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|05-26-2008, 04:59 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: May 2008
My husband died as his dreams predicted
Lately, I have been thinking about this a lot. I was married to my sweetheart for 24 years. Of those 24 years, almost every single year my husband would awake in the middle of the night, bolt upright in his sleep, out of breath, sweating profusely, saying "oh my God, I just died. I just got shot in the head." It was strange that he always had the same dream year after year but we just chalked it up to bad dreams. Recently my husband passed away in the middle of the night from a gunshot wound to the head. He had been in unbearable pain from a work accident for years but for four months the workers comp company ignored all of his doctors/attorneys/ and our pleas for help when his pain got out of control. No one helped him and in the middle of the night he shot himself. He didn't want to die. He was looking forward to the future, we had a new baby and he loved us. The doctors said his pain levels were higher than the worst cancer. Has anyone ever heard of anyone "knowing" how they were going to die before they died? And, why? Thanks.
|05-26-2008, 05:26 PM||#2 (permalink)|
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Las Vegas, NV
Wow, that is really sad. I'm so sorry your family is going through something like this.
I have known people who have foreseen their deaths in their dreams. Dreaming of your own death is not uncommon and in most cases it's not a portent of things to come. In your husband's case though...
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|05-26-2008, 05:29 PM||#3 (permalink)|
Join Date: Mar 2008
Hello. I am so sorry for your loss.
I had a great aunt who throughout her life had a fear that she was going to die from throat cancer. When she was middle aged she got throat cancer and died from it. We donít really have a history of throat cancer or any other cancer in our family.
I feel we are all in control of our destinies and can consciously or subconsciously choose all of our experiences, including how we die.
So I think it was either a case of her unconsciously attracting that experience with her thoughts and fears about it...or her soul consciously chose the experience of throat cancer. Either way, I think she chose the experience for what she could learn from it on a soul level.
|05-26-2008, 05:31 PM||#4 (permalink)|
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: The Darkness / The Never
Not to seem insensitive, but isn't it more likely the idea of shooting himself in the head was a recurring fear, thus it appeared in his dreams, so when he finally decided to kill himself, he shot himself...wouldn't that make more sense?
|05-27-2008, 02:36 AM||#6 (permalink)|
Join Date: May 2008
i would definitely think that a massive possibility.
its actually a terrible sort of epidemic in the fact that a lot of older people do commit suicide because they just cannot handle the pain anymore and its strange that we try and take pain away from some situatons like giving birth but other times the request is ignored. there is pain therapy clinics but i have no idea if they do anything? so i'm very sorry your husband died from this.
interesting he would have the dream.. i remember reading something in freud, that if you're deeply afraid of something sometimes people daydream or fixate on that fear to hopefully somehow desensitize themselves toward it -- whether or not it works is something i have yet to experience.
so it could have been his unconsciousness doing that to him... to a certain degree (although i don't highly believe in freud's theories)
but honestly i'm no expert on things like this either so take my comment with a grain of salt...
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