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05-30-2009, 06:35 PM
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 |  Visitation Dreams.
I recently lost the man I love and since then I've had a number of strange things happen and I have what felt like Visitation dreams...There were 3 altogether....from what I've read about visitation dreams the dead visit the living...in my dreams it seemed like I went to him. First dream...I found him in a glass building that seemed to float on multi coloured water. It was some kind of hospital. He was still frail, I kissed him and he told me he needed rest so I wrapped him in a blanket and left him sleeping. Second dream. I was working on a project in a school type situation....he came and sat beside me and I embraced him and apologised for all the times I had been cross with him. He held me while I cried. Third dream. I could hear him speaking to me on the phone...I was amazed that his voice sounded the same...he reminded me to make sure I got credit for the photographs...( I had created an album for his family after he died but I hadn't put my name on it.) I have had other dreams about him but I know they were just muddled up ordinary dreams but the 3 I mentioned had clarity and were memorable. I would love to hear from people who have also had visitation dreams or have experienced signs after the death of a loved one... No need to post and tell me I'm crazy...I already suspect that....its reassurance I need. !! Thank you all for your help. Snagglepuss  |
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05-30-2009, 06:57 PM
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Before you jump to a supernatural conclusion, consider natural possibilities. Have you tried to analize these dreams along traditional definitions? Here is an article about what dreams are and how to interpret them. Having said all that, no one can tell you specifically that your dreams mean this or that, or that they are or aren't "visitation dreams", it's up to you to make that decision based on your own experience and the events of your life at the time of the dream. If you have, or think you have any pk ability already, they may very well be "visitation dreams", but then again...they may not. | |
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05-30-2009, 11:32 PM
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The best advice I can offer is to ask you to look inside and question for yourself, whether or not these dreams were a visitation by your loved one, or if they were a part of your normal grieving process. I would say though, that if these dreams are a source of conflict for you emotionally, make the decision to put them in the grieving category and let them rest as nice memories, rather than a possible on going connection to your love. I suspect that you're looking for someone to say it's ok not to let go, that he will continue to visit and that your connection runs so deep there is no separation; and honestly, that all may be true. But closure is important, and if ou continue to hope for a supernatural connection, it will never come. Either way you look at it, your love of him and what he meant to you has not and will not change...try not to put so much weight on what dreams mean in such an emotional context. Focus on your love for him and do your best to honour his memory by being the person he loved. | |
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05-31-2009, 09:03 AM
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Thank you for taking so so much time and trouble to reply. First of all I didn't need anything to tell me our connection was very strong. Even when he was alive we had strange telepathic moments. The dreams were very positive and healing and I would like to believe they were real "connections" but I am a sceptic !! I've had these dreams before. When my sister Alice died I had several but when my sister Ellen died I had none. I grieved them both the same..I had a spectacular one about my mother 30 years after she died...she showed me wellington boots with pink hearts on them and told me to buy them or I would get pneumonia...(I used to get wet feet all the time from walking the dog in the fields) I though it was hilarious because in my mind wellies were either black or green but when I went to buy a pair the assistant handed me pink ones with blue hearts....I was speechless to say the least. The sceptic in me is telling me this is your subconscious speaking to you in images you would understand and take seriously but the mystic in me wants to believe the universe is more complicated and magical than we realise... Thanks again.... Snagglepuss |
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06-01-2009, 08:54 AM
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| There is little difference between a departed soul’s status after he leaves the body and that of his status before he left the body. Now that this person is departed you are deprived of the physical way of reaching him but the psychic method is still intact as before. That has not changed. What has changed is your orientation for communicating with the person. The shock of death is that we are no longer able to relate by the reliable physical means, but if we condition ourselves to the psychic side, we would be able to continue communications and relations with others who can only use the psychic side. Do phones ring in the psychic world? They do but only in dimension which directly adjacent to this world. In such dimensions a departed person creates an environment which suits his or her needs which are based on their last material circumstance (circumstance of their most recently life in a material body). Usually a person creates a house, just like the one he or she lived in just before passing from the body, and usually the person’s sickness which was endured at death of the last body, persists for a time in the astral world as well. I would recommend that you read up on these subjects. I wrote a book which discusses this top and gives practices related to it.* * Amazon.com: Meditation Pictorial: Michael Beloved: Books |
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06-02-2009, 05:18 AM
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Hi Snagglepuss, Firstly my condolences on the loss of your love from this plane, but I am delighted to hear that you are open enough to receive the communication from the other side. Many of my clients have reported three visitations (either in a dream state or in the physical world) from their lost loved ones. Do not be surprised if your connection with him becomes more subtle from now on - it is their way of popping in and making sure you are okay. Much love and healing energy to you. Namaste |
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06-02-2009, 09:26 AM
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To psychictherapy and MiBeloved... Thank you both for your reply...I am trying to find info ....hence post here. I will order book now and thank you for link.This has been happening to me all my life and there was always someone to tell me I was imagining it or crazy but I knew it had to be more than that. With my beloved I had 3 signs and 3 dreams and I've not had a peep from him since !! I am no stranger to grief and I dont think I am looking for permission to not move on...I loved him in life and I want that love to continue but not in any kind of a morbid way... I have an idea it is all to do with vibration and if we could raise our vibrations we would align ourselves to much more subtle ways of communicating with the mystery and magic of the universe....!! Thanks again for your help and positivity.. Snagglepuss...  |
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06-19-2009, 09:29 AM
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There is a very interesting story that my mother told me: She had a co-worker who had lost her son in a really terrible manner - he was 8 or 9 or something like that when he drowned in a shallow puddle during an epileptic seizure while he was playing outside. You can imagine what it was like for the poor woman - she felt immense grief and guilt and couldn't forgive herself for years. About two or three years after his death, she saw her son in a dream. He was wearing the clothes he had died in and was dripping wet. The woman said to him: "You are wet, you must change or you'll catch a cold!" He replied: "You're not letting me dry out, mom!" The woman was shaken and took it as a sign that her son wanted her to finally let go of her guilt and grief as she was holding him back. |
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