Undoing black magic?

[fitx3]

What advice can you give to a loved one who believes he's been cursed by someone with black magic? Can one really be effected physically by bad intent of another?

[blossom]

What makes this person think he has been cursed?
Has someone hinted to him that a curse has been placed, or is he just experiencing problems in his life. Most of the time people who think they are under a curse are just not looking at how they are creating problems for themselves...so it must be someone elses fault.
Is your loved one prone to paranoia?

Without more information it's hard to give anything more helpful than what I've already given...

I understand the concept of a curse to be a psychological game where one person puts FEAR into another person by making them believe they are cursed, and because of this fear, the person who thinks they are cursed will begin to behave irrationally and be careless. Like, they may be too anxious about what COULD happen, that they cross the street without looking carerfully and get bowled over by a car. Now, that isn't the curse working there, that's the persons own lack of attentiveness BECAUSE they think they are cursed...see what I'm getting at herer?

[Anna Conlan]

Hi,

I agree with what Blossom says.

I have come across curse energy in a couple of readings. It basically amounts to one person sending negative energy, wishing ill/misfortune upon another person (sometimes a very specific misfortune). And then the receiver having a receptor for the negative energy - and that is usually fear.

Basically, if you don't have the fear and you don't believe you can be affected by a curse, it doesn't happen.

The real lesson in the curse and the more important thing to ask is, why does this person have so much fear? That fear attracts more things to fear, so it's a good idea to work on raising your vibration and overcoming your fears. And in addition, assure this person that curses only work if they allow it. They can deflect the energy using the power of their intention. Visualize putting up a mirror or encasing yourself in a protective bubble that lets in no negative energy.

[fitx3]

blossom and Anna, thank you for responding.

Fear is the key word, he is practically paralyzed by fear. Long story short. A dear friend was molested at a young age by his older male cousin. My friend grew up and after years of keeping it all in due to embarrassment and shame, he finally decided to face the past. He did so by documenting the events that happened and sent them out as a warning to the elementary school this man was working at. The child molester was reviewed and perhaps due to some prior incidents, was asked to resign. A strange thing occurred shortly after these docs were sent out. My friend had just laid back in bed (insists he was NOT asleep or dreaming) when he felt what he described as a "huge evil entity" lift him straight up into the air by his shirt and crotch. He described immense pain and a very loud noise during this encounter. I asked what feelings he took from this thing and he said it was expressing anger and a feeling of a stronger power over him, a warning. Since then, each time my friend makes plans to visit the same city the pedophile lives in, he develops some kind of sickness or set back that doesn't allow him to go. It was after this incidence that he became aware that the molester's aunts are known to practice BM.

We had figured that the pedophile was fearing for his life because at one point my friend told him that if he ever saw him again, there would be physical payback in the form of battery. Since then, that man has barricaded the widows of his home with steel bars! My friend is not mentally impaired, a trouble maker, nor does he take drugs of any kind.

Fear against fear.

[Anna Conlan]

I can see how that might act as a receptor for a curse.

If he would let go of all those negative energies then he would not have a fear/anger receptor for BM. To do that, he would probably need to come to terms with the past, forgive and move on. Perhaps a desire for vengeance is also interfering with that.

[blossom]

How did he "become aware that the molester's aunts practise BM?" was it just a rumour that he heard along the grapevine? Sometimes people who like to feel like they have power and control over people will create these lies so that people in the community will fear them! Does he know for certain that they actually do practise BM? It's possible they have put some kind of whammy on him to keep him away...but it's more likely that he is creating the sickness and whatever else comes up to avoid having to be in the same town as this perp. I don't really blame him either...maybe he's afraid of what he'll do to him if he sees him?

As for the incident where he was lifted up by some invisible entity...I'm sorry, I have nothing I can really offer there...I've never had or known anyone who has had these experiences...I've only seen them on the Exorcist and the story of Emily Rose! Are you sure he hasn't been watching too many possession horror movies? I don't mean to sound mocking, it sounds like he definately has been through something that has terrified him...I'm just not sure what? Unfortunately, evil entities only seem to show up when noone else is there to witness it...sneeky buggers!

I have to agree with Anna. Once he can realize that it's his own fear of these things that is causing him to be paralyzed, and can release the fear, then he won't be affected by it anymore.

[codenamesmiley]

Originally Posted by fitx3

What advice can you give to a loved one who believes he's been cursed by someone with black magic? Can one really be effected physically by bad intent of another?

The answer is both yes and no.

If the person who has been cursed "believes" in curses, chances are likely that thru the Universal Law of Attraction and their own personal obsession and worry..bad things can happen.

If this person is strong in their faith and refuses to give power to dark curses....then they will be fine and not effected by said curse.

I wish your friend the best of luck and faith, in dealing with the dark meanie.

Blessings,
Rebecca

[aggie]

i have heard that "curses" from the likes "black magic" and 'vodoo" only work if the person believes it can.

i guess there is something to be said for that.

however, being a Christian, i learned the hard way that you can encounter "christians" who while they know the bible very well and can quote chapter and verse....also know of and can use ancient biblical "spells" for a lack of a better word. i know it probably sounds crazy...but i became aware of this when i sought counsel from a person in a religious order when some strange things were happening in my life after being exposed to above said "christians."

there is also supposed to be such a thing as a "generational curse"....guess that may have something to do with "the sins of the father...."

i know all of this depends on one"s personal strengths, weaknessess, fears and spiritual beliefs how the above can affect you, how you can resist it, not believe in it, or defend yourself against it.

your friend is fearful, and has not only a lot of negativity around him, but whether he knows it or not he is vulnerable and i believe this is when real or imagined forces can get the better of us.

as far as the lifting off the bed thing....i have had night paralysis experiences and in one i actual felt like "someone" put their "hands" underneath me and was trying to lift me off my bed. it felt so real...i actually checked next to me to make sure my husband was still sound asleep because i thought it could only be him, but it wasn't!

again, not everyone has the same twist on this, but whatever the cause...it sounds like he needs some serious counseling or therapy to deal so this past trauma does not over take his life...so he feels in control and not the need to blame it anymore for what he feels is wrong or bad in his life.

[blossom]

I don't think what you said about christian spell-doers sounds crazy or silly at all aggie...infact I think that alot of people who call themselves christians (present company excluded) can do alot of harm with their " I'll pray for you" mentality whenever they come across someone that they deem to be doing something that goes against gods wishes...like homosexuals or women who choose to have abortions performed. How many abortion doctors have been murdered at the hands of crazy christians "doing god's will"! Thou shall not kill apparently didn't count in these cases!
Prayers and spells are actually the same thing...a bunch of words chanted for a specific purpose..to bring about something the person speaking them wants or needs!
The Catholic church used to employ witches and astrologists back in medieval times, before they decided to turn against them and mark them as the devil's concubine...that's a historic fact!

[codenamesmiley]

Yes Blossom,

I agree.

Blessings,
Rebecca

[fitx3]

It is interesting how the Catholic Church works. An organization made up of some but not all, confused and corrupt individuals. The pedophile I mentioned above had been studying to become a priest in his 20s. According to articles written about The Lavender Mafia, it turns out the reason there was so many pedophiles in the priesthood is because they had been recruited by other pedophiles. A safe haven for men who like to have sexual relations with prepubescent boys in the house of their God. Definitely confused.

[blossom]

It's possible? I just see it as an un-natural progression from repressing sexuality...it comes out eventually in very unhealthy ways, as it has come to light in recent years. That and the fact that these males have more contact with the alter boys more than girls, though I think there have been some cases of girls being molested in the past also? It's really about power though...power over someone smaller and weaker...domination at it's most perverse, and an abuse of trust that parents and children place in these people...but they aren't all pedophiles. Unfortunately for the good ones, people tend to generalize.

All the torturing of all those people during the burning times, most of whom weren't even real witches...is another example of repressed sexual fantasies made twisted and sadistic because of the catholic churches insistence that sex is dirty and should only happen for procreative purposes IMO! If they just let these people be human beings and have sex whenever they want without feeling guilty, it probably wouldn't happen so much? Then again, it might happen just as much, who knows?

[Merrick1]

Dear fitx3,

I would like to offer your friend a help. My girlfriend and I successfully work with this kind of things in our therapies.

We live in Europe but it can be a distant healing. We always provide our clients with the detailed course of the therapy in writing, so that they may understand what was going on. Unfortunately, our web pages are not in English yet.

As to the terms, there is no payment in advance. But the therapy is quite time consuming, so, of course, we would expect some financial reward afterwards. We have no problem with that because people see the positive changes happening, so it's very seldom that someone refuses to pay.

All we need to know is:

your friend's consent with the therapy
his full name
his date of birth
the name of the state and town where he lives.

Our standard price for the services currently is approx. USD 25 per hour. The therapy usually lasts 5 or six hours.

So, if there's some trust and the conditions are acceptable, please let me know at: sunnyi@centrum.cz

Keep well

Merrick

[fitx3]

I just wanted to thank you all for your responses. It confirms what I have believed the whole time. Our beliefs create our reality. If I live in fear, I will create more fear. If I believe someone can hurt me, they will. If I choose to surround myself with the light of goodness, nothing will be able to penetrate that goodness, because the darkness won't exist. I am going to encourage my friend to find internal peace first. IMO, our world begins with the subconscious. Once that is right, all should follow.

@Merrick Thank you for the offer but he's more interested in working this out on his own at this point.

[Merrick1]

Thanks for your reply, fitx3. I wish him lots of strength and success.

Merrick