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Old 06-24-2007, 10:20 PM
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Im thinking to much about a period of time to the point that i forget things that
i really must do at work and at home

Please help me with this matter its urgent and important for me!
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Old 06-24-2007, 10:55 PM
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I don't know what it is that you are thinking about... but if at all possible find a solution to that problem... even if it is not the best possible solution, find something that will work for the time being...

And, for god's sakes.... get a grip on yourself... you're a man not a child... when you start thinking about that particular subject... put it out of your mind... and think about something else...

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And, for god's sakes.... get a grip on yourself... you're a man not a child... when you start thinking about that particular subject... put it out of your mind... and think about something else...

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LOL. That is the real solution to most of life's problems. If we all started thinking like grown ups we would eliminate a lot of headaches from our every day life.
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Im thinking to much about a period of time to the point that i forget things that
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Please help me with this matter its urgent and important for me!
Attachment is aligned with emotion wether it's happy or fear, ask yourself honestly, why do you think about this so often? What is it that is so compelling?

All the answers lie within, you just have to uncover and admit them, then you are back in control. After choice, self inquiry is a good way to make sure the choices we make are beneficial to us.

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I you really want help that helps, you should explain your problem in detail.

Just as Max said all the anwsers lie within. By sharing what is whitin, you allow us to point you to those answers.
The great stenght of a forum like this is that we provide you with a multiple of different perspectives to your problems.
Than you can rexamine your situation based on those perspectives.

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And, for god's sakes.... get a grip on yourself... you're a man not a child... when you start thinking about that particular subject... put it out of your mind... and think about something else...
How do you know?
I would think that the chances are 3:1 that someone who writes a post with that style is under 18.
In addition the writer could be a girl.
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How do you know?
I would think that the chances are 3:1 that someone who writes a post with that style is under 18.
In addition the writer could be a girl.
Posted here by gocest... post #5...

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Im working and my spouse too and we can afort to cover only our basic needs and hardly something more.
However, I will admit that I have been harsh... and for that, I apologize to gocest...

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Im 33 years old (Brudha) and apology accepted (Shamou).
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I probably have no idea where you're coming from. I'll try and be helpful. When I have something exciting in my life a project or something of that nature I find my mind wandering to that thing often (again probably nothing like your situation but...).
Like the fine people said, it's just about mental discipline, you train your mind like you train your body. Keep forcing your mind onto what it needs to concentrate, eventually you may find it easier.
Sounds kinda like you have some issues, might think about seeing a counsellor if you haven't already.
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