Personal Development for Smart People Forums - Confused and want to know more.

Hi, i'm new to the forums. Ever since i was about 12 years old i've been wondering things that i have experienced. Well it started after my mom had found out she had breast cancer. It was the middle of the night and i experienced a dream or what i call a dream of her passing away and it was very real like and was full of alot of detail, About a year later my mom passes away. She passed away how i seen it in my "Dream". I have always believed in psychics and the paranormal. I grew up around it. I also realize i only "Dream" when it is to happen sometime in the future. I was about 17 when i had a "Dream" about myself older in the hospital having my first child. It had alot of detail (sex of the child,hair color, the way the baby looked,problems i had during child birth). This also came true. About a month ago i had another dream that has not happened yet. It was about death like the first time i experienced these type of "Dreams". What i would like to know is if it's just nothing with these so called dreams i have or is it more of a psychic ability, and if it is a psychic ability i would like to learn how i can strengthen this ability in a safe manor. If anyone can help me better understand what i have experienced i would greatly appreciate it.