sex and lucid dreaming

[rocketman]

this will seem like a very weird question so bear with me.

i just recently became familiar with the concept of lucid dreaming and the one question that keeps coming to mind is with regard to sex. this will seem immature but keep in mind that i'm young and have sex on my mind a lot.

a major theme that is common with a lot of my normal dreams is that of regret - there will be a scenario involving a female in the dream whereupon i will conduct myself as a person would in real life and have inhibitions. then upon waking up and realizing it was a dream, i become regretful of not asking for sex as there would have been no social repercussions (ie: it's a dream). i never have the erotic dreams that i assume other males my age frequently have.

so i'm wondering if, with regard to lucid dreaming, since people know they are dreaming and can control the dream, are sexual dreams more frequent?

[AuspiciousEight]

It really depends on the person. Imagine a virtual reality where you can do whatever you want with whomever you want with no repercussions at all. Would you be having sex?

There's your answer.

[ssandra]

I don´t know how young you are.. but assuming you are at least over 16, why not try to work on your issues with regards to asking people to have sex with you?

Maybe try to change your opinion about it?

It is not wrong to think about sex a lot when you are young, or old

There is nothing wrong with sex (as long as you are safe)

There is nothing dirty about sex (ok, maybe a little bit dirty, if you are doing it right )

Why would there be social repercussions if you had sex in real life? Sex is just sex, doesn´t mean that you have to marry the other person.

[rocketman]

Originally Posted by ssandra

Why would there be social repercussions if you had sex in real life? Sex is just sex, doesn´t mean that you have to marry the other person.

oh no, that's not what i meant. i meant, in real life, you can't just start hitting on every attractive girl you see because you want to have sex with them. that's not professional behavior. that's what i meant. whereas in a dream, i would try to have sex with everyone.

[ssandra]

Originally Posted by rocketman

oh no, that's not what i meant. i meant, in real life, you can't just start hitting on every attractive girl you see because you want to have sex with them. that's not professional behavior. that's what i meant. whereas in a dream, i would try to have sex with everyone.

I´m still confused... why could you not hit on every attrative girl you want to have sex with? How else would you have sex with them? (it usually doesn´t happen by itself...)

(maybe it is just me... I don´t see anything wrong with sex or with having lost of sex. I believe most people would be so much happier if they weren´t so uptight about it and got laid a bit more...)

[rocketman]

what i mean is that naturally, as a male, you want to have sex with any above average looking female. but no self respecting male would hit on everything that walks - that's disgusting, unprofessional, and pretty sleazy.

i pick and choose girls that i am genuinely interested in and pursue them. i don't succumb to my carnal urges and try to hump everything that walks. but in a dream i would want to - that's the distinction i am trying to articulate.

[RJlogs]

I've read somewhere that having sex in a lucid dream is quite difficult and requires a very advanced lucid dreamer, cause usually you get too excited too soon and wake up before anything could happen...

[ssandra]

Originally Posted by rocketman

what i mean is that naturally, as a male, you want to have sex with any above average looking female. but no self respecting male would hit on everything that walks - that's disgusting, unprofessional, and pretty sleazy.

i pick and choose girls that i am genuinely interested in and pursue them. i don't succumb to my carnal urges and try to hump everything that walks. but in a dream i would want to - that's the distinction i am trying to articulate.

ah... ok, now i understand. Sorry for the misinterpretation.

[forynav]

I've had spontaneous lucid dreams ever since I was a child and I make it a point to grab some random boobs and have some quickies with strangers on the street.

In fact, after flying, sex is the first thing in my head when I go lucid.

[andrew]

I always end up waking at the best part...

That's interesting, I always love flying in my dreams. I'd imagine sex would be at the top as well.

[BeyondtheWrap]

Ah, sex in lucid dreams. I also am a young male who wants to have sex with every above average looking female. So naturally, sex holds a lot more appeal than flying.

When I become lucid, I usually think, "OK, time to get laid!" Then, ideally, either I am immediately having sex, or I see a girl, rip her clothes off, and start having sex.

However, it doesn't always work. Sometimes I'll realize I'm dreaming but then not get the idea to have sex. I might get too excited and wake up. Or, I might get the idea and then immediately forget about it, dropping out of lucidity.

But yeah, in a lucid dream, it's just a matter of deciding it and then manifesting it. Hitting on every attractive girl you see is not necessary. Unless you want to practice, I guess.

[Daffy Duck]

Originally Posted by AuspiciousEight

It really depends on the person. Imagine a virtual reality where you can do whatever you want with whomever you want with no repercussions at all. Would you be having sex?

There's your answer.

Exactly. I never have sex in lucid dreams because I can have sex at any time when I'm awake. So I do other things, like fly, or be a superhero, or explore my own mind.

[rocketman]

for maybe the first time in my entire life last night, i became lucid during a dream. i was some sort of superhero in a shopping mall and i stole this jewel from this villain. so i escaped to the parking lot and hot wired this car and was on the road and then suddenly it hit me 'wait a minute, i'm not a superhero, this must be a dream! go back to the mall and get laid.' in my excitement at this realization that i was dreaming, i was unable to control the car properly and got into an accident which caused me to wake up.

in response to those people wondering why i would want to have sex during a dream, i am young and single at the moment, so that is the main thing on my mind lol.

[KazeCraven]

I usually go for the hugs and kisses.

Does that make me weird?

Flying and using magic are definitely my top priorities though.