I Actually Felt Kiss in my Dream

[azzyboo]

As title really, I had a fantastic dream last night where I was kissing the man that I am in love with, he is not my partner btw and we have never been together but have come close.

I have experienced the odd bit of kissing with him before a couple of times in dreams but not like this I mean I actually felt this kiss and it wasn't just a short kiss let me tell you, oh no this kiss seemed to go on forever and i could feel it and I mean really feel it, infact I can still feel it now and its nearly tea time the next day (5pm).

So I have to ask how was i able to actually feel this kissing session ? I mean in my dream he was the dominant kisser I was lying down and he was on top kissing me with what seemed like real urgency, it was just awesome.

So if I never get to kiss him like that in the real world at least I will always have this memory as I don't think it will fade but how did this happen? as tbh I would love to be able to replicate this feeling with him even if it is only in my dreams.

[Angela]

Does the "HOW" matter so much?

Dream sensory experiences can occur as just as real as waking sensory experiences -- often even more real. Be grateful for them!

Real Dream Sensory Experiences are how I've managed to have sex with Daniel Craig and George Clooney without breaking any promises to my sweetheart, Danger Man.

[azzyboo]

Originally Posted by Angela

Does the "HOW" matter so much?

Dream sensory experiences can occur as just as real as waking sensory experiences -- often even more real. Be grateful for them!

Real Dream Sensory Experiences are how I've managed to have sex with Daniel Craig and George Clooney without breaking any promises to my sweetheart, Danger Man.

Lol, love it Angela its just the first time i've ever experienced it.

Btw may I just take this opportunity to say how much I admire your views on things, always well balanced and compassionate x

[Angela]

I hope it's not the last time you experience it! Why not make a date for tonight's dream to have a deliberate dream experience? I think I will. Hmmm..... I wonder if Frank Zappa might be available for an astral meet-up?

Thank you for the nice words.

[intellisyte]

There is a good chance you two hooked up during A Out Of Body experience.

[azzyboo]

Out of Body experience that puts a new spin on it, who would have been out of body, him or me ?

[neo1234]

There is a good chance you two hooked up during A Out Of Body experience.

You better hope not.

For those of you who are having Out Of Body experiences, or lucid dreams, try one little experiment: call out to Jesus Christ. Just to see what happens.

Look at my post called "VIDEO EVIDENCE: bla bla bla"

Look at the video I linked in it.

Sometimes they mascarade as inocent thnings like little girls. (there is an example in that video).

Aparently you have a more sneaky one.

[azzyboo]

lol I just posted this reply on your thread Neo, so thought I'd better put it on mine as well...................................

Hi there Neo, I checked out the link in your thread. It was interesting ( although I did not watch it all ), but tbh I don't think my experience was similar as I could move and was a more than willing partner in the session.

To carry this on I had another odd dream which bizarrly included the same man ( not complaining 2 nights in a row, wonderful ) last night. But unfortunately I cannot remember it all, all i remember of this one was lying in his arms, he was saying something and I cannot remember hearing what he was saying as all I was thinking as I lay in his arms was I musn't tell him I love him so soon it will scare him off,

then I roll out of his arms and as I turn away I can't stop myself it just comes out of my mouth I just say I Love You, then you guessed it I woke up.

Agggghhhh what is going on ? Is it just my subconcious playing silly games ?

[Daffy Duck]

Originally Posted by Angela

Real Dream Sensory Experiences are how I've managed to have sex with Daniel Craig and George Clooney without breaking any promises to my sweetheart, Danger Man.

Were these dreams intentional?

I'm not sure I would feel right if I intentionally had sex in my dreams with a different girl than my spouse. It wouldn't be a big deal but not something I would intend.

In reply to topic, I had sex in a dream once when I was still a virgin. After I had real sex, I realized that my dream feeling of it was actually pretty close to reality. Funny that!

[Angela]

Originally Posted by Daffy Duck

Were these dreams intentional?

I'm not sure I would feel right if I intentionally had sex in my dreams with a different girl than my spouse.

Not intentional, and Frank Zappa did not show up at my bidding last night, too bad.

Really? Intentional dream sex would be cheating? I don't feel that way at all.

[Daffy Duck]

Originally Posted by Angela

Intentional dream sex would be cheating? I don't feel that way at all.

I wouldn't consider it cheating, but I also wouldn't consider it something I should want to do.

[Angela]

Originally Posted by Daffy Duck

I wouldn't consider it cheating, but I also wouldn't consider it something I should want to do.

Why shouldn't you want to do it?

[Daffy Duck]

Because I want to think of my one partner in that way and I want to be completely happy with doing that. So far, so good.

This is natural for me. I notice other attractive people, but I don't fantasize about them sexually except for perhaps a second or two on rare occasions. I'm sure I fantasize subconsciously, but I can't do much about that. It's not a big deal but again, not something I want to actively do.

If I'm actively thinking sexual thoughts about someone else, it raises the question of why. And the answer to that question is that I'm likely lacking something in my own mind. Almost every time I've ever watched porn in my life is when I'm bored or some other negative nonproductive emotion, likewise would be the emotions I have if I were to sit here and dream or fantasize about random women.

This just applies to me. Other people can have sexual thoughts about random people and consider it a productive activity. I have other things I'd rather do.

[azzyboo]

I personally don't think having sex with someone in a dream is cheating. I am single so can't really say but also I have no clue how to control my dreams so on my part its not intentional iyswim.
But I do know that the guy I want to be with is with someone else and yet I happily took part in the mass kissing session and happily found myself in his arms last night all while in a dream state, so does that make me a cheat bearing in mind I believe I have no control over the dream.
I will be honest and say that if he came to me every night in my dreams i would be a totally willing partner, in fact it would be nice to think he could be doing this

[Daffy Duck]

These type of questions are fun for self-discovery. (I always suspect that's why Angela questions people)

What if you started dating that man? Obviously you'd be happy with that, I think.
What if he started dreaming of other women?
What if he was thinking about other women while having sex with you?
What if he was having sex with other women while dating you?

Everyone has a different line they don't want to cross.

[azzyboo]

Originally Posted by Daffy Duck

These type of questions are fun for self-discovery. (I always suspect that's why Angela questions people)

What if you started dating that man? Obviously you'd be happy with that, I think.
What if he started dreaming of other women?
What if he was thinking about other women while having sex with you?
What if he was having sex with other women while dating you?

Everyone has a different line they don't want to cross.

Answers would be as follows....

No 1, Yes I would be ecstatic.
No2, Its only a dream what can it hurt, hes still having sex with me in my bed every night.
No 3 Well tbh unless he told me I wouldn't know and even if he was, he's still there having sex with me. See I stand guilty on this count as I have imagined I am having sex with another man whilst having sex with an ex sorry.
No 4, If he actually acted out his fantasies and had sex with another woman while dating me then I'm afraid he would be well and truly dumped

I don't mind if my man fancies other women honestly, I actually would be quite worried if he didn't lol and I also don't mind if he has fantasies about other women as long as they stay that way just fantasies.

[Daffy Duck]

So you draw your line around #3 or #4, whereas my line is drawn around #2 or #2.5 somewhere.

Some people try to draw a line even before #2. I know of some girls who don't want "their man" to have ANY female friends. Unfortunately, such a commanding desire often pushes the man away, which is the very thing those girls were trying to avoid.

[azzyboo]

Originally Posted by Daffy Duck

So you draw your line around #3 or #4, whereas my line is drawn around #2 or #2.5 somewhere.

Some people try to draw a line even before #2. I know of some girls who don't want "their man" to have ANY female friends. Unfortunately, such a commanding desire often pushes the man away, which is the very thing those girls were trying to avoid.

Yeah its funny when we say my man or my woman, they don't actually belong to us but we still insist they do

I honestly do not care if any man I am going out with has female friends or even thinks any of his female friends are hot, as long as he stays true to me in real life while he is with me then it is all good.

I also require a man I am going out with to expect the same of me I have male friends and yes some of them are incredibly attractive, but as long as I am with him he can be assured that in the real waking world I will always remain faithful.

[pokilty]

I had a fantastic kissing dream last night as well. I was a doctor and for some reason I needed to kill somebody, but as if to put them out of their misery, not in a homicidal way. It turned out that it was this gorgeous girl, who I've never met nor seen in my life, but I attempted to kill her anyway. While she was dying I suddenly saw how beautiful she is and regretted it. It turned out that I messed up and she survived, and she whispered to me how she's feeling. I fell in love and we kissed passionately right there. It felt great, and it was like I connected with her deep down. (She survived to the end -- maybe I couldn't have killed her even if I tried)

My girlfriend is going to read this and wonder what the heck is going on in my head. I promise it's a dream!

Originally Posted by Daffy Duck

Some people try to draw a line even before #2. I know of some girls who don't want "their man" to have ANY female friends. Unfortunately, such a commanding desire often pushes the man away, which is the very thing those girls were trying to avoid.

This happened to me and caused a lot of pain. I wish I had your wisdom when I was younger!

[utakan23]

it is really exciting to think how our mind works. Imagination and the sort are really amazing. You can perceived a moment of dreams reality even for a short period of time.


i think theres no abnormal on that just maybe you think of that person all the time thats why it show up in your dreams.

[HeartNotes]

Originally Posted by Daffy Duck

These type of questions are fun for self-discovery. (I always suspect that's why Angela questions people)

What if you started dating that man? Obviously you'd be happy with that, I think.
What if he started dreaming of other women?
What if he was thinking about other women while having sex with you?
What if he was having sex with other women while dating you?

Everyone has a different line they don't want to cross.

Have you thought about talking with your partner on your feelings on this matter? You might be surprised by how much good communication can accomplish. What about just talking about your own boundaries in a relationship?

Even monogamous relationships are often just polyamorous ones with particular limits imposed—and that's why "cheating" is so common.

Frankly, if I was dating a guy that didn't think about other women, I wouldn't be impressed, I'd be frightened! I'd much rather he nudge me and go "Oh, hey look at her, she's cute isn't she?" and I could smile back and go "Yeah." Sometimes, just being free with our thoughts removes temptation and when it's no longer forbidden than that little illicit thrill is gone, but not the warmth of sharing something with someone you love.

I'll share something with you... women, even straight women, check out other women way more than men do! They're comparing themselves to see how they rank up. It's actually a bad habit and one I'm trying to kick myself.

Back to azzyboo's original topic:

To carry this on I had another odd dream which bizarrly included the same man ( not complaining 2 nights in a row, wonderful ) last night. But unfortunately I cannot remember it all, all i remember of this one was lying in his arms, he was saying something and I cannot remember hearing what he was saying as all I was thinking as I lay in his arms was I musn't tell him I love him so soon it will scare him off

It's hard to know what this is. Keep us updated on if these experiences keep on repeating themselves. It can actually be someone's spirit dream-walking and targeting you. It's fine if you like it, but my ex-fiance kept on using that on me even after I told him: you left me, you broke up with me, it's over now. With or without you, I'm moving on. I'm not saying that's what this is, only that it's what was going on in my case and I knew that he had the talent, imperative, and will to do it to me. That, and the dream felt unnatural to me, like I was acting out-of-character for myself... it was really bizarre.

Anyway, it's totally possible to have a rich and sculpted dream by the power of your own mind. Look at the forum you're on. You wouldn't be here at all if you weren't interested in that stuff, right? Sometimes, our imagination is stronger than we give it credit for.

[sorter]

Originally Posted by azzyboo

So I have to ask how was i able to actually feel this kissing session ?

This explains the phenomenon.
Amazon.com: The Body Has a Mind of Its Own: How Body Maps in Your Brain Help You Do (Almost) Everything Better (9780812975277): Sandra Blakeslee, Matthew Blakeslee: Books
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