Having violent dreams

[nvictor]

Happy holidays all.

I'm concerned with my dreams, recently they got violent; I'm a very calm person; call me laconic: I don't talk too much, I try to keep things for myself; I don't overreact when someone hurts me, I always think about it, then if I feel like I must tell the person, I do; otherwise, I keep it for myself. I however share a lot with my fiancee; the only person, I think, that really knows what run through a mind like mine.

But I'm the opposite in my dreams; recently a family member hurt me in a message he sent me; I replied that I did not like what he wrote, and we settled the thing. But minutes ago—I just wake up—I was very violent, I even shouted in this dream, a thing I have not done in years; he said he would hit me, and I replied he could try if he was a man. Last week, I bit the ears of someone, it was very frightening.

Why I am violent in my dreams? This is annoying, because my life goal is an easy life; having violent dreams cannot make my life easy.