The truth will out or will it?

[BigHugs]

I have a situation where a person I care about has had some thing done to
him by another he really thinks I did. It appears to be bad.
This man is out to ruin my happiness, my friendships etc etc
He really really thinks I did this bad thing some one else close to him did.
The sad part is this man thinks this person close to him that did this really
cares for him.

The sickening thing is the person that is responsible continues to sit back
thinking it a joke that I continue to wear blame from this man and have my
life ruined for some thing I did not do. Thinks it funny that I should continue
to wear this mans anger and hositility over some thing Im not responsible for.

Does any one have any psychic premonition as to how long it will be now
until this guy finds out that I am actually innocent for what this other
mentally unbalanaced person has sat back and allowed me to wear
blame for? When it will it be revealed this other person did
this bad thing to this man and not me?

I am tired of being hated by many for what they think I did to this man
that this other is fully responsible for? I am tired of being avoided by
others and knifed in the back for some thing I did not do and should not
be wearing the blame for.

So far I have been subdued to stalking and harassment on the internet
and off. Arson attack and being treated cruely and unfairly by others who
think I am guilty.

This poor man is proceeding to ruin my life and others are helping him and
yet he possesses no knowledge what so ever that I am entirely innocent.
I have tried many times to vindicate my self but it turned out to be
unsuccessful. He would not listen to a word I said to him.

Any help with this situation would be greatly received and would help
in bringing my tormented and stressed mind some urgently needed relief.

Thanks for taking the time to read my post.

Big Hugs.

[CFPurpose]

Wow, 'hugs' it sounds like you are in a doozy of a situation. I can't read what is going on or what will happen for you. Apologize but depending on the severity of the situation, there might be quite a few things you need to do.

I don't know if this is involving police forces or the law, but either way, to be harrassed is unlawful and you have every right to request protection.

Do you mind me asking your age?

[Ijin Kaion]

my condoleances...

the truth is what is and not what is not.

you find yourself in a bad situation indeed, hope by now you are not since this is an older post.

do you know what happened?
if so, find the one responsible.
if known, learn about that person type, style, abillity to lie.
when it is a good liar: make sure you know all details, even the dirty ones.
if not a good liar: make sure you know all about the details learn how to undermine this person or make uncomfortable.
next stop alibi, get your`s, get the alibi of the responsible person.

when the situation is known, the one responsible for the event in place with alibi, and your`s is covered, attend to get some support and whitnesses.

when support is large: don`t worry you have your credibillity and the people will tell the man you are not the one responsible.

when support is small: still don`t worry you have the alibi, the responsible one at place, your covered, now the support and you will have to convince the man in a truthfull way and make sure he understands that you mean it and that you are not lying, swear on your late grand grand mother`s grave or something like that to make clear that you are not lying or joking around.

the situation has changed the man no longer believes you are responsible and he has the right to truth i would say, and so should you ofcourse, he will wonder: if you didn`t do it, then who did?

don`t worry stay truthfull and tell your story again and make sure she is there to be confronted, that way you make her uncomfortable, and you make her space for lying very small.
also have your support to keep things quiet and calm, if she freaks out or starts screaming then let the support guide her away and cool her down while you further explain what did happen.

if she tries to make you slip by saying: why do you know all this so well?
then don`t be alarmed answer truthfully that you have endured his wrath unjustfully, and that you are not directly mad at him, but at her for doing such a thing.
you care for the guy, she doesn`t and his friends she messes around with.

i can assure you that if it indeed goes like this or similair like this then your name will be cleared and the wrath shall turn to it`s truthfull owner.

still this is just a simple plan of things you need to get straight in order to be able to fix it yourself and if you have good friends then i`m sure they will back you up.

it wòn`t be litterally but some pointers in it might help.

i just hope it`s allready over^_^

abayo^_^

kaion