A dream message from a deceased friend?

[Jerrylee]

My first post (other than on the general board)

A friend of mine sent me an article by Erin about distinguishing between a dream character or from a genuine person (the person passed away). I had a friend visit me twice in dreams shortly after she passed away but it was more than a year since the last one. So I’m feeling more confused as time goes by, what does it mean?

First dream:

This was less than 3 months after her death. I am standing in this white room with her standing across from me. My initial reaction is shock and disbelief. No words come from me in this brief conversation. She says these words to me “Please marry Jamie”. Jamie is her husband that she left behind unexpectedly. I woke up feeling so strange like, wow, who is Jamie? You see, we all socially call him JP and I never knew she personally called him Jamie because when we chat, it is JP. I forgot about this dream and told no one.

Second dream:

This was 6 months after the 2nd dream. Again, white room and this time I am laying down. I see her at my left shoulder. She says the same words again, “Please marry Jamie!” “You have to!” clearly frustrated but not mad at me. I am scared and say “but I can’t, I’m married!”. Woke up feeling stressed out and suddenly started making connections to other intuitive feelings I’ve had about that guy.

I was married to someone else, a marriage that really should have never happened. Approx 2 weeks after the 1st dream, he threw me into a wall and I instantly knew the marriage was over but had fought tooth and comb to prove myself wrong for the next year and half from that point before it was final.

One year ago this month I had 2 more dreams about Jamie, it was also during the time where I finally realized divorce was my answer to my now ex husband. I am very happy to be divorced but still grieving over it as it was final in june and he moved out less than 2 months ago.

Third dream:

I’m feeling confused and dazed so I wake up in a dark room and start walking towards the door. I attempt to make a left turn when I feel a tug on my wrist which I feel even as I awoke with a voice saying “Jamie is that way”. The thing is, I don’t know who the female voice is and I’m deaf.

Final dream:

I’m on this party train going through the woods and arrive to this house. I end up in the backyard on the deck and sit down. A friend walks to me, this person is very much alive, and holds my arms and looks at me sternly in the face and says this to me “Jamie is waiting for you”, my response “I know”.

That’s it. Jamie is the guy I realized from day one that he was exactly who I wanted but I chose to get married to someone else and after all he was married. I am too recently divorced and not ready to move on yet. Neither is he. But I am confused on why what if this isn’t meant to be, what was the point of those dreams?

I'm starting to feel like I'm crazy.

On the other hand, my favorite movie when it first came out is Serendipity and that's exactly how I am feeling right now. It's fate but it's not time yet.

[themaster]

We are often given messages after death.. why does it have to mean anything? It's usually just a message of love and support..

There are sometimes soul blueprints/themes put together on who we meet up with here.. maybe yours is coming to fruition.. to understand the truth of this reality is to understand that death can be bypassed and marriage is a easy one