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Do you believe in the American Dream… ??? Here is a definition of that dream… "In general, the American dream can be defined as being the opportunity and freedom for all citizens to achieve their goals and become rich and famous if only they work hard enough." However, if that does not meet with your definition, feel free to tell us what it is… . |
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No , we are the results of the past, then you are not free to make your descisions....I know you will not accept it, and this is why you are continually blaming the poor , the criminal , ect ect, you think they can do the same choice as you, but they can't . This is why education is the most important thing to invest in. A criminal have a criminal mind, this is the only way he is able to think. Wen talking about others , you have believe they are not responsable of their actions, then you have to teach them, direct them. When talking about you, you have to take the responsability of your actions, the way you think. I know this is the opposite, but It doesn't matters, you have to do what is going to give you the best results, forget the rest.
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I believe people play in whatever illusion they choose to. Anything labeled as American, Latino, African American, Chinese etc. just gives rise to the big illusion in this world - the illusion that we are all separate. I KNOW that the comments about goals and working hard are very limiting and egotistical energies - they don't vibe high at all. I don't know if that answers your question. Last edited by Dusty; 05-14-2007 at 07:30 PM. |
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Even though I get the well meaning behind this idea, I wonder what the Indigenous Hawaiins and Indigenous Americans and so on, think of 'The American Dream'. Any dream is good (its manifestation and world experience is better) as long as it creates happiness, and whilst doing so considers, and doesn't snuff out the dreams of others. For instance, as we don't have enough room here in Australia, and as we all know that Australians tend to know what's best |
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Although I take out the "famous" part of the above quote - we can't have all 300 million people be famous...or nobody would be famous :-D. Not to mention, I see no need to be famous anyway. | |
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I believe in the American dream for the simple reason that it resonate the fact that people can better their condition if they really want too… It teaches that some form of success is accessible to anyone who is willing to take responsibility for his/her life, work hard… and stay on purpose… It also teaches that you are not your past or your present condition… will and determination can overcome almost any situation… The American dream of one of vision, inspiration, hope… and, a reminder that, “You are the Captain of your Ship and the Master of your Fate…” . |
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However like Uplift I agree with the spirit of the quote, which I interpret as being the freedom and opportunity to follow one's desires without impinging on the equal rights of others to do the same. This makes it identical to the search for and exercise of one's purpose. | |
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Success breeds success... it creates value... it is the spark and the fuel of mankind's evolution... . | |
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Sorry I didn't mean to imply that the American dream fostered a scarcity mentality. Simply that logically it's not possible for everyone to achieve their goals if, for example, John's goal is to stop Paul from achieving his. In this hypothetical it's impossible for both John and Paul to achieve their goals. I was vaguely pointing out that the way the statement was made doesn't exclude people with morally or ethically undesirable goals. It doesn't prevent people from pursuing the goal of harming someone else. It leads people to believe they should be free to pursue their own goals, whatever the cost. I.e., the message is unclear. Which I thought the rest of my post clarified by restating the quote and providing an alternate interpretation. Not so? |
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Shamou, the basis of the American Dream, like the Australian Dream, is war. War, driven by a selfish, ignorant version of success, was declared on Indigenous Peoples, who totally rejected the 'dream', and its notion of success. Brute force alone resulted in their homes and lives being stolen from them, and brute force is the reason they have to live the 'dream' in the present. The 'dream' has (putting it politely) a shoddy foundation, and the cracks are growing and appearing everywhere. Imagine a foundation that recognises the homes and rights of Indigenous Peoples, and celibrates their right to different dreams and ideals. One that addresses the wrong doing, no matter how difficult it is. Obviously it is going to require the heroic traits of honesty, bravery, sharing, compassion and determination. That is my version of a success, and a shining light to admire and emulate. Not a foundation and 'dream' based on war, brutality and stolen property...what kind of message does that send to children, the future, especially when it is so brazenly, cunningly and cowardly glossed over. Unfortunately, I can't give your last answer a very high assesment... it needs more effort and work! |
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I agree with the core part of the american dream but I hate that its linked to Americans. The core is pretty much a condensed version of the dreams most people have, to lable it American seems a bit hypocrit (right word? |
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Unfortunately, to achieve what most people consider to be the American Dream, people may find it helpful to escape a different sort of American Dream. Allow me to explain. There is another type of American Dream. It is a dream-state that many Americans find themselves in, a state where they drift through life with safe warm houses and full tummies, partaking in an endless cycle of production and consumption. Purpose and meaning are distant memories to the dreamer. Life becomes about new bed-sheets, new cars, plasma televisions, more raises, bigger promotions, and climbing up the ladder at jobs that neither inspire nor fulfill. This is a dream I finally decided to wake up from, so I can pursue the true American Dream on my own terms. Thanks for starting this thread, Shamou. You do start so many interesting ones! | |
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there must be something to initate the change. | |
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What can I say about my dislike? ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ the tv ! lol | |
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