dream interpretation help

[xhironakamurax]

Ok umm let me catch you guys up quickly.

since I was about 11-14 I thought I was gay, I was almost sure of that, I had
never had a bf, or a gf.
When I was 15 just before turning 16, I met this girl and I thought (still do btw)
she was cute, so we were on a bus back from camp, and I gave her my MSN
she gave me her, that was before this summer. Ok. now back to the present.
So I'm not going to go into details and I don't want you guys to think less of me so I don't want to tell you too much. anyway, I had this dream where, I was
with my friends and we were stealing from a store's computer with some glitch (I would never do that btw.) and we got caught so we decided not to lol. and my 2 friends started fake humping, and then me and this guy started aswell, and i liked it. I won't go into it anymore but, does this mean I really am gay, like I knew I was bi, but... Well share your thoughts.

[Fullcrum]

No, not really.

When you see a naked girl, do you feel turned on?

What about a naked guy?

Is this ambiguous in your feelings? Why conceptualize it as so? Just follow what you feel. Whatever you feel attracted to, go towards it. Then figure out a label when you are moving towards whatever you are attracted to. But do not worry about labels now.

[xhironakamurax]

Well following what I think I truly feel. I'm not going to say what it is but it's not the norm.

[achtungbaby91u2]

i think that you shouldnt worry about what your dreams do. You could have seen something that just reminded your brain of that. It deosnt mean your necessarily gay or bi. Your who ever you want to be dreams dont decide who you are only YOU do. Having that said just go into the world and be yourself because your friends dont know you by that dream you had they know you by how you act and who you are as a person. Hope this helps a bit.

[xhironakamurax]

Yeah thanks to both of you

But I think I have another problem along the same matter, in which I would need help from a totally 100% understanding person lol...You have no idea.

[openyourize]

i dont think your dream has an answer as to what your orientation is. It sounds to me like just an expression of your own desire and confusion. Which is normal. I say just go with what you like. Who cares what your label is, you just like a little of both worlds. you get twice the sea to choose from.

[xhironakamurax]

Originally Posted by openyourize

i dont think your dream has an answer as to what your orientation is. It sounds to me like just an expression of your own desire and confusion. Which is normal. I say just go with what you like. Who cares what your label is, you just like a little of both worlds. you get twice the sea to choose from.

Thats true but what i like, society makes it seem bad....so I cant really go with what I want.

[achtungbaby91u2]

society shmociety what has this world come to it disgusts me how we are i mean why do we curse out others for being others? Let me tell you something in order to properly mannifest stuff into your life you have to be completly happy with who you are and that means accepting that your bi or gay regardless of what other people think. And besides not everyone is straight ya know theres some one out there just like you that is feeling the same way that could just maybe the right one for you. How bout this try thinking this in your head where ever you go from now on think this " I am who i am and who i am is perfect, no one can tell me otherwise" Try that out hopefully it will raise your self esteem Best of luck

[xhironakamurax]

Thanks I think you're right.
I only just listened to the secret and I actually was on like a very happy roll, where I manifested alot and really got it all overnight, but that ended one day, and I haven't been able to get it back, i've been happy, just not that super happy.

[achtungbaby91u2]

there will be times when that will happen. i know what you are feeling just try to think of that one feeling that made you super happy and just keep thinking about it. mannifesting stuff deosnt have to be with great emotion certainly it does pick up the pace but if you think about what you want vivid like visualizing yourself with that object that you want and just feeling what it would be like to have it then it will eventually happen you just have to stick with it. Dont let negatives get you down thats what it sounds like is happening to you. Think positively and you shall receive positive outcomes

[xhironakamurax]

thanks, and back to society, umm it's fine that the guy that i like is 3 years younger right? I'm 16 btw anyway. thanks

[achtungbaby91u2]

well i mean society would think that would be weird now but look at people who are married and theres a 3- 8 year difference even more sometimes. Its not weird, year is just an age you know

[xhironakamurax]

Yeah, but most people think it's weird when you're younger and going out and older person, rather than later in life, when its ok. Same as when you're like my age or younger, when you start going out with someone it's not ok to have sex, but with adults you could do it on the first date.

[achtungbaby91u2]

true then i would suggest waiting a bit till it would seem ok you know.

[Bharat Keshwala]

I can fly in my dreams, doesn't mean I can fly in real life.

Straight = turned on by opposite sex only.
Bi = turned on by both sex's.
Gay = turned on by the same sex only.


In my opinion those are the definitions, but different people say different things, once I got called gay because I shake hands with people.

peace

[xhironakamurax]

lol hand shakes.
I've had dreams of the guy I want to be with, and i think I know what he looks like. Does anyone know if this is just my imagination, a fantasy, or who I could be with?

The guy I see might be a physically young for me but mature-ish. I could describe him to almost exact details.

[xhironakamurax]

Originally Posted by xhironakamurax

lol hand shakes.
I've had dreams of the guy I want to be with, and i think I know what he looks like. Does anyone know if this is just my imagination, a fantasy, or who I could be with?

The guy I see might be a physically young for me but mature-ish. I could describe him to almost exact details.

It's happened!!!!! Woo hoo!
I'm with the guy of my dreams, for real!
I'm very happy.

[Philemon]

Originally Posted by xhironakamurax

Yeah, but most people think it's weird when you're younger and going out and older person, rather than later in life, when its ok. Same as when you're like my age or younger, when you start going out with someone it's not ok to have sex, but with adults you could do it on the first date.

The age things is trickier when your younger. Remember, as hard as it may be to admit, as strong as the feelings you are having probably are, tread carefully because you are still young. No offense, believe me. Also, just because adults "could" have sex on the first date doesn't mean they do. Most younger adults I know (the ones looking for genuine relationships) would not have sex become part of the picture until later. Sex doesn't make a relationship stronger. The connection two people establish through communication does.

[xhironakamurax]

Originally Posted by Philemon

The age things is trickier when your younger. Remember, as hard as it may be to admit, as strong as the feelings you are having probably are, tread carefully because you are still young. No offense, believe me. Also, just because adults "could" have sex on the first date doesn't mean they do. Most younger adults I know (the ones looking for genuine relationships) would not have sex become part of the picture until later. Sex doesn't make a relationship stronger. The connection two people establish through communication does.

I know that. I've kinda learned that too.