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|03-01-2008, 12:06 AM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Feb 2008
My 13 year old sister sees our dead family members
Firstly I'd like to apologise, I am new to forums and hope I explain myself properly.
Secondly I'd like to say HI!
Now done to the business end of things.
My little sister is 13 as described in the title. For the last year she has been having what she calls visions of a few family members and one very close friend. My sister never met at least one of the family members but has heard us speak of him, however not in much detail.
She has been bringing messages out of her visions for us. Not all of these have been comforting messages either. And at least 2 have been things that were said in the past from this uncle to my mother and are nothing that anyone except my mother could have known about.
When she has these visions she goes a little pale, and she looks around with a complete vacant glare in her eyes, it appears she sees nothing of what is in front of her. They never lasted long, however now they seem to be more frequent and stronger. She can recall every minute detail from what she saw.
There is no doubt in my or my mothers minds that this is happening for her.
My sister has asked me to try to find out how to develope this further as she is "worried my visions will leave me and I won't be able to help our living family get the messages that our dead family NEED us to have."
I was wondering if anyone had any idea of a name for the "visions" she is having? Also of any literature that might help us with her request?
I and my family would be very greatful for any input or help we receive.
|03-01-2008, 12:59 AM||#2 (permalink)|
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Las Vegas, NV
She is probably a budding young medium. Some mediums can see spirits with their physical eyes while others see spirits in their mind's eye only. Many mediums get this vacant stare while tuning in to the other side. That happens to me too. Only in my case it's like i'm having a waking dream, and in the case of people who see with their physical eyes it's like unfocusing from the rest of the world to tune in to the spirit world.
If she wants to develop her ability, I would suggest she start reading books by mediums like John Edward, John Holland, James Van Praagh, and Gordon Smith. That will get her started. And there's a book called "So You Want To Be A Medium" that can probably help her too (forget the author's name).
Erin Pavlina, Intuitive Counselor
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|03-02-2008, 11:18 AM||#3 (permalink)|
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Isle of Avalon
Hi. It is very kind of you to share this personal information with us.
|03-02-2008, 12:33 PM||#4 (permalink)|
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: The Darkness / The Never
I don't mean to be a killjoy but it is possible that this a medical condition. I can't be sure, but might it be some sort of hallucination triggered by abnormal brain functioning?
Don't get me wrong, I do believe in mediums and psychic abilities, but it can be dangerous and fatal to simply assume something like this is budding mediumship and blatantly ignore the medical implications.
CAT scan anyone?
|03-03-2008, 01:51 AM||#5 (permalink)|
Join Date: Feb 2008
Thank You very much for the information. I'm sure it will be very helpful.
In reply to Akashic Librarian, She has not had a cat scan but has seen a doctor and although he sent her to see a shrink he believes there isn't anything wrong. The shrink seen her twice said she was a little depressed (mainly beacause she is a little overweight) and said that she was fine also. Thank you for the suggestion anyway.
Also in reply to Veranadine, My sister doesn't have a lot of self esteem at the moment and believes that her friends would probably just pick on her so she is reluctant to tell her peers.
Again Thank you very much for all the information. I'll send her the books off asap.
|07-23-2008, 03:29 PM||#6 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jul 2008
Wow! Thats so cool. I am a psychic too (i see spirits, auras). The best way for her to progress is by practising more and more.
"Don't use it, you lose it"
So get her to keep practising. Also another way of saying "I had another vision", she could say "I had a visit, guest, etc"
Hope i helped you
Good luck! And I hope your sister progressess
|02-24-2010, 03:42 PM||#8 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Northern Germany
If you as her family can treat her properly, i.e. that she is okay the way she is, and that she is loved the way she is, and that everything is good and what it is for a reason, then she will have the strong roots she needs.
Support, love, and care cannot be measured or their importance sufficiently stated in words.
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