Trying to solve My Aunt's murder!

[Destine4destiny]

Today I just became upset at my aunt's spirit for not being strong enough to force the murdere or murderers to turn themselves in or to find evidence to link him or them to her death. My mother has a picture of her in her room as well as in the living room and I decided to ask my aunt through the picture what happen to her that day. Within 5 seconds I felt her energy which showed me that she was trying to defend herself from her attacker so I insisted for her to show me the face because that's what I wanted to see. Instead, she showed me how the person attacked her,slapped her, and pulled her hair then out of nowhere I received some mental information that told me as to why she died. The information I received was that her ex-boyfriend owed some people money and he told them that she would pay them back;I'm really not that close to my cousin so I can't tell her this information because I would feel akward she would probably look at me like I'm losing my mind. I suggested to my aunt that she should appear in my dream and together we should convince my cousin to not lose faith and to find out who killed her. After doing all that to push her to get the person(s) caught I felt that my aunt has giving up-what can I do with a hopeless soul?

[Erin Pavlina]

Whoa, time out my friend.

Not all people who are murdered care to hang around until their killer gets justice. So don't come down on hard on her for not giving you what YOU want.

And it's not all that easy for spirits to communicate with the living. It takes effort and skill. So cut your aunt some slack. I suggest you use a loving tone instead of making demands on the deceased.

[themaster]

Yah, I suggest you chill.. you’re taking this very negatively.. which means you’re buying into beliefs such as.. "death is a bad thing" "evil people should be punished" etc.

There is no murderer without a victim and vice versa.. and these events are not *random*.. I suggest maybe you understand what you can learn from the death.. as some deaths are meant to act as catalysts for change for others.. and of course sometimes these deaths create a negative reaction..

I seriously doubt that your aunt being in non-physical.. really wants a action journey to avenge her death.. from that perspective there really only is love and understanding..

[Destine4destiny]

You guys are right maybe I was going about it the wrong way but I just felt that she should want justice for her death, or maybe that was probably just me thinking about it. It's as if everyone gave up and just forgot about it which was suprising to me because if their tears were tears of sorrow and pain then why not look for the killer. Anyway, eventually things will work themselves out and the person or persons will be caught.

[Erin Pavlina]

Even if the killer is not caught, he or she will still pay for their actions. Justice comes to us all, eventually.

[Destine4destiny]

The universe has a strange way of giving and taking things back and I am sure that although the person may not be caught his or her life will never be good.

[tintin]

you know about the 5 stages of grief?
denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance
(not strictly in order)
we switch between these until we arrive at the last.
it may take years if any stage is suppressed
took me seven to get over my dads accident.
lots of love coming your way destiny.