Dream Interpretation Requests

[Federer]

Originally Posted by AlmostGodess

Thank you, Fed! I wish you were right

Thank you. Feedback means a lot to me. I'll improve myself.

[momo3bur]

Originally Posted by Federer

Hiii momo3bur,

I have short interpretation for your dream:
It's you are very kind mother. I think you are worried for your kids and you think how you are for them. You are genuine mother. You want to grow your kids very well and want to develop their talent as they are given. you are fairy for them and in future your kids will feel proud of you. Super Mommy!

I have strange feeling warning here. About that joining group. That bleeding and cutting. I am telling you be careful around your friends. I am sure you have thought about this. May be some people are talking about yourself on your back. Awesome people don't pay attention to such things.

You are center of this dream and you should not worry because you are performing your duties very well.

Happy to talk with you lovely friend and thank you for coming here, dropping a chance for me. *gratitude*
Federer

Thank you so much, Federer! One thing I've learned since having children is being told I'm a great mother is the greatest compliment anyone could possibly give me. I appreciate that more than you know.

It's funny that you reference me as a fairy here...because oddly enough faeries or fairies or however it's spelled have been popping up in dream and meditation land a lot lately for me. Hmmmm...

If this dream is a warning of these people, thankfully they are not close friends! lol. My neighbor is very nice and I see her as someone who probably would do something as radical as bleed for a random person's wellbeing, but as for the other mothers in the dream, I'm not associated with them too deeply. I have done some thought since I posted this dream, though. You see, I've always been a bit of an outsider which I've come to terms with...lol. I wonder if even though I deny ever wanting to be part of this cliquey little group of women (which by the way, does exist, just not in the formal sorority, initiation way like in my dream), if I still feel a little left out by the once again disregard of my presence that has seemed to follow me around my whole life. lol. Or at least by people who seem to be "popular"...you know, the cheerleader girls and football boys.

Although, as I've grown up this doesn't really bother me anymore and even as a teen I sort of relished my underdawg persona...lol. Maybe a little insecurity or something that I've always covered up is seeping back through the seams again. I just don't know. I never really expected it to come back and haunt me as an adult woman, though. It does upset me at times that I know I am a good mother, intelligent, and caring, yet they seem to want nothing to do with my input for the school system or help with parties, etc., because I live in a small town that I am NOT from originally, so all of these women that grew up together stay within their little group and don't allow outsiders in. lol. It's actually very silly and petty. And they probably do talk about me behind my back...but that's ok! Just means I must be worth the conversation time.

I don't really have the desire to include myself in conversations about the latest scandalous town affair or what department store is having the "most AMAZING sale on (insert brand here) hand bags...and I have to have one or OMG...because I SO don't have better things to spend $200 on..." BLEH...gag me. So I don't know what my subconscious thinks it's missing out on. lol.

Thank you friend, for the reassurance! Love to you and I will post my next odd dream for you to interpret ASAP.

[veloci]

I believe I was dreaming...

There was the usual dream setting taking place, but I was "observing" it instead. I actually felt connected to the physical realm still. I was able to sense everything about my bedroom for some reason. However, I was still dreaming! What the heck happened to me? At first I thought I was close to getting an astral projection, but it might be OBE. I have difficulty remembering my dreams, much less be able to do something so advanced for me right now.

Unfortunately I was abruptly awoken up by my roommate's alarm. I forgot most of what occurred in the dream, but I remember a group of people - warriors I think. They were like soldiers... But like after an apocalypse happened of some sort. I saw one of them was being held captive, and the other one was a fellow soldier I believe. She felt connected to the captive, but apparently she was sending him to his death? I remember something that was said vaguely. It had something to do with disintegration which reminded me of death. The thing is, the captive asked to be disintegrated. After that the idea of a white or red flame came to my mind. Boom I came back into reality.

I have NO idea what this could even mean. I apologize for not being able to give the whole dream in its entirety, or if it was even a dream at all. However, if anyone could do some interpretations for it I would appreciate that!

[Midnite]

Just because I love your dreams so much.

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

I was in a Chinese restaurant. It was late and closing up, so I was preparing to head out, all the while thinking about somebody who hadn't yet contacted me back and I really wanted them to do so (a Chinese musician who wanted to work with me in my waking world). I then thought that maybe I could call the other one who was interested in the same thing (though there isn't another in the waking world)

I perceive the Chinese restaurant was simulated by your subconscious mind in order to remind you of this Chinese musician from the waking world. I would also like to point out that this restaurant is a recurring theme in your dream. I believe the wait for this musician to contact you is also causing subtle disturbances within you. Your subconscious then created an opportune moment where you had 'other' options (musicians) to proceed with in case your initial contact failed. This may be an indicator of what you need to do.

I left the store last after others. I think one of them was that other musician I mentioned.

This is highly suggestive that you are placing the values of this opportune working partner before yourself. I must caution you that when it comes to business partners, you think of yourself first and your partner's interests second. If you are currently thinking about this new relationship in any other way, then this may not be as beneficial to you as it could be.

I decided to leave my things and run down the high street to a particular store to get a lottery ticket... and I stop, remembering that I can't do the lottery as I left my wallet back where I left my stuff.

This scene gives my two symbolic interpretations in relation to this new business partner of yours. Firstly, you perceive the success of this relationship to be like buying a lottery ticket, where you could really hit it big-time. Secondly, this scene may be demonstrating your desperation to choose any path and take a gamble with anything if it means making a large sum of money.
The fact that you left your wallet behind is suggesting that you may be too quick into rushing into decisions without proper planning. Or you may be getting a little ahead of yourself with this relationship and not focussing on the minute details.

heading to an open (and very busy) Chinese restaurant next door to the one I was in before. Right before walking in front of it (apparently there are other Chinese people there with which I could do business), I get my phone and stroll along, pretending I'm on a call and that's the reason why I went off my own way for a moment. I say random things, then end the pretend call as I head into the restaurant.

It seems that you know you are not the busiest person in the world, however you would like others to see such gestures in hopes of placing a greater value on your importance.

I join my family who are there, give a firm handshake to my uncle, then sit with my mother, who gives me some sort of bracelet, which is too tight for me to put on. I begin to argue with my mother. I think it might be something to do with her not treating me like an adult or something like that in the dream.

In regards to the bracelet, it seems that you believe whatever 'gift' your mother is giving you, is not the right fit for you. You are angry that your mother has failed to give you the right gift of advice that resonates with you or with what you truly want.

this strange man entered who was apparently common trouble. He had a broom or something like that and was going around, making sure to tap it against the side of each table. People were keeping quiet as if it were dangerous, though I was thinking about dealing with it, and eventually I did, though I wasn't the only one.

I kill the man by accident. I have his decapitated head at the end of a vacuum pipe, and I proceed to smash it through the panels of glass on the main door. Meanwhile, my mother is on my case again, until I argue right back and eventually say... "Have you ever a heard of a thing call accidental death? Just shut up, already. Shut. Up!"

Decapitated him with a vacuum pipe.. definitely original.
This scene represents your ability to confront situations that other people find dangerous or scary. You seem to deal with these issues with your ordinary household emotions.
I sense that in this scene, you also feel as if your mother has failed to recognise the importance placed on your ability to overcome such fears and obstacles. She however decided to instead focus on unimportant details, which pissed you off.

I then go outside to call the police about the incident, but instead think of going back home as I see cabs driving about. I call one over, but, after seeing the dead body, the driver refuses with a wave of his hand.

It seems that when you deal with such fears/obstacles, you do not clean them up or finalise them to a point where there are no longer any loose ends. You become sidetracked and try to avoid the situation, however you find that there is no easy escape from the problems at hand.
I am getting a feeling right now that this may apply to this potential business relationship. The fact that all this happened in the Chinese restaurant, which originally signified your business partner, highly suggests that these fears or obstacles may directly relate to exactly that. This scene may in fact be trying to demonstrate your inability to effectively deal with failed business circumstances.

Then, down the right end of the high street, there is the abrupt sound of light/power being shut off as the stores on both sides of the road (their lights) and all other lights included (street lights, for instance) begin to shut off. The sound continues again and again, as stores and their lights shut off, one by one, coming my way, leaving pitch black darkness in their path.

I love this scene so much. It reminds me of that movie Constantine, when Keanu Reeves and Rachel Weisz are on the street after she storms out of his apartment, and all these flying demons are trying to kill them. It was demonstrating the demons' powers to create a a state of fear; pitch black where they couldn't see where the creatures were coming from. All they could hear was the screeches from the air above...
I believe this scene represents how you feel the world shuts down and closes in around you when something goes wrong.

I decide to run down a street to this small area of grass and a single tree ... The lights continue to go off, until eventually they're all gone and it's all black. However, I look up to find that the clearing of lights made the sky incredibly clear and beautiful with many stars.

Your fears were edging closer and closer, thundering down the street, cutting the lights as it went, surrounding you in its ever present state of doom. And there you were clutching the last patch of nature in your city as if Mother Nature itself was going to save you from such looming darkness.
Then all was dark... the streets blanketed with such thick mystery. Where in the movie, the statue of the Virgin Mary was the only thing left glowing in the haunting darkness, your night sky was acting the same. The untouchable premise that no amount of doom could ever affect. Your saviour; the beauty of the world itself.
In the worst of times, you may look to the beauty of the world in order to emotionally save you. You may notice what is around you, far more clearer when those situations occur. What is important it that you are finding beauty in the most unusual of times and being distracted from those fears around you.

Then, a random point, I look at the exposed top floor window of a nearby building ... and inside I realise, to my surprise, there are two people... in the act of love, except both the man and woman are dressed like boxers.

Do you feel that men an women have to be at battle with themselves to be in love? Do you believe that making love is some kind of battle? It was just strange that with everything that was happening, your mind just diverted to a couple having sex in Boxing clothes.

I start to call the police. I go through the details. The woman on the end jokes, telling me to hurry up with the details, but the call cuts off after I give most of them... This woman has an accent and it takes time to pass the details.
Suddenly, there's a crowd of people sitting in front of me, facing away.
... looking around I can see that just a few store lights (such as their signs) are lit up, though the darkness still remains.

When you actually stop to remedy the situation you may find it difficult in getting the right message across or concluding the situation. You are unsure if your actions. It is almost foreign to you.
This thing about the crowd facing away from you is very interesting. You may feel as if people will shun you unless you do the right thing. During these ordeals you may also feel as if the world is turning its back on you.
When you remedied the situation, lights start to turn back on, most notably the ones visually important to the public. However you feel that the 'public' remedy of the situation did not completely resolve the real issue in your eyes. What is important however is that some kind of change was made, whereby enabling you to face your demons as well as enacting some kind of change in the public eye.

Midnite

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by veloci

I believe I was dreaming...

There was the usual dream setting taking place, but I was "observing" it instead. I actually felt connected to the physical realm still. I was able to sense everything about my bedroom for some reason. However, I was still dreaming! What the heck happened to me? At first I thought I was close to getting an astral projection, but it might be OBE. I have difficulty remembering my dreams, much less be able to do something so advanced for me right now.

Unfortunately I was abruptly awoken up by my roommate's alarm. I forgot most of what occurred in the dream, but I remember a group of people - warriors I think. They were like soldiers... But like after an apocalypse happened of some sort. I saw one of them was being held captive, and the other one was a fellow soldier I believe. She felt connected to the captive, but apparently she was sending him to his death? I remember something that was said vaguely. It had something to do with disintegration which reminded me of death. The thing is, the captive asked to be disintegrated. After that the idea of a white or red flame came to my mind. Boom I came back into reality.

I have NO idea what this could even mean. I apologize for not being able to give the whole dream in its entirety, or if it was even a dream at all. However, if anyone could do some interpretations for it I would appreciate that!

Hi Veloci,


I think you managed to enter into some kind of semi-lucid experience where you were aware of your dream, but also still firmly within it.

It sounds like this guy was asking for an honour death, much like the Samurai when they are captured by the enemy. Except his death was by alchemical flames instead of by a wakizashi. It reminded my of that scene from 'The Last Samurai' in the beginning of the movie after the battle in the woods.

This man apparently opted for some kind of psychic or spiritual death over living the life of a 'captive'. I think it may resonate with your current beliefs about everyday society against the contrast of the spiritual world...

I would choose the same. I couldn't possibly ever live that way again.

Without further dialogue or details, I'm afraid that is as far as I can go.

Midnite

[veloci]

Yeah I couldn't possibly continue living with society's norms nor my "old" life. I suppose he would rather die by spiritual death then... Weird. Seems like I'm pretty much gonna be like a prisoner if I live by society's rules... Hm..

[Midnite]

I have a very strong belief that Life is like a prison. We are all inmates trying to escape from this prison. Death does not guarantee freedom. The secret lies with becoming the prison and unlocking the doors from the inside out. I want to transcend the illusion and walk out through the front door.

[Federer]

From whatever i read from you, it means you need securities and time to develop trust. That's good thing to see before joining any group. What you want to i could see this time clearly. you are looking for their clarification from them, what they want to share with you. but they don't look so agreed and must be talking with unclear terms. So you're right they may talk behind you. Possible.
They can do anything. I have been with such people and i ended up being hurt. You want to share with them and they have set clear boundaries that you don't know. It means you have to bow against them, surrender to them.
Doesn't seem fair things. Do you feel this way with them?

You want to go with positive ways, then carry on going with those thoughts. I mean, go with careful steps. Right thoughts to go with if you are supposed to meet them tomorrow or upcoming days.

You seemed worried for yourself when you mentioned what upsets you. I think you need not to think for them. They are creating what they have thought. May be they have lots of doubts and try to change others. I can say you are clearly different from them. May be they are thinking that they can overpower you. Overpowering someone i think mysterious thing to catch. You need high concentration, otherwise you will come to know when they do something with you. Do they try to influence you?? I feel they are violating free will.

You know what kinds of thoughts you have wrote here, one side you needed securities and the other side you deeply care about them. You are unconditional woman, then i am saying choose one thing, so this thought fight ends in your mind and you begin to go ahead as you want. Go for unconditional side i suggest my friend. Not that as lady they is doing. It sounds blind unconditional support. Unconditional love and support should be performed under inspiration from universe. This sounds safe and win/win. Like you are trying to think and want to act.

I have some questions for you: Do you feel connected with yourself? must be feeling, i think. Your some abilities are scattered. They are really nice ones and can enhance oneself. Rare to see,too. Yes, i am remembering something. We have discussed about being empath.
Why i am asking? because i see so much clarity when you put dream requests here and it helps me to see the situation & support you. You can remember them. memory woman you are!!

Sure, you're welcome for more dream requests.

Thank you for feedback. Gratitude and hope you are having finer days there!!!

Lots of love and peace for you my friend.

Originally Posted by momo3bur

Thank you so much, Federer! One thing I've learned since having children is being told I'm a great mother is the greatest compliment anyone could possibly give me. I appreciate that more than you know.

It's funny that you reference me as a fairy here...because oddly enough faeries or fairies or however it's spelled have been popping up in dream and meditation land a lot lately for me. Hmmmm...

If this dream is a warning of these people, thankfully they are not close friends! lol. My neighbor is very nice and I see her as someone who probably would do something as radical as bleed for a random person's wellbeing, but as for the other mothers in the dream, I'm not associated with them too deeply. I have done some thought since I posted this dream, though. You see, I've always been a bit of an outsider which I've come to terms with...lol. I wonder if even though I deny ever wanting to be part of this cliquey little group of women (which by the way, does exist, just not in the formal sorority, initiation way like in my dream), if I still feel a little left out by the once again disregard of my presence that has seemed to follow me around my whole life. lol. Or at least by people who seem to be "popular"...you know, the cheerleader girls and football boys.

Although, as I've grown up this doesn't really bother me anymore and even as a teen I sort of relished my underdawg persona...lol. Maybe a little insecurity or something that I've always covered up is seeping back through the seams again. I just don't know. I never really expected it to come back and haunt me as an adult woman, though. It does upset me at times that I know I am a good mother, intelligent, and caring, yet they seem to want nothing to do with my input for the school system or help with parties, etc., because I live in a small town that I am NOT from originally, so all of these women that grew up together stay within their little group and don't allow outsiders in. lol. It's actually very silly and petty. And they probably do talk about me behind my back...but that's ok! Just means I must be worth the conversation time.

I don't really have the desire to include myself in conversations about the latest scandalous town affair or what department store is having the "most AMAZING sale on (insert brand here) hand bags...and I have to have one or OMG...because I SO don't have better things to spend $200 on..." BLEH...gag me. So I don't know what my subconscious thinks it's missing out on. lol.

Thank you friend, for the reassurance! Love to you and I will post my next odd dream for you to interpret ASAP.

[Midwinter Mist]

Thanks as always, Midnite.

My favourite part of that dream was when the lights began to shut down, and the way that happened. Being one of those vivid experiences, it was quite a blast as much as it was supposed to be daunting.

Interesting interpretation. When I attempted to do so myself, I too associated the Chinese restaurant with this business partner (though that much is obvious), and there's no doubt that I have, in my waking world, put too much thought its way, making myself depend upon on it. If I don't hear back, well, I'm not sure what I'll do.

When it came to the decapitated head and the vacuum, I didn't actually decapitate the head with the vacuum, as far as I know. Actually, I don't even remember killing the guy now, I just know that I did, and then his head was held up at the end of the vacuum. I assumed its meaning to be connected to this business partner and my own state right now with emotions, creativity, etc. I was going through problems in my waking world where I was becoming emotionally numb in many ways and with that I was losing all interest in things and all of my inspiration with it. I felt dead in the world of creativity, which freaked me out, and made a post about it here, but the problem became most noticeable to me when this Chinese musician contacted me and I realised, "Oh crap, I finally have a chance to work with somebody like this, and suddenly I can't create a damn thing!" It put me through a lot of stress. I mean a HELL of a lot of stress.

I felt that the man's head could have been my own in some sense, bashing my own skull through my fears of losing my creativity, which was being sucked away... like by the vacuum. The fact there were different panels of glass made me think that more, and then came the power shutting down.

If all of that did somehow represent my new problems with emotion and creativity, then I believe that the part where I 'return to nature' has some major significance. I see the light in the darkness, and that crowd of people could represent an audience who listen when I establish communication...

Well, that was my own thoughts originally, but I couldn't settle on a meaning. Oh, and as for the couple... absolutely clueless. Dreams are random, but this had some structure, which made it even more random. They were opposites too. Red and blue. The woman had blonde hair, the man had dark hair. Not sure if it makes a difference (although, knowing dreams...) but the woman was the dominant one in all of it. I'm sure there's a meaning there, but it sure was random.

My dreams drive me nuts, though. I mean, I love them and I wouldn't have them any other way, but they sure are a trip. I remember something last night where there were two gangs in the world. One side wore white shirts and the other wore black. I must have been a spy or something, wearing a white shirt around the other side, apologising, and then I put on a black shirt on top of the white shirt after it was given to me, not that I wanted to, but I felt I had to do that to keep safe. There's always something in my dreams, heh.

Anyway, thanks again, Midnite.


Edit:

I was running through the dream some more, and I was thinking about how I have my agoraphobia and I spend a lot of time looking out windows, trying to find ways out. There's a chance that the head smashing through the panels of glass was my own head trying to find ways out, but it kept getting pulled back in (the vacuum).

Additionally, what I don't think I mentioned is the fact that where that tree is positioned is, in the waking world, a memorial statue. The tree was also quite young. Perhaps it represents war/battle/memories/life/renewal.

This dream is really sticking on my mind.

[aclearsign]

If anyone would care to help with these dreams, I would appreciate it!

First, at the beginning of the year I had a strong feeling that South Florida, where I live, would be hit with many strong hurricanes (after many years without).

In my dream, I was walking along a narrow country road. It was sunny and the grass and brush along the road were very lush and green. It does not feel at all like where I live, more like the summer in the South or even the Midwest. I was listening to the radio. The news was on (it was my local station) and they asked if anyone knew tornados were coming and to take photos and send them in.

I looked behind me and saw 10 or 11 (I counted them so as to give an accurate news report). They were very skinny, tall tornados. One came literally right up against me, within a few inches. I hung on to a fence but the tornado did not hit me or impact me in any way (not even a breeze).

When they were gone, my two sons who are 3 and 6 came walking along the road. I thought how odd, they aren't old enough to be out on their own, and thank goodness the tornados didn't hurt them. They acted like they didn't even notice them.

(Note, the next day they had the series of I believe 10 tornados come through the midwestern states and there were no casualties. However as you know from the news we have since had the "miraculous" no victim tornados that went through Missouri and then more recently the horrific ones come through the south and claim so many lives).

Right after this dream on the same night, I was in a driveway (not mine) with my husband and two sons and I suddenly noticed that snakes were all around us. At first I noticed one in the leaves of a bush, sort of hiding, but as I looked around, they were actually everywhere, surrounding us. Each snake was a completely different kind of snake, some camoflaged and some very colorful. They became more and more bold and menacing until I came into confrontation with one in the driveway who was poised to attack. My husband shot the snake right before it attacked.

Thanks for any help with this!

[dreamlearner]

I had a dream yesterday.I saw 3 lizards.One of them was spotted.I was not afraid of them.
Can anybody interpret this dream?

[Midwinter Mist]

I was sent to jail for being agoraphobic.

I was inside a large room / cell, shared by many. The place was horribly dingy, dim and unwelcoming, with no source of natural light. People were talking about how it was unfair that I was there, since I did nothing wrong, but I was to stay there for a certain period of time, perhaps twenty-eight days (less than a month, that I do remember for sure).

It was beginning to make me feel dangerously claustrophobic and panicky, I wanted out that bad.

There came a point where on the opposite side of a door with a glass panel was my mother, talking to the warden. Then, it was time for her to go, but I looked through the glass and signalled with my hand for her to wait. Everybody had cell phones that people could call, but I didn't have mine. However, my cousin was there and he let me borrow his phone. I could then, just barely, hear my mother through the glass as she came close. She could just about hear me, but I decided I'd use the phone.

I started to search for the phone's number on a plastic milk bottle, but when I was failing to find it, my cousin wrote his number on a piece of paper that I could show through the glass. A full number (imagine if I remembered it and called it ). However, there was one number too many, which was a '9'. It was either that 9 or another 9. Anyway, my cousin told me, the number was shown and the call was made.

I was telling my mother about how it was wrong that I was in there, to tell the warden that I shouldn't be, etc.

I eventually woke up, then went back to sleep and continued the dream. It was the day of my release. I didn't want people too close to me, but soon enough started to laugh and was gathering my things to leave. I was having a hard time carrying a huge stack of books outside, worried they'd tip over, but I think I eventually got there.

A dream touching upon my agoraphobia, no doubt. My own interpretation suggests that it's representing me now and how it's gone from just agoraphobia to that jail. Now, more than ever, I want out. In that jail, there was no inspiration or anything positive that I could collect. It was all dark and horrible. I couldn't think about anything else (like how it's been getting for me in the waking world).

I feel the fact I didn't have a cell phone that people could call represents my lack of communication with the outside world and how I feel nobody wants to contact me. I guess I'm also looking at my mother as my way out, which is interesting as I have had more of these dreams where I'm arguing with my mother, telling her to stop treating me like a child, that I'm an adult now.

But there's usually more to it all than that.

(I sure do love to hog the dream interpretation section, don't I? Sorry folks. I promise I'll disappear soon.

[bluestar]

MWM....your own insights into aspects of your dream do seem to ring true very strongly.
And you do so hate the agoraphobia don't you? I have a feeling you will not live with that for long now.....it might be gradually on the way out. The dream seemed to be almost screaming at you not to be agoraphobic.
So maybe your deepest feelings are desperate to escape the prison that has materialized around you.
Families are wonderful, don't get me wrong, but somehow you seem tied up a bit by yours....Like you feel you love them but want to get out somehow...

[DeepGrowth]

Updated with Dream 3

Howdy All!

I've had a few reoccurring dreams recently and would like to know if there is a message that is persistently trying to get across to me. I'm thinking these dreams DO relate to my current problematic situation in life because of the themes and objects included...

Anyhow, this is what I've been dreaming:

DREAM 1)
I'm sitting in the backseat of a car and my mum is driving. She drives a little recklessly here and there, but nothing too concerning. But then all of a sudden she speeds up big time. She ends up doing a 180 in the car and begins driving in reverse at very high speeds. It's almost as if she's either in a rush or trying to the hit car in front of us, because she is driving literally within 5 cm of the car in-front of us - and remember, she's driving very fast in reverse. The back of our car nudges onto the car in-front of us and I'm feeling quite worried that we'll spin out and die. Then the car we were trailing decides to change lanes and get out of our way...

DREAM 2)
Again, mum is driving the car and I'm passenger. Starts out like a normal car drive but then escalates into high-speed sprint. Mum just barely misses hitting cars all over the place. She changes lanes and turns corners without even looking. It seems as though she's driving at 200km/hr on a 70km/hr road. She's dodging cars everywhere and keeping me feeling very uptight.

Dream 3)
Another night passes and once again I dream of being inside a car when mum is driving. This time we're driving on the wrong side of the road! As we approach the front of another car, we switch lanes to another lane - which is also going in the opposite direction. A car pulls out into this lane and we collide with the side of it and come to a halt. Mum is yelling "You smashed into us!" ... Things blank out (could have lead onto this new dream), then later we're driving in the car again. This time we're asking mum to drive more safely and tell her we could have been seriously hurt (or conversation along those lines...). She literally 'gives up' and takes her hands off the wheel and feet off the pedals and throws her head back with her eyes closed. Because of this, the car accelerates down the hill and our car drifts out of our lane. I notice first and tell mum to drive the car. She doesn't respond, so I tell someone to control the wheel whilst I try to take mum out of the front seat.

There have been other dreams which have included mum in the past week, such as her telling me a pregnancy kit responded "positive", and another dream where I was yelling the crap out of her.

Thank-you for reading and please do comment/analyze. I might even share my real life situation after someone interprets the dream...

[DeepGrowth]

Can anyone interpret please?

[ElBridge]

Originally Posted by Midnite

I have a very strong belief that Life is like a prison. We are all inmates trying to escape from this prison. Death does not guarantee freedom. The secret lies with becoming the prison and unlocking the doors from the inside out. I want to transcend the illusion and walk out through the front door.

This reminds me of something I saw during what you could call a "vision quest". I saw myself in a jungle, desperately fighting sticking and slapping foliage. My vision panned out and I saw that the jungle was just a room (almost like a holodeck from Star Trek). But the me I could see running through the jungle couldn't tell it wasn't really a jungle. Outside the locked door to the room a demon stood guard. Then I saw it was just one of many rooms in an old decrepit mansion (with a horrible dusty red/grubby green color scheme ), each door locked with a demon on the outside and a human on the inside.
This vision had me horribly depressed for quite a long time. "Oh no," I thought, "we're all locked in these glorified cages and none of us are experiencing freedom or even reality. We're just deluded, deceived, prisoners!" Then I realized: Chill out it's a metaphor. The room is your mind, the demon your fears, defense mechanisms, and such like. We created these cages for ourselves, we can deconstruct them for ourselves! I like the way you put, "become the prison, unlock it from the inside" because we ARE the prison, and ONLY we hold the key to our cage. We let the fear build walls around us until we're totally out of touch with our own humanity.

[ElBridge]

Originally Posted by DeepGrowth

Updated with Dream 3

Howdy All!

I've had a few reoccurring dreams recently and would like to know if there is a message that is persistently trying to get across to me. I'm thinking these dreams DO relate to my current problematic situation in life because of the themes and objects included...

Anyhow, this is what I've been dreaming:

DREAM 1)
I'm sitting in the backseat of a car and my mum is driving. She drives a little recklessly here and there, but nothing too concerning. But then all of a sudden she speeds up big time. She ends up doing a 180 in the car and begins driving in reverse at very high speeds. It's almost as if she's either in a rush or trying to the hit car in front of us, because she is driving literally within 5 cm of the car in-front of us - and remember, she's driving very fast in reverse. The back of our car nudges onto the car in-front of us and I'm feeling quite worried that we'll spin out and die. Then the car we were trailing decides to change lanes and get out of our way...

DREAM 2)
Again, mum is driving the car and I'm passenger. Starts out like a normal car drive but then escalates into high-speed sprint. Mum just barely misses hitting cars all over the place. She changes lanes and turns corners without even looking. It seems as though she's driving at 200km/hr on a 70km/hr road. She's dodging cars everywhere and keeping me feeling very uptight.

Dream 3)
Another night passes and once again I dream of being inside a car when mum is driving. This time we're driving on the wrong side of the road! As we approach the front of another car, we switch lanes to another lane - which is also going in the opposite direction. A car pulls out into this lane and we collide with the side of it and come to a halt. Mum is yelling "You smashed into us!" ... Things blank out (could have lead onto this new dream), then later we're driving in the car again. This time we're asking mum to drive more safely and tell her we could have been seriously hurt (or conversation along those lines...). She literally 'gives up' and takes her hands off the wheel and feet off the pedals and throws her head back with her eyes closed. Because of this, the car accelerates down the hill and our car drifts out of our lane. I notice first and tell mum to drive the car. She doesn't respond, so I tell someone to control the wheel whilst I try to take mum out of the front seat.

There have been other dreams which have included mum in the past week, such as her telling me a pregnancy kit responded "positive", and another dream where I was yelling the crap out of her.

Thank-you for reading and please do comment/analyze. I might even share my real life situation after someone interprets the dream...

Dreams that you're in a car often relate to the extent to which you feel in control of your life, environment, etc. So if you're driving normally and competently you feel quite in control, whereas when you're a passenger you feel not in control. That you are passenger in a car driven recklessly would indicate to me that you feel quite caught up in a Level 6 Rough Rapids situation without any paddle or life-preserver, possibly in a deflating raft with a maniac river guide who has a death wish. Seriously, though, is there a situation you feel is affecting you negatively and which you feel powerless to change? It seems you eventually decided you had to try to change it (you try to get your mother out of the driver seat).
The fact that it is your mother driving is very interesting to me. This could literally be your mother, this could be the nurturing part of you, this could be someone or something else you feel should be nurturing. Or apply the same options (mom/me/other person or thing) to other things you would attribute to mothers. Mothers pass along tradition and cultural values, mothers are for caring and for rebuking their children, mothers were first lovers, mothers are bringers of life, mothers work with their hands, mothers are often under-appreciated, mothers are traditionally the "silent partner", mothers can be smothering, mothers can be nagging, mothers can be a role model, mothers can be mysterious, mothers can be a friend, a guide, a listener, a warning. What do you feel first and foremost when you think of your mother?
Dreams are broadly archetypal, in that we are all the same species with the same basic neural structure who have been created at least in part by our genetics and culture, leading to everyone understanding what a mother is; however, they are also deeply personal, in that one person may be best friends with her mother while another was abused by her mother, leading to two different ideas of what a mother does. Since you do not give situational details, any interpretation must at least begin with the broad archetypal. I can tell you that if I had had this dream I would interpret it to mean I feel the government and society in general (the mother, who should be caring) is proceeding recklessly without heeding consequences such as war, economic collapse, climate change, resource depletion (obviously, the reckless driving), I feel powerless to stop it (being the passenger), and am afraid of the consequences other's decisions will have for me and others (being afraid she will get you all killed). When people attempt to take control and exert positive influence over society and especially the government (telling mom WTF?) the typical reaction is irresponsible, makes the problem worse, and creates the need for the powerful to regain or even extend control (mom taking her hands off the wheel was even worse than the speeding), which is basically how I see the whole health care fiasco (thank you Mr Obamantichrist, who I regret voting for) and the general pattern of global politics. This is just what it would mean if I dreamed it and I offer this merely by way of example. When it comes down to it, no one can explain your dream but you. (Although a very gifted intuitive could help you a lot )

[ElBridge]

Originally Posted by bluestar

Families are wonderful, don't get me wrong, but somehow you seem tied up a bit by yours....Like you feel you love them but want to get out somehow...

Ditto on everything else, but one thing I thought a little differently about. MWM said it was his(her?) cousin who enabled him to call his mother. He identified the cell phones with communicating with the outside world and identified his mother as his way out. That would indicate to me that family can help through this transition. Are you more comfortable with your family than the "marketplace" (agora)? If so, start out spending more time with them and ease yourself into the agora.

[DeepGrowth]

Thank-you for the reply ElBridge!

Yes, there is a negative situation occurring in my life where I feel helpless. I'm in quite a big mess living at home with mum. I feel like I deserve better living conditions as I live in a house that is extremely messy (no exaggeration), where food in the cupboard is scarce unless it's junk sugar food, where my family members stay up till midnight each night and sleep till midday (mum sleeps up to 15 hours some days), where many many problems within the house are building up and not being fixed. It just feels so draining and negative to live at this place and honestly, I do blame the majority of it on my mum.

My first thoughts when I think of my mum is that she's judging and constantly watching, she holds me back, she's a poor role model, weak, bad listener, and she 'babies' me too much.

While it may be true I under-appreciate her (I acknowledge this), I find it extremely difficult to feel thankful for what she does when all I see is that it's making up for where she is lacking (like -1 -1 -1 then finally a +1). I feel she demonstrates many poor values...

I'm actually on non-speaking terms with her at the moment because I have little respect for her because she continually lets me down by making claims and not fulfilling them, among various other things. The last straw was when I got fed up having her as a supervising driving instructor (in Aus, Vic, we need 120 supervised driving hours).

Not too keen to live at Dad's place because I don't like that environment for other reasons...

Have been thinking of moving out and renting a place up near my University where I study. $120 per week sharing with other students. I just think it'd give me a fresh slate and less built up stress so I could focus on what's important and build myself up.

Maybe you can advise me on my situation or relate this to my dream?

[Federer]

Excuse me People! Due to bad emotional health, i don't want to strain on this interpretation. I love to help you all, but i am in need to recover myself first.

Hope to give you helping support soon.

Ravin

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by ElBridge

This reminds me of something I saw during what you could call a "vision quest". I saw myself in a jungle, desperately fighting sticking and slapping foliage. My vision panned out and I saw that the jungle was just a room (almost like a holodeck from Star Trek). But the me I could see running through the jungle couldn't tell it wasn't really a jungle. Outside the locked door to the room a demon stood guard. Then I saw it was just one of many rooms in an old decrepit mansion (with a horrible dusty red/grubby green color scheme ), each door locked with a demon on the outside and a human on the inside.
This vision had me horribly depressed for quite a long time. "Oh no," I thought, "we're all locked in these glorified cages and none of us are experiencing freedom or even reality. We're just deluded, deceived, prisoners!" Then I realized: Chill out it's a metaphor. The room is your mind, the demon your fears, defense mechanisms, and such like. We created these cages for ourselves, we can deconstruct them for ourselves! I like the way you put, "become the prison, unlock it from the inside" because we ARE the prison, and ONLY we hold the key to our cage. We let the fear build walls around us until we're totally out of touch with our own humanity.

A few days ago I saw the true nature of our universe at a filtration rate of about 80-90%. What you gathered from my quote, and your subsequent interpretation is extremely accurate to my understanding. I don't normally agree with people this easily, and I don't know if you understand the full extent of what you are talking about here, but I would just like to point out that you are very much correct in discerning what is around you so far. That vision must have originated and subsequently gifted to you from a much higher source.

Life is a holodeck projection. The human body is like a cage. You were not caught and forced inside. You accepted the terms of the arrangement and signed away your life with the presumption that you would not leave until your lesson is learned.

Demons do not guard us or trap us here. Though they wish they could do exactly that, Demons do not have the power to entrap humans against our will. They represent the illusions of fear. The illusions causing anxiety over our acceptance into the social norm. Your need to try and fit in with people around you. Your anger with a world that is burning you from the inside out. Your sadness in a world that is not achieving its goals. Your dark depressions resulting from a discrepancy between what you believe should exist and what is actually happening in the world around you. All of it a holodeck projection of internal conflicts waging wars to become a more powerful Soul.

The most frightening illusion I have ever seen veiled over human lives is the fear of Demons. Don't you ever, not for a single second! Ever believe that they have power over you. The human Soul is more developed and is more advanced than any Demon you could ever point a finger at. We are more powerful than they are in every possible way. You may not realise this yet. More powerful nonetheless...

[Midnite]

It is always incredible how we are able to correspond dreams to a particular action or feeling we are going through in life. When we wake up sometimes we subconsciously link the two ideals together in an act of unison, which only strengthens the notion that life is about reducing and eliminating inner-conflicts whether we are conscious of them or not.

You connected this dream to your agoraphobia and so I am going to concentrate on exactly that.

Originally Posted by Midwinter Mist

I was sent to jail for being agoraphobic.

You were sent to jail... for being an agoraphobiac. That is very interesting. Do you truly believe that you are being punished for having a certain fear in your life? Jail sentence is usually given to a physical obstruction of the law. What your subconscious mind is telling me right now; is that you believe your agoraphobia is physically obstructing you way of life, to a point where you feel it is punishing you for an unknown reason.

I was inside a large room / cell, shared by many. The place was horribly dingy, dim and unwelcoming, with no source of natural light. People were talking about how it was unfair that I was there, since I did nothing wrong, but I was to stay there for a certain period of time, perhaps twenty-eight days (less than a month, that I do remember for sure).

Jail cells that normally house multiple inmates are not normally that large. I believe you subconscious mind needed to edit your dreamscape in order to play against your fears.
The fact that you were perceiving other inmates indicates that you do not believe you are the only one with such a phobia. When those other inmates started commenting on the fact that you should not be there, it highly suggests that you currently believe agoraphobia is imprisoning you against your will and you feel you do not deserve to be punished in such a way.
What is very interesting is that your subconscious believes this fear has a limited span, or a fixed time for when the punishment ensues. This throws up an immediate question; what do you believe is your key to release from this prison of fears? When is the end?

There came a point where on the opposite side of a door with a glass panel was my mother, talking to the warden. Then, it was time for her to go, but I looked through the glass and signalled with my hand for her to wait. Everybody had cell phones that people could call, but I didn't have mine. However, my cousin was there and he let me borrow his phone. I could then, just barely, hear my mother through the glass as she came close. She could just about hear me, but I decided I'd use the phone.

This scene is emotionally crying out to me. Your inner voice is trying to scream to the outside world, and you feel you have been blocked off. That your efforts to communicate with your family and friends are failing. As if you don't have the ability to do so. Why do you believe your cousin is in the same prison with you? Does her currently share the same agoraphobia, or is he your one and only connection that you reveal what is happening on the 'inside'?

I started to search for the phone's number on a plastic milk bottle, but when I was failing to find it, my cousin wrote his number on a piece of paper that I could show through the glass. A full number (imagine if I remembered it and called it ). However, there was one number too many, which was a '9'. It was either that 9 or another 9. Anyway, my cousin told me, the number was shown and the call was made.

This scene shows your emotional struggle with trying to communicate your problems and fears.

I was telling my mother about how it was wrong that I was in there, to tell the warden that I shouldn't be, etc.

I feel as if your Mother is trying and willing to listen, but you however see this relationship as having some kind of block or interference with getting the message across. She does not understand your emotional struggle. You also feel she is your key to freedom.
By Warden, I believe you are referring to God or some kind of Higher Source. You believe God trapped you in a body that is restraining your emotional and social freedoms. You are pleading for somebody to let you out.

It was the day of my release. I didn't want people too close to me, but soon enough started to laugh and was gathering my things to leave.

You currently believe this fear is isolating you from the outside world to a point where you now feel more comfortable by yourself. You however warm up to this very ideal and start feeling more accepting of social love.

I was having a hard time carrying a huge stack of books outside, worried they'd tip over, but I think I eventually got there.

This scene shows your burden, the fine balancing act of walking away from your fears. How you can tip over at any given moment. Even still you feel you are always on the edge.

For some reason I am getting a feeling you have sought help to try and solve these deep emotional issues. The very fact that you perceive yourself trapped in a prison and you are trying to find a way out, is a positive sign that you firstly recognised that you have a 'problem' but more importantly are considering methods in order to remedy this situation.

Somebody who is born with agoraphobia is given a mission to firstly find out why isolation isn't good, but secondly how to find and embrace all of the positive aspects that being social entails. You need to indentify the strengths of what a social world can give a human being. You must focus on these strengths or you will never truly want to leave a life of isolation.

Your dream resonates with one of my previous quotes.

Originally Posted by Midnite

I have a very strong belief that Life is like a prison. We are all inmates trying to escape from this prison. Death does not guarantee freedom. The secret lies with becoming the prison and unlocking the doors from the inside out. I want to transcend the illusion and walk out through the front door.

You must learn to find the key of your release. This key must come from within, not from anybody else. This key is a self-realisation process almost completely based within your psychological construct.

The psychological mind is an adaptable and amendable framework. Nothing is ever so fixated that it could not be changed. The powerful word is 'change'. In order for us to truly change we must firstly have one of two extremely powerful emotions acting within us; Love or Anger. I have previously posted about change; scroll down to my post.How to start from ZERO to build Social Skills

Another method would be to meditate at home, but visualise you are in wide open spaces with a large crowd. This may serve as a bridging solution where you may subconsciously become use to seeing large amounts of people without any connected strings of panic attacks. You may effectively be able to edge your way closer and closer to hitting real life with everything you've got.
Such a technique would consist of you closing your eyes and completely relaxing. Thaw out and don't think of anything. Meditating on a couch with your legs crossed, or in half-lotus position is highly recommended. Then while you are in a powerful individual state, visualise yourself walking through a tunnel archway into a wide area with a massive crowd of people going about their business. Walk closer, step by step, until you are standing amongst them. It may take you a few times to eventually get there, and then become comfortable with it, but Get There Nonetheless!! Now!! Time to introduce an anchor. While you are standing out in that crowd in your meditation I would like you to force yourself to feel good. Think of a hilarious time where you couldn't stop laughing. If you can't think of anything, then go to this thread;
Make an unfounded claim about the poster above you. And get into the mood. Keep going forward till you get to the current pages. Then start participating!
You should now choose an image to anchor those funny emotions. Pick any image that you can easily remember and resonates with you on an emotional level. Strongly imagine that image and mentally associate "funny" with it. Emotionally associate your incredibly light feelings with the image. Feel the impact it has on your body every time you think of that image. It should come to a point where every time you think of that image you should be bursting with funny emotions within you.
Your goal is to bring that picture up while meditating in the crowds. Your higher goal is the always use that image and think of it when you are outside amongst the thick if it in real life! Learn to use the anchor as a tool to rid yourself of such frantic emotions while you are outside and feel something coming up within you.

I wish you luck!

PM me if you need me to explain anything else further.

(I sure do love to hog the dream interpretation section, don't I? Sorry folks. I promise I'll disappear soon.

I like your dreams. They are highly symbolic, and always a pleasure to interpret. Just make sure you keep them coming

Midnite

[loverlover]

Help me interpret my dream pls......Hi everyone here i just registered yesterday and im very interested to know what my dream is all about, can you please help me interpret my dream?

Im searching the meaning of my dream but i cant find the exact answer, as i am searching for another answer i able to find this site and might as well register to have clearer explanation about it.

I am 28 years old still single and have my own business. (note: I just put this maybe my dreams has meaning also with my age and status.)

Last May 5, about 2pm, while i was resting i dreamed a reptile and a snake fighting on the ceiling. I know i was able to wake up and i noticed that a reptile and snake fighting is on the ceiling. I like to shout but no words come out on my mouth. I close my eyes again and my dream continued and the snake likes to go down and bite me. I opened my eyes again and i saw them fighting. And the third time i opened my eyes i know its a dream only because i can move my body and didnt see them on the ceiling anymore.

On MAy 6, about 2pm while resting again, i dreamed that i become blind, only one eye, i can use one of my eye but im having difficulty in doing things specially running. I was in one room and theres a fire and its very difficult for me to run since one eye got blind and since theres a lot of smoke coming inside the room where i am im thinking im going to die. I dont know who is the person holding my hand, i dont even know if male or female, he is the person hold my hand and help me go out in the room and i was saved.

Can you pls.help me interpret this dream? This is my frist time to have successive bad dream
. Thanks in advance and more power for this site!

Lover

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Federer

Excuse me People! Due to bad emotional health, i don't want to strain on this interpretation. I love to help you all, but i am in need to recover myself first.

Hope to give you helping support soon.

Ravin

Hi Federer!

I hope you get well soon. I will perform some healing on you tonight to try and speed up the process


Midnite

[Midnite]

Hi loverlover,

Welcome to the forums.

Originally Posted by loverlover

Last May 5, about 2pm, while i was resting i dreamed a reptile and a snake fighting on the ceiling. I know i was able to wake up and i noticed that a reptile and snake fighting is on the ceiling. I like to shout but no words come out on my mouth. I close my eyes again and my dream continued and the snake likes to go down and bite me. I opened my eyes again and i saw them fighting. And the third time i opened my eyes i know its a dream only because i can move my body and didnt see them on the ceiling anymore.

To dream a reptile has a few different meanings. It may firstly suggest that either you or somebody you know does not display warm and kind feelings. Reptiles are normally cold blooded and sometimes have a hard and spiky exterior. A reptile may also represent either an emotion within you or somebody you know is very well grounded. I believe it is the second meaning is important for this dream.
To dream a snake may represent a person or situation that you find very threatening.
The fact that both of these animals were fighting means that these are conflicting energies. Those which you perceive as well grounded, and those you perceive as threatening or aggressive. When you dreamed that snake was going to bite you, it highly suggests that you then viewed yourself as the reptile, or the victim. You currently feel that you are well grounded or even peaceful, but however are in constant competition with people who are very aggressive and threatening to your way of life.

On MAy 6, about 2pm while resting again, i dreamed that i become blind, only one eye, i can use one of my eye but im having difficulty in doing things specially running. I was in one room and theres a fire and its very difficult for me to run since one eye got blind and since theres a lot of smoke coming inside the room where i am im thinking im going to die. I dont know who is the person holding my hand, i dont even know if male or female, he is the person hold my hand and help me go out in the room and i was saved.

To dream that you are blind signifies that you currently feel that you have been disadvantaged in some way. To dream you are only half blind means, those disadvantages are not completely inhibiting you, but are causing enough worry to block off what comes to others naturally. It may also represent how you are purposely casting a blind eye to certain situations.
The fire represents a situation that you find yourself in as a result of those disadvantages or ignorance. This scene may signify your struggle with those disadvantages or may signify how casting a blind eye gets you into more trouble than it's worth.
The fact that somebody held your hand and saved you means people are willing to lend a helping hand when you need it. Do not feel alone in your cause, as there are others around you.

I do not believe these dreams are 'bad' or 'nightmares'. Dreams are learning modules designed to guide you, educate you, and most importantly help you resolve internal conflicting emotions. Use them well.

Midnite

[Federer]

Originally Posted by Midnite

Hi Federer!

I hope you get well soon. I will perform some healing on you tonight to try and speed up the process


Midnite

Oh that's big surprise. Thank you and looking forward to it, how it goes and hear from you.

Thank you so much.

[loverlover]

hi Midnite, thanks so much for this wonderful reply. It helps me understand myself better.
I realize now those are not bad dream as i think before. Thank you and God bless!

[shoshoni]

I had several dreams one night last week, most of them I can not recall the specifics of, but the actual dreams themselves do not seem to be of much importance. No matter what I was dreaming about, my mother appeared in them and warned me not to drink the coffee, especially if it was made using the "white coffee beans". She said the white coffee beans were full of fat. She came into at least 5 of my dreams that night that I can recall to give me this warning. In the last dream, she even pulled out a bag of the white coffee beans and poured them on the table to show me. I called my mother and told her about the dream and we were both stumped, because neither of us even like coffee. I do not believe that the meaning of this dream has anything to do with coffee. This is the first time I have ever had a dream warning me repeatedly throughout the night as this one did, so I feel like there is something significant to it. Anybody have an interpretation?

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by Federer

Oh that's big surprise. Thank you and looking forward to it, how it goes and hear from you.

Thank you so much.

Hi Federer,

Last night I performed a session on you. I hope it accelerates your healing process and you get well soon


Midnite

[Federer]

Originally Posted by Midnite

Hi Federer,

Last night I performed a session on you. I hope it accelerates your healing process and you get well soon


Midnite

Thank you Midnite. I will get back soon here.