my head hurts - problem needs solving

[ultimate]

my head hurts right now

right im late 20's
a self employed personal trainer (pay rent at a gym), work part time too in a job,

finances - £6k debt,
income - variable £0 - £300 per month (potential is £1k - £4k per month)

want to be a great martial artist
not training at the moment

what do I do?
was gonna quit the gym and just do martial arts.
i realised tho that i enjoy the environment and socialising there also gaining more experience

I mean I did things mega wrong - I should have been doing martial arts upto now and competed and stuff and then it would have been so much easier

im stuck - if i just had alot of money in the bank all my problems would be solved. lottery win please!

also I want to be having fun, meeting ppl and making more and more friends.

any tips?

do I just want too much or is it that im just not deciding on what to do?

I want to do it all now while Im young

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I wrote a timetable to achieve for following this -
not sure if its realistic but hey if i can get the clients to make it work great
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[John Hill]

I am also a personal trainer and my head used to hurt as well so I completely understand where you are coming from.

Looking over the information you provided about your life at present, the first thing you need to do is get out of debt. The debt is probably playing on your mind more than anything else and is one of the reasons you can't make forward progress towards your other goals.

You don't want too much and I believe you can achieve all your goals but you need a clear head to do that. I was in a similar position years ago and once I cleared all the debts I started achieving my goals one by one and eventually quit my job and moved to Thailand. Now I'm in my third year in Thailand and life has never been better. However, I was once in the same position as you.

You can do it if you make a plan and stick to it. The reward is a much better life than you have now, you will be happier and doing what you want instead of doing what you have to. Good luck mate.

John

[ultimate]

wow thanks - makes great sense
so i should focus on getting many clients
pay off debt
train martial arts

[kaushal1]

Don't repent over past. Just try to celebrate ur future. Gym is also a good place for socialization and here one can get the opportunity of meeting variety of people every day at a gym. If u wish to learn martial art then u can start even now. There is no age limit for learning anything new.