How do I get rid of this power?

[mehelp]

Hello,
I think I can cause or predict bad things even death to happen. Whenever I'm mad something bad happens to the other person.

How do I get rid of this power. It's not my imagination. Please help me!

I will be looking forward to hearing from you.

[Akashic_Librarian]

Sounds like one of two things to me.

Either your delusional.

Or you can actually cause hurt by thinking of it. (Subjective reality maybe?)

Either way it sounds like you need to change the way you think about people.

[Trezker]

Try to see if you can help people by thinking good things about them with at least as much energy as you put into the bad thoughts.

If that works you could probably negate the effect of your bad thoughts by switching to good thoughts. May be easier said than done though.

[Calisto]

mehelp,

I understand this, I went through it too when I was awakening. You are becoming aware of how your thoughts are creating your reality. All you really need to do at this point is cultivate positive thinking. Deal with any issues you have with someone and then try to forgive them or ask for their forgiveness.

This affirmation might help - Repeat to yourself as often as you want, "I love you all, I forgive you, please forgive me to."

rezker above has explain very well how you can deal with this. Simply exchange the negative thoughts for more positive ones.

[Mato Kinze]

MEHELP,

I agree with what Calisto says. However, as Trezker points out, that's easier said than done.

I've found that Pema Chodron - a Bhuddist Bhodisattva and author - has some very practical and useful tools for cultivating this energy and thought process.

Two books I would reccommend are "When Things Fall Apart," and "The Places That Scare You."

Both deal extensively with how one creates compassion in oneself for all creatures and beings; especially those that anger or hurt you.

Good luck and many blessings.

[Marco Polo]

Stop getting mad.

[Calisto]

mehelp,

Trezker and Mato Kinze have stated that it is easier said than done. I say it will depend on how much animosity you feel towards someone. I have been aware of this 'aspect' of my awakening for quite some time. Everyone tries to be all 'sweetness and light' but the truth is it is almost akin to witchcraft, you can smite those you don't like and send love to those that you do like. But what you need to remember is that they can do the same. Therefore it is much better to go the 'sweetness and light' route. Because we do get back what we give out.

Right thinking is positive thinking and wrong thinking is negative thinking. Right thinking brings more of what we want and less of what we don't want. Like Mato Kinze said, there are some good books out there but we can't all afford these books. If that is the case then even a little book of positive affirmations read at least once a day will help you to feel more compassion for those around you.

[Mato Kinze]

Originally Posted by Calisto

mehelp,

Like Mato Kinze said, there are some good books out there but we can't all afford these books.

Pema Chodron's books are available at most public libraries. That's where I got my copies from.

Peace.

[Happiness]

Originally Posted by mehelp

Hello,
I think I can cause or predict bad things even death to happen. Whenever I'm mad something bad happens to the other person.

How do I get rid of this power. It's not my imagination. Please help me!

I will be looking forward to hearing from you.

Well, I am not sure that u can get rid of it but u can channel it: Here is my story: I can predict if someone in my family or in my surrounding will die. Or if someone that I knew past away, they usually come and tell me in my dreams. At first, I was scared. But with time, I talk back to them, ask them what i can do for them. I do not tell my friends and family anymore when I have a bad prediction for them. I usually wake up, meditate, think good thoughts for them, ask for them to be placed in the right path and it seems to be working well....

As for sending "angry" energy toward someone. I managed to change that as well. As the others said...repeat good thoughts in your head when u r extremely angry...or what I used to do...is go (in my head) where I love to relax : the beach...the waves and the sun. Try to go where you are most relaxed and it will get rid of all the angry energy.

However, I have not been able to get rid of this: if I get into a heated argument with my husband (for example) and I get really really angry...something bad will happen in the next couple of minutes...either, the car will break up...a bill collector will call...or we would get a bad news...so I try as much as possible to not get extremely angry...

that's my story...

Happiness.

[jeff3]

How do I get rid of this power?

transmute it, bless, heal and inspire others instead of cursing.

Once you accept responsibility for your life there will be no blame and no need to hate.

Pray for your enemies and give them gifts (anonymously), since they are reflections of your own soul you will be healing the parts of you that need healing the most, much to your benefit. Really get into this, see them happy,healthy and free. This is big medicine, liberating for you and also for them.

Also be aware that your acknowledgment of this observation will most likely cause you to hold yourself accountable for the injurious thoughts you send out and you may begin punishing yourself.