Please help me with figuring these two dreams out.

[Lohengrin]

Hey, there. I just started to read some Jung and ofcourse had a drastic change of perspective in the importance of dreams.

First one is a dream that have recoured to me often, i am pretty damm sure this means something. For some time i actualy tought of it as a distant memory, but it never happend. I am at this rock coast, near this huge lake of clear-water. I am fishing with my dad, i am a little boy again. My dad is fishing and i am off on my own, in my own little fantasy world. Behind this huge rock i find the skeletons of some huge animal. With both scarecity and fascination i begin to play around with the bones.

The other one is more of a recouring thing. Latley i keep having dreams about forming connections with women and when i am going to have sex with them, they have alot of pubic hair, like huge bushes, that goes some way too. One was a girl i know and the other dream was someone who reminded me of a girl i tryed to pick up, trough facebook. When i see their huge bushes i am going from the state of lust to diguist.

Now i am a person who is pretty used to experiencing weird things. The thing weird is rarely used in my vocalbury. But the last dream, i have no frekkin idea what i could mean.

Any toughts ?

I think the first dream must resemble some importance.

[Mynder]

I'm going to go guessing here, since I don't know you and have no idea of what personal and subtle meanings these things hold for you.

The skeleton behind the rock that you were playing with might hint at that you love to delve into hidden mysteries...(hidden behind the rock, only a skeleton left), and play with them. Are you serious in your pursuit of things out of the ordinary? Or are you just "wetting your toes" and afraid to dive in?

About the pubic hair...it seems to me as sort of a "reason not to get together with the girl". As if on some level you reject the idea of getting that close. When you imagine yourself in a relationship with one of these girls...what feelings well up? Is there anything that tries to tell you you are undeserving of this experience? Is there some past situation that sparked the same kind of emotional response?

Or, as legendary Angela would phrase it: "If she has such a big bush of pubic hair, that means she is....", and "If I am together with a girl who has such a big bush of pubic hair, that means I am...".

Fill in the dots.

[Angela]

Originally Posted by Lohengrin

...i am pretty damm sure this means something.

Of course they do! They mean you like me.

Your dream symbols are personal and subjective, but if I were interpreting them for myself, I might imagine that your dad symbolizes your grown up, conscious, enlightened self, taking you and watching over your unconscious, your child-self, as you explore the remains of the great beasts from the past -- that is, your old emotionally charged internal representations.

And one of those IRs -- big bushes -- is one of the things you're exploring. My intuitive guess is that it represents mature, grown-up relationship, the kind that is disgusting, daunting and overwhelming to your unconscious child-self, the way it might have occurred for you if you had seen a grown woman's pubic hair when you were very small, and the image implanted in your brain with an emotional charge. It's not about the woman's bush, in other words; it's about your own inner resources as you get ready to delve into mature sexual relationship with women.

[st33med]

"Having fun in the bushes...
Wish you were here"

[Lohengrin]

First thanks so much for the replies, i was so eager for hering other peoples opinions about these matters.

Mynder, i do love to dvelve into mysteries. A thought that came that for me, it sometimes becomes conflicitng, between dveling into the esoteric and being rational, still keeping my feets on the ground. My father is both a rational and a conservative man. We often went fishing, at to me it was something truely unique. Since my dad traveled alot, i think it was the way i utlimatly got to know him.

I am also realy intrested bout your opinion on the bush-dreams Angela. While i enjoy exploring sexuality, i`ve never been inn a SERIOUS relationship. My view on girls used to be realy shallow, only with girls i found attractive. But now i go around more and more realy being with my "I love girls" mantra. Wich i truely do. My biggest fear when it comes to a relationship is that it becomes mediocre. Alot more could be written, but ill shut for now.

[st33med]

No no, keep going!

If you want to, try looking at someone local who you find attractive and you absolutely love their persona. Try talking to them more, and if you feel the time is right, go right ahead and ask if they are interested in a relationship with you.

You can even ask up front immediately of you want. But, if you feel you need to become more comfortable around females, go ahead and talk to her to get more comfy.