getting affected by someone like that during high school. The situation was never resolved, she was never sorry and continued being envious particularly of my friend. When I was in college (during the times I heard her voice), I couldn't avoid running into her from time to time since we went to the same university. And she never changed, only got better - she still was fishing around for stuff about us, particularly my friend. My other friends, who regularly attend our high school reunions (I don't, but not because I want to avoid her), say she hasn't changed. Still fishing around.

After high school, I wasn't really thinking about her - to us, she was out of sight, out of mind. Which is why the voices and the dream disturbed me - why now? She's not a part of our lives anymore except as a past annoyance reappearing from time to time. Of course, a past annoyance I wanted to minimize exposure to (who wants to be pestered?), which is why, for example, I take a different route if I happened to see her.

Why Now?
You asked you Guardian Angel show you how to become a more positive person. Being positive is a state of mental as well as physical freedom. You have a scary green-eyed monster shackled at the bottom of your heart. And that monster obviously still affects you.
Remember what I said?

Unfortunately for us, traumatic experiences (as well as traumatic people) impact our lives, until we learn to drag them up, effectively deal with them and move on to become a more learned and enlightened person.

The laws of manifestation are bound around the very thoughts in your head. What you think about, is what appears in your life. Even if you think "I don't want to see her", your mind is stripping your thoughts to the bare essential power words "I - see - her".
Whether your thinking positive or negative things about her, you are thinking about her nonetheless.

You need to make a mental affirmation that this person has not and will no longer affect you.

One of my family members within his last week of life here on Earth, knew that he was dying. Even at that most extreme moment he made time to go and personally visit a man who he thought his mortal enemy. For years they were at each other's necks, never ceasing. Upon seeing his 'enemy', he kneeled down on the floor in front of him and said 'please forgive me...".
The people around him were soo stunned, they nearly fell off their chairs.
He knew at the bottom of his heart that unless he made amends, he would take that quarrel into the next life.

So I say; Make amends and go on to loving the world instead of fearing it.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Yunique

I don't really remember my dreams, but this one happened about 5 days ago, but I only remember a portion of it.

I was living in this house, which I can only describe as old and decrepit. I had only just put my eldest daughter to bed (but she appears as a child, she is 24yrs), she drank a glass of water put it back on her bedside table and mentioned the number 10, can't remember in what content, I only remember the number 10 spoken by her.

Anyway, I turn the light off and leave the room as she settles down into her bed, then a notes on a piano start playing from her room as I walk away. My immediate thought is there is a ghost in her room, but I also know she is not scared.

Then I either dreamt somemore and can't remember or woke out of my sleep.

Everysince I have been looking out for the number 10 to appear in a specific way or piano..........not happen though

Bizarre

Sounds like a scene from 'The Others'. lol
I'm kind of really drawn to the part when you close the bedroom door and as you walk away piano notes start playing...

Before I give you any real interpretation; I have a couple of questions:

Firstly, who do you know who is born on the 10th? They can be any family/friend living, or even passed on.

If nobody is born on the 10th, it could possibly be that your daughter was 10 yrs old in the dream. Without any real significance to that exact age, it is quite a common occurrence for young children to not only see ghosts/spirits but also commune with them too. This may sound strange, but in rare cases children may also befriend ghosts without any problems; sometimes letting others know, and sometimes not at all...

With the piano notes themselves, its quite interesting that you had left the room before hearing them, but you knew exactly what they meant;
your child was not 'alone'.
Meaning this 'friendship' was something of a secret, or something behind closed doors.
May I ask if anybody in your family plays the piano. Once again this member of the family may be living, or even passed on.

The whole decrepit house thing, is just a realistic subconscious projection so you could truly believe the house could have been haunted.

Once you answer the quesitons, I will be able to tell you more.

[Yunique]

Thanks for taking the time to reply Midnight..........it felt like a scene from the others Lol.

Before I answer your questions, let me tell you what happened 2 nights ago.

As previously stated, although in the dream my daughter was younger, she is in reality 24yrs old and no longer lives with me, but shares a house with a female housemate.

At about 2amish the night before last, just when I was drifting off to sleep, my phone rang on my bedside table, it was my daughter. The first thing she told me was not to worry, which of course put me on alert straightaway!

A man had just tried to break into their house, through the flat mates bedroom window which is downstairs, except the window is only small and only fit his head and top part of his shoulders, so he wasn't getting in anyway! if only he had the intellect to know this

Anyway her flat mate was bashing him on the head to keep him out, until he finally retreated. They believe the man was drunk or on drugs and not a typical burgular, the police were called and attended straightaway but couldn't find the man after patrolling the area.

So was my dream related to this incident in a way? Although he wasn't trying to get into my daughters room, he was in effect trying to get a room, relating to the part in my dream where someone was in her room once I walked out?

Getting back to some of your questions, no-one in my family is born on the 10th, the door number my daughter lives at is not a no. 10, there doesn't seem to be any significant relevance to the number.

In relation to my daughter when she was younger, I do believe she saw things when she was little, she never liked going to bed and the majority of times would crawl into my bed during the middle of the night, right upto the age of 6yrs old and only stopped when her sister was born, it was like she kinda grew up overnight in this aspect. There would be no drama's at bedtime, she wouldn't be scared going to bed any longer.

I always felt from the time she was little, that she had a old soul if that is possible, she always seemed wise and a thoughtful child. Don't get me wrong she could be difficult and stubborn, but I always felt she had walked the earth before and she was sent to me (if its possible and now I'm writing it may sound ridiculous) not as a guardian angel but something similiar, because there were times especially when I was younger and I had a lot of problems that she kept me sane, where I didn't resort to doing anything stupid, but maybe that could be said about any parent.

I think I digressed, I was not thinking about her in particular way, when I had the dream. When she first moved out over a year ago, I thought of her safety in living alone/away from home, like any parent would do, but haven't had these type of thoughts for a longtime as I have got used to her living on her own.

Do you think my thoughts way back then, could of manifested this incident happening, thats if you believe its connect at all.

Just remembered your comment about anyone in the family who plays the piano! My niece, who I haven't spoken to in a while due to a family disprute involving my sister, her mum. About 2-3 months ago I found out some health news regarding my sister, who has vanished off the face of the earth, well it seems like that to us, we can't locate her. I was worried about my nieces and nephew, what they must be going through, in relation to my sisters health scare. I had tried contacting them through their last social networking accounts etc, but to no avail. So don't know if this is connected in some way.

It maybe the case, that none of the above will apply

Grateful for your feedback Yunique x

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Yunique

Thanks for taking the time to reply Midnight..........it felt like a scene from the others Lol.

Before I answer your questions, let me tell you what happened 2 nights ago.

As previously stated, although in the dream my daughter was younger, she is in reality 24yrs old and no longer lives with me, but shares a house with a female housemate.

At about 2amish the night before last, just when I was drifting off to sleep, my phone rang on my bedside table, it was my daughter. The first thing she told me was not to worry, which of course put me on alert straightaway!

A man had just tried to break into their house, through the flat mates bedroom window which is downstairs, except the window is only small and only fit his head and top part of his shoulders, so he wasn't getting in anyway! if only he had the intellect to know this

Anyway her flat mate was bashing him on the head to keep him out, until he finally retreated. They believe the man was drunk or on drugs and not a typical burgular, the police were called and attended straightaway but couldn't find the man after patrolling the area.

So was my dream related to this incident in a way? Although he wasn't trying to get into my daughters room, he was in effect trying to get a room, relating to the part in my dream where someone was in her room once I walked out?

Getting back to some of your questions, no-one in my family is born on the 10th, the door number my daughter lives at is not a no. 10, there doesn't seem to be any significant relevance to the number.

In relation to my daughter when she was younger, I do believe she saw things when she was little, she never liked going to bed and the majority of times would crawl into my bed during the middle of the night, right upto the age of 6yrs old and only stopped when her sister was born, it was like she kinda grew up overnight in this aspect. There would be no drama's at bedtime, she wouldn't be scared going to bed any longer.

I always felt from the time she was little, that she had a old soul if that is possible, she always seemed wise and a thoughtful child. Don't get me wrong she could be difficult and stubborn, but I always felt she had walked the earth before and she was sent to me (if its possible and now I'm writing it may sound ridiculous) not as a guardian angel but something similiar, because there were times especially when I was younger and I had a lot of problems that she kept me sane, where I didn't resort to doing anything stupid, but maybe that could be said about any parent.

I think I digressed, I was not thinking about her in particular way, when I had the dream. When she first moved out over a year ago, I thought of her safety in living alone/away from home, like any parent would do, but haven't had these type of thoughts for a longtime as I have got used to her living on her own.

Do you think my thoughts way back then, could of manifested this incident happening, thats if you believe its connect at all.

Just remembered your comment about anyone in the family who plays the piano! My niece, who I haven't spoken to in a while due to a family disprute involving my sister, her mum. About 2-3 months ago I found out some health news regarding my sister, who has vanished off the face of the earth, well it seems like that to us, we can't locate her. I was worried about my nieces and nephew, what they must be going through, in relation to my sisters health scare. I had tried contacting them through their last social networking accounts etc, but to no avail. So don't know if this is connected in some way.

It maybe the case, that none of the above will apply

Grateful for your feedback Yunique x

Hi Yunique,

I'm afraid the mystery of the Number 10 is still at large! Isn't it strange, that out of the whole conversation, that was the only thing you could remember.

It is one of the most enlightening aspects of reincarnation to find out that your children have a soul much older than yours. Some people just find it hard to accept that their children may very well be more wise and much more fearless in life, as they have been reincarnated so many times before. Sometimes they can say the most profound things, and sometimes they can even help us along the way, just how your daughter helped you so many times in the past.

I understand now why you felt that your daughter wasn't scared, while she was 'alone' in the room. Even in your dream, your subconscious mind realises that your daughter is not one to be frightened very easily, more specifically when concerning spiritual things 'from the other side'. At the moment when you were leaving the room and realised there was a ghost in there with your daughter, these deeply embedded feelings were very much present. Her tolerance for ghosts and understanding of things you may not necessarily know about is the very reason for why you feel your daughter is a much more stronger person.

At the surface your dream seems quite eerie, however once you really think about it, it actually seems quite beautiful.

I don't believe this dream was sent to you in order to scare you in any way, but more so to the fact, to incite a feeling that answers a question every mother thinks about before she sleeps at night;
Are my children doing ok?
Especially when they leave home, parents can get quite stressed over their children. These fears do play into your subconscious mind and sometimes come to surface at the most unexpected times.

Most mothers would feel completely terrified if they learnt a ghost was in the same room as their child. But you weren't. Your daughter's bravery and ability to handle such situations, was such a sure thing that you kept walking. You didn't stop and run back to check on her... you kept walking.

Sometimes dreams can be quite scary in order to drive home a message. It doesn't necessarily mean that your house is haunted, or there are ghosts playing Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata No.14 up in your child's bedroom

I can only contemplate as to what that message is. I do believe it goes something along the lines; Even if life presents a situation that you may believe is quite scary, deep down inside you already know that your daughter is able to take care of herself. This should be quite warming, as I know a few people who couldn't say the same thing for their daughters...

To answer your first question about the attempted robbery;

So was my dream related to this incident in a way? Although he wasn't trying to get into my daughters room, he was in effect trying to get a room, relating to the part in my dream where someone was in her room once I walked out?

I don't believe this is connected on the surface, I do however feel it may be connected by the underlying emotions much described by the message of your dream.

Just remembered your comment about anyone in the family who plays the piano! My niece, who I haven't spoken to in a while due to a family dispute involving my sister, her mum. About 2-3 months ago I found out some health news regarding my sister, who has vanished off the face of the earth, well it seems like that to us, we can't locate her. I was worried about my nieces and nephew, what they must be going through, in relation to my sisters health scare. I had tried contacting them through their last social networking accounts etc, but to no avail. So don't know if this is connected in some way.

I do not believe your niece is outwardly connected. I was however asking who played the piano in order to maybe try and establish a family member who had a friendship with your daughter. I am however quite convinced your niece isn't connected, due to the fact that it was your daughter in the bed, and not your niece. This does however establish why you were hearing a piano, and maybe not a violin... lol
There is this personalisation aspect to pianos, especially around young girls in your family that seem to worry you? This may very well have triggered your dream in the first place.

I hope that helps

[AlmostGodess]

Dear friends,

I had a dream last night which kind of tortures me and I need your help.

I dreamt that my parents organised a wedding for me and that I was supposed to marry someone I did not know. In the dream, we were waiting for my groom. I was dressed in a wedding dress and was very unhappy. My cousin was jealous that it is me, not her, who was getting married. I was feeling that, even if I don't wan to get married, this is what normal people do and that I should do it. Whan my grrom came, I thought that he was ok, but that his nose was too big. I was upset with my parents' choice and with the fact that they seem to be unable to understand what kind of partner I need. I was looking in the mirror to put on some mascara and I saw in the mirror someone who was sad and ugly and not me.
While waiting for my groom, I saw my ex who was going to play golf and I felt sad that it was not him who was marrying me.

After a while, me and my husband were visiting his family who was very well of. I was telling myself "Look, his sister is doing so great, your husband must be great too."

Now, the reason why I feel troubled is that in my country seeing yourself as a bride means death. Also, I don't come from a country were parents arrange marriages.

Thank you for your help!

[nothingyouwanttoknow]

Originally Posted by Midnite

Why Now?
You asked you Guardian Angel show you how to become a more positive person. Being positive is a state of mental as well as physical freedom. You have a scary green-eyed monster shackled at the bottom of your heart. And that monster obviously still affects you.
Remember what I said?

The laws of manifestation are bound around the very thoughts in your head. What you think about, is what appears in your life. Even if you think "I don't want to see her", your mind is stripping your thoughts to the bare essential power words "I - see - her".
Whether your thinking positive or negative things about her, you are thinking about her nonetheless.

You need to make a mental affirmation that this person has not and will no longer affect you.

One of my family members within his last week of life here on Earth, knew that he was dying. Even at that most extreme moment he made time to go and personally visit a man who he thought his mortal enemy. For years they were at each other's necks, never ceasing. Upon seeing his 'enemy', he kneeled down on the floor in front of him and said 'please forgive me...".
The people around him were soo stunned, they nearly fell off their chairs.
He knew at the bottom of his heart that unless he made amends, he would take that quarrel into the next life.

So I say; Make amends and go on to loving the world instead of fearing it.

How would you make amends with someone who would only see the advantages of it and go about doing the same thing they have always done? I don't think anyone would like being taken advantage of. How do you effectively deal with a narcissist who wants something from you and won't stop?

[Yunique]

Originally Posted by Midnite

Hi Yunique,

I'm afraid the mystery of the Number 10 is still at large! Isn't it strange, that out of the whole conversation, that was the only thing you could remember.

It is one of the most enlightening aspects of reincarnation to find out that your children have a soul much older than yours. Some people just find it hard to accept that their children may very well be more wise and much more fearless in life, as they have been reincarnated so many times before. Sometimes they can say the most profound things, and sometimes they can even help us along the way, just how your daughter helped you so many times in the past.

I understand now why you felt that your daughter wasn't scared, while she was 'alone' in the room. Even in your dream, your subconscious mind realises that your daughter is not one to be frightened very easily, more specifically when concerning spiritual things 'from the other side'. At the moment when you were leaving the room and realised there was a ghost in there with your daughter, these deeply embedded feelings were very much present. Her tolerance for ghosts and understanding of things you may not necessarily know about is the very reason for why you feel your daughter is a much more stronger person.

At the surface your dream seems quite eerie, however once you really think about it, it actually seems quite beautiful.

I don't believe this dream was sent to you in order to scare you in any way, but more so to the fact, to incite a feeling that answers a question every mother thinks about before she sleeps at night;
Are my children doing ok?
Especially when they leave home, parents can get quite stressed over their children. These fears do play into your subconscious mind and sometimes come to surface at the most unexpected times.

Most mothers would feel completely terrified if they learnt a ghost was in the same room as their child. But you weren't. Your daughter's bravery and ability to handle such situations, was such a sure thing that you kept walking. You didn't stop and run back to check on her... you kept walking.

Sometimes dreams can be quite scary in order to drive home a message. It doesn't necessarily mean that your house is haunted, or there are ghosts playing Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata No.14 up in your child's bedroom

I can only contemplate as to what that message is. I do believe it goes something along the lines; Even if life presents a situation that you may believe is quite scary, deep down inside you already know that your daughter is able to take care of herself. This should be quite warming, as I know a few people who couldn't say the same thing for their daughters...

To answer your first question about the attempted robbery;

I don't believe this is connected on the surface, I do however feel it may be connected by the underlying emotions much described by the message of your dream.



I do not believe your niece is outwardly connected. I was however asking who played the piano in order to maybe try and establish a family member who had a friendship with your daughter. I am however quite convinced your niece isn't connected, due to the fact that it was your daughter in the bed, and not your niece. This does however establish why you were hearing a piano, and maybe not a violin... lol
There is this personalisation aspect to pianos, especially around young girls in your family that seem to worry you? This may very well have triggered your dream in the first place.

I hope that helps

Midnite, thanks for all your input into deciphering any underlying messages within as you put it my eerie dream

If anything, just putting it out there, my feelings about my daughter when she was younger, which I don't think I have ever voiced. Plus the situation with my sister, neices and nephews weights on my mind at times and it was helpful just putting my thoughts to writing on this matter, has all helped in someway.

So if I can take anything from this thread, is your help in the realisation of some issues (which is not piano related I might add) does this mean the purpose of the dream was to bring me to this point I'd like to think so..........

Yunique x

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Yunique

Midnite, thanks for all your input into deciphering any underlying messages within as you put it my eerie dream

If anything, just putting it out there, my feelings about my daughter when she was younger, which I don't think I have ever voiced. Plus the situation with my sister, neices and nephews weights on my mind at times and it was helpful just putting my thoughts to writing on this matter, has all helped in someway.

So if I can take anything from this thread, is your help in the realisation of some issues (which is not piano related I might add) does this mean the purpose of the dream was to bring me to this point I'd like to think so..........

Yunique x

Hi Yunique,

I'm glad you have found a medium to express your thoughts and concerns, sometimes it's the best way to clear up internal conflicts.

I think you are still quite spooked about the notions of ghosts/spirits and the afterlife. You should take this opportunity to browse deeper into this forum, and do so some research in order for you to more fully understand and learn about such concepts. Reading through the Akashic Records thread would be a really good start. You can also go onto Erin Pavlina's forum for a more medium/psychic perspective.

The notion of death is as natural as the Sun rising in the morning or the Moon setting at night. The more you understand, the less fearful you will be.

Feel free to express any other dreams you encounter.

Midnite

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by nothingyouwanttoknow

How would you make amends with someone who would only see the advantages of it and go about doing the same thing they have always done? I don't think anyone would like being taken advantage of. How do you effectively deal with a narcissist who wants something from you and won't stop?

This isn't about being right. It's about taking a higher path and moving on with your life. Nobody likes being taken advantage of, however making amends is not something easy to perform either. You will have to challenge your very state of mindframe, which has been solidified by a constant state of internal as well as external conflict. Think of your body and soul as two different entities; one being bound by physical attributes, the other being ethereal in nature. Your physical body is telling you to go to war and keep challenging the situation. You spiritual nature is however pleading with you to resolve your internal conflicts, so you may move away from this cycle of hate.
Jealousy, anger, annoyance; are all physical human emotions that give rise to internal conflict. The more you learn to grow away from these emotions, the more free your soul becomes. When your soul is free and you have no internal conflict, you will be a more positive person.

The next time you see her I would like you to say "I no longer have any conflicts with you and I accept that this is just the way you are". Mentally repeat it, then physically say it. These kind of affirmations are what gives you your freedom. This isn't about winning or losing; this is about growing.

Face your Demons.

Midnite

[AlmostGodess]

Anybody inspired to translate my dream?

Originally Posted by AlmostGodess

Dear friends,

I had a dream last night which kind of tortures me and I need your help.

I dreamt that my parents organised a wedding for me and that I was supposed to marry someone I did not know. In the dream, we were waiting for my groom. I was dressed in a wedding dress and was very unhappy. My cousin was jealous that it is me, not her, who was getting married. I was feeling that, even if I don't wan to get married, this is what normal people do and that I should do it. Whan my grrom came, I thought that he was ok, but that his nose was too big. I was upset with my parents' choice and with the fact that they seem to be unable to understand what kind of partner I need. I was looking in the mirror to put on some mascara and I saw in the mirror someone who was sad and ugly and not me.
While waiting for my groom, I saw my ex who was going to play golf and I felt sad that it was not him who was marrying me.

After a while, me and my husband were visiting his family who was very well of. I was telling myself "Look, his sister is doing so great, your husband must be great too."

Now, the reason why I feel troubled is that in my country seeing yourself as a bride means death. Also, I don't come from a country were parents arrange marriages.

Thank you for your help!

[Yunique]

I'm grateful for all your help and direction Midnite

Originally Posted by Midnite

Hi Yunique,

I'm glad you have found a medium to express your thoughts and concerns, sometimes it's the best way to clear up internal conflicts.

I think you are still quite spooked about the notions of ghosts/spirits and the afterlife. You should take this opportunity to browse deeper into this forum, and do so some research in order for you to more fully understand and learn about such concepts. Reading through the Akashic Records thread would be a really good start. You can also go onto Erin Pavlina's forum for a more medium/psychic perspective.

The notion of death is as natural as the Sun rising in the morning or the Moon setting at night. The more you understand, the less fearful you will be.

Feel free to express any other dreams you encounter.

Midnite

[charlottelacar]

I am quite interested in the topic. And I do hope somebody could help me interpret the dream I have been dreaming since I was a teen. I kept on dreaming of a particular man and a particular place that I really don't know at all. And every time I woke up from that dream, I always felt like I kept on visiting that certain place. Just a bit confused why it kept on disturbing my sleep.

Thank you so much.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by charlottelacar

I am quite interested in the topic. And I do hope somebody could help me interpret the dream I have been dreaming since I was a teen. I kept on dreaming of a particular man and a particular place that I really don't know at all. And every time I woke up from that dream, I always felt like I kept on visiting that certain place. Just a bit confused why it kept on disturbing my sleep.

Thank you so much.

It's a little bit hard to interpret your dream.

You need to give us as much details as possiblle. Starting with describing the environment around you; outside/inside, in woodlands, in a haunted house, at the beach, in some random apartment, etc.
Then describe this mysterious man. What does he look like? What is he wearing? Old/Young? What does his voice sound like? Does he just stand there and talk to you? Does he remind you of anybody?

If you can't remember, the best thing you can do is keep a dream journal (paper and a pen) next to your bed. So you can record down the intimate details before you forget it in your waking consciousness.

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by AlmostGodess

Dear friends,

I had a dream last night which kind of tortures me and I need your help.

I dreamt that my parents organised a wedding for me and that I was supposed to marry someone I did not know. In the dream, we were waiting for my groom. I was dressed in a wedding dress and was very unhappy. My cousin was jealous that it is me, not her, who was getting married. I was feeling that, even if I don't wan to get married, this is what normal people do and that I should do it. Whan my grrom came, I thought that he was ok, but that his nose was too big. I was upset with my parents' choice and with the fact that they seem to be unable to understand what kind of partner I need. I was looking in the mirror to put on some mascara and I saw in the mirror someone who was sad and ugly and not me.
While waiting for my groom, I saw my ex who was going to play golf and I felt sad that it was not him who was marrying me.

After a while, me and my husband were visiting his family who was very well of. I was telling myself "Look, his sister is doing so great, your husband must be great too."

Now, the reason why I feel troubled is that in my country seeing yourself as a bride means death. Also, I don't come from a country were parents arrange marriages.

Thank you for your help!

Hi,

I have had to think about this dream for quite a while. There is just so much going on.. that I didn't know exactly where to start. In these kind of situations I guess the best thing to do is just break everything down, bit by bit, and then try and put it all back together again with some kind of life-changing message. lol

One thing to remember is that there is no universal interpretation system for dreams. I don't believe your going to die. In fact quite the opposite. I believe this dream represents a new era in your life. This new era, however isn't exactly something easy to achieve.

I dreamt that my parents organised a wedding for me

Pre-arranged marriages happen quite often in places such as India/Asia and some parts of the Middle East. It is generally considered quite outdated, but still does occur in present times. Some families consider it quite tactful in aligning their children with wealthy or other advantageous families. However the people being married are often quite frightened and anxious considering that this is a deal for 'life' (or at least a very long time).
This may represent an ordeal that has been forced on you, or out of your control.

I was dressed in a wedding dress and was very unhappy.

Having dreams about weddings that go wrong is often a spotlight on your current negativity towards some aspects in life. Considering that so much was felt during your ordeal, there is quite a bit to try and glue together here.

My cousin was jealous that it is me, not her, who was getting married.

Does your cousin actually feel this way in real life? I may not think so.
This could be a very good indicator about the way you feel you stand within the invisible hierarchy of your family. Unfortunately it's a natural tendency for humans to always size up not only their friends within social circles, but also family members as well. People want to intrinsically know where they stand, and often dictates the way they act around certain family members as well. (For example; John walks up to little Alex, knowing he is the little more nerdier type, and starts giving him tips on how to hit the gym more often and attract women).

You may possibly feel that your cousin (or other family members thereof) do not necessarily have some of the natural 'advantages' in life, that you could have just been born with. This could be anything from intellectual knowledge, success in certain areas of life, or even just sheer looks.

even if I don't wan to get married, this is what normal people do and that I should do it.

This may represent a fear that you do not like to adhere to the social norm.

When my groom came, I thought that he was ok, but that his nose was too big

This may suggest you place quite a value on your ability to criticize other people's weaknesses. This could also indicate that you strive for perfection, even in your potential partners.

I was upset with my parents' choice and with the fact that they seem to be unable to understand what kind of partner I need.

This highly suggests that you do not trust your parents' judgement. More importantly you feel that your parents did not ever really get the know the "real" you. Don't get me wrong, you may very well have a strong connection with your family, but in the deep recesses of your mind, your subconscious has recognised the discrepancy between your parents' take on who you are, and who you actually are. Therefore their judgement on something like a life-long partner seems completely out of wack.

I was looking in the mirror to put on some mascara and I saw in the mirror someone who was sad and ugly and not me.

You were correct in thinking this wasn't the "real" you. This was in fact a negative version of yourself where everything seemed to be going wrong, including your looks.

me and my husband were visiting his family who was very well of. I was telling myself "Look, his sister is doing so great, your husband must be great too.

You were somehow trying to justify your unthinkable marriage by the possibility of wealth.

This new era that I was talking about seems to be quite important in your life due to how heavy the dream has impacted your thoughts. The good thing is that you're not going to be forced into marrying some guy with a large nose (though... this particular feature isn't exactly seen as the worst feature by some particularly frisky women... LOL )

I do believe a marriage needs to occur, however not exactly the type of marriage you had to experience in your dream. The marriage I speak of relates to the union of your two halves; one half representing your negativity and the other half representing your positivity. You need to learn how to embrace both of these polar opposites in order to lead a more fulfilling life where you are no longer being weighed down by internal conflicts.

I believe you think that negativity is out of your control, or something forced upon you by others. This is an illusion of life. You have always had the power over choices in your life. Sometimes the most convenient way, may not necessarily be the most positive.

You seem to be quite critical of other people. When I sense this, I know that you are quite critical of yourself too. Striving for perfection is absolutely acceptable. People only get into hot water when they let it rule their lives and the decisions they make. There was no indicator whatsoever that you made any personal contact with your groom, before passing judgment that he was not suited to you. It was based on physical appearance alone. You may very well have such a strong analytical ability, that no communication was needed in order for you to judge him. I just ask that you please be careful. There exist some pretty defensive people out there who don't walk around displaying their real stuff until a deeper communication is felt.

Don't ever feel its necessary to anything serious you don't like doing, unless you feel it's the right thing to do within. You are not being forced to do anything, and your parents don't make your life decisions for you. You may have been dropped into a situation that some of your natural talents can not solve, but the belief that wealth will solve any problems at hand is not exactly the right trail of thought. I can tell you right now that happiness comes from feeling love.

You may have once listened to your parents decisions like the Gospel, but you are now noticing subtle differences in your thought patterns. It is very natural for this to happen, as it just means you are growing into a person who truly values their own ability to decide exactly what they like. It's a maturation process that few people ever feel strong enough to experience.

This new era must be one of positivity, meaning you have to resolve your internal conflicts before you can move on in your life. The onus of deciding to follow a conflict-free or conflict-ridden life is in your hands. Unlike your dream, this union of the soul or new era of positivity is completely and has always been in your control.

Midnite
-on the ball
lol

[Bradman]

I've been dreaming a lot about living in various large houses lately. In my dreams we are always having people over, and I usually am finding rooms in the house that I didn't even know about. Very cool, gives me a feeling of calm and accomplishment. Any thoughts?

[Summerbreeze]

Originally Posted by Bradman

I've been dreaming a lot about living in various large houses lately. In my dreams we are always having people over, and I usually am finding rooms in the house that I didn't even know about. Very cool, gives me a feeling of calm and accomplishment. Any thoughts?

Have you considered taking new, bigger steps, are opportunities opening up or have already happened?

~sb