|09-01-2009, 09:47 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Sep 2009
Hi all, this is my first post, the reason I am doing it is to find some answers and get advice. I come to you guys with 100% honesty, I dont bend the true to favor me, I will just tell you what happened to me.
I hope I can find some kind of advice, I have manage to handle myself and get out of the situation that has harmed me thus far. To start, I will in short tell you all what has happen to me...
I got married at an early age, 22, my mother disagreed and really did not like the fact that I was going to get married.
Several things happen before I got married, I had an accident, things were not going right, even after we got married things started happening that could not be explained. Me and my wife did not bother to seek nobody. But my wife will mention of things happening that were strange.
Since we got married in Germany, we decided to go back to Los Angeles to start living. My mother insisted in giving us a place to stay, a bedroom she had in the house. Because I was finishing my university degree I agreed to stay. My wife could not come on the plane with me because of documents issues. So I waited 5 months until she came. When she came we fought constantly, mostly because of my mom. I know what you guys are thinking and I thought it too. But when I did, I will have this thing to stay. My wife was having a hard time finding work. I help as much as I could. Finally in November she got a job as a retailer. Everything was going well until the start of January of 2009. I am catholic, I am strong in my faith and till this day I thank god that I am where I am.
My mother came with a group of woman to the house to do "prayers", but couple of months ago a priest, close friend, came to bless the house. I could not understand it why would she do it again. She said she needed to come in our room to do cleaning as well. After this, this started happening in the house, whenever I had to stay out (military duty), my wife could not sleep, she will have bad images and see weird stuff in the house.
During mid february, a girl show up in my class, she was a transferred from a different major, I paid no attention to her whatsoever. She will begin to talk to me, and I will talk back. Student to student conversation.
Before I continue, let me go back when I met my wife.
I met my wife in Germany, I was a soldier, during this time, I wasnt sure about having a girlfriend was a good idea, so I broke up because I was scared that If I go somewhere that I will get a Dear John Letter. During that break up I never dated anyone else, nor have cheated on her. I told her that I will never cheat on her because that was not my person. We had a long distance relationship when I went back to Los Angeles, even then I never cheated. So, back to the story...
I began to talk to this woman, about the problems that we had at home, about my wife, and the issues we had. I only talked to her, let her know about my life and how tough was it too be the only one to pay for school, and no support from the parents. Something happened that I cannot explain, it turned out I cheated on my wife for 6 months, months that I dont remember, even know, I cant recall anything. My wife find out and left me.
During the first week I could not sleep, after this happened, I had no interest to call the girl from class, and never did. I decided to go to Germany and talk to her, when I was at the airport my mother called and said dont get on that plane or all your stuff will be in the trash when you come back. But I had to do this and still got on the plane. My mother took everything lightly, like nothing happen, she said, I knew this will happen, its ok, nothing bad happen. I could not believe she said that! at least, to say that she disagreed with my actions but not even that.
When I arrived in Germany I went to her house, face down and ashamed, but still did not know from what. Her mom slapped me, my wife hit me and kicked me, and screamed at me. After my wife calmed down we talked how strange was it that I did not cheat on her while on long distance. Why now, when we were married and she was at home. During my stay in Germany I found out that I was cursed. My wife told me that she spoke to people, uncles and priests. Before I came to Germany, an spiritual adviser told my wife I was coming to Germany but she did not believe it, he also told her that it wasnt my fault, that I didnt do it. Her aunt told her as well, and her grandma said that my mom was dangerous. After this talked I decided to move out from home and find out more truth from all this.
I cried and seeked help I talked to 3 priest that specialize in spells, curse cleaning and prayers. I began telling them my story and they easily came to conclusion that i was cursed. After I found out, my mom decided to talk to me, she did not know anything about me being cursed. She told me two things and two things only, what is your decision? I said to move out and be with my wife, then she said. Then you are dead to me and left.
Now, I returned to Germany, its been a month, havent heard nothing from her, I am with my wife, with her family. Their family accepted me. My wife still has a hard time but I understand her! Its hard to fix something after something terrible like this. But, I left everything in the US, a great job, my university education(which I will conclude here in Germany), my personal stuff, everything.
But I will stick with it, I love her with all my heart and even though it has been tough, we still manage to enjoy each day, I have come more closer to god, and pray every night. I cherish and love my wife. Even when she calls me all this bad stuff. The reason I am posting this is because I dont understand curses, why can I not remember that I cheated on my wife, why cannot I remember anything. Why is my conscience at peace. If I cheated consciously, why leave everything behind and continue that life of freedom. I dont know. Any advice will help.
I apologize for the long story, but Its too complex to make it shorter. Thank you all who have read it this far, and thanks to those that will respond.
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