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| I'm a newbee here but I haven't seen any topics about 30-day trial challenges here. Are they still popular? Here's mine for April, anyway (btw, I'm creating habits this way for the first time). There are 5 habits: 1) get up right after the alarm-clock (must learn not to be late everywhere and I've discovered that staying in bed for too long after the alarm-clock is the only thing that prevented me from being puctual) 2) exercise at least 20 min every day (need to lose 5 kg) 3) don't eat for 2 hours before going to bed (again, those 5 kg. 4 hours used to help me much because this way you dicrease your appetite the next day. I wonder if 2 hours would work as 4 hours were a bit exhausting) 4) write 100 words of my new composition (want to participate in the contest for young writers that starts in September) 5) do special exercises for my back (I have some problems with it. This habit, however, will last for 2 months because I'll do this exercise routine every other day. Perhaps, it's a violation from the challenge rules, but I'd like to follow my doctor's prescriptions). That's all! You may join me if you wish!! P.S. Shame on me if I fail! |
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| I quite like this idea. I normally set monthly goals for myself anyhow. Lately mine are health related so I will just stick to those: 1. Lose inches on my stomach (I have lot about 4 in recent months but being very lazy the past few weeks one or two may have crept back). I don't have very many to lose, so I will say I want to lose 2. 2. Eat more fruits and veggies. I hate most fruit, so I don't try very hard there. But since this weekend I have been adding a plate of raw carrot, celery and red pepper to my daily foods. I eat them with a little bit of salad dressing and they are delish. I want to keep this habit going. 3. Workout for 20-30 minutes 5 days a week. 4. Improve my posture. Maybe include some yogo into my workouts to help with this.
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| I am eager to take up a challenge. I have actually begun amy own physical challenge and I'm going to start a 30-day trial for my finances starting on the 1st. I think this is the perfect time of year to begin something new. New Year's day, when everyone makes there resolutions, is just an arbitrary date. Spring is coming and the whole world begins a new, so why shouldn't we? Check out, "Spring is the time for Renaissance." I will be posting weekly updates on my 30-day trials. Feel free to comment on your own or send my an email at jonathanpippenger@gmail.com if you want to contribute a posting of your own.
__________________ " Renaissance for the common man"- http://personalrenaissance.blogspot.com/ Growing Up With The Kids |
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| Hi, how's life? So, the first day - Sunday - was easy and great. Btw, I didn't even EXPECT that the challenge would turn out almost a triffle for my self-discipline that had been untrained for ages. Of course, the tasks require some effort but I don't feel they are enourmous as I supposed them to be. Second day - had to go to work, felt worse, nagging thoughts that all this is just 'pointless' appeared, but at the end of the day I felt I was still on the right track. Third day - work plus soar throat plus a temperature a bit above normal. Woke up feeling not well, thoughts about giving up, but suddenly felt a burning desire to do my work out (one of the tasks), so I got up immediately (another task completed) and did the exercises. Unfortunately, during all the day, almost EVERY MINUTE nagging thoughts 'pointless, pointless, pointless' didn't leave my mind P.S. Before going to bed I have one more task to complete - write 100 words of my composition. Btw, I'm writing about my washing-machine |
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| Hi Julia, Every one in this forum kind of keeping and setting goals, may be not posting in the forum. Here go, my goal for April. 1. Wake up morning between 5:00 and 5: 30 AM 2. Gym : 6:00 to 6:30 AM 3. Meditation and Prayer: 7 to 7:30 AM. 4. Office 8:00 to 5:00 PM 5. Dinner- 8:30 to 9:00 PM 6. Get MCTS (Microsft tech. specialist) certification. I love in learning new stuffs and getting a certificates. 7. Give money of $700 for charity purpose in this year. 8. what else stick to above I will post you guys, how it go coming days. Cheers. Jak. |
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| Keep it up Julia, Start looking for the immediate rewards that come from what you are doing. Have you been more punctual since you started getting up early? I've found an instant reward in getting up early. I knock out most of my goals for the day before work even starts. I too suffer from back problems. I found that within the second week of 30-day exercise program that I was feeling better. The walk downstairs in the morning is still painful, but by the time I have finished exercising I walk back up the stairs with maybe 1/10 of the pain. Another immediate reward and reason to keep going. Look for these, Julia, and stick with it.
__________________ " Renaissance for the common man"- http://personalrenaissance.blogspot.com/ Growing Up With The Kids |
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| 1 - Wake up at the intended time and just before the alaram goes off. 2 - Exercise regularly for an hour. 3 - Stop the habit of eating too much. 4 - Be conscious about my other responsibilities. 5- Complete all my to-do tasks on time. |
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| I hope the moderators wont get angry with me for frequent posting in this thread Quote:
Little progress is always a reward and the main reason to keep going. But in my case it's often been that after not getting results I gave up soon. So to go through this challenge I programmed myself not to seek for any results or rewards, but just go on like a stupid robot even if all seems totally pointless. However, I got some results. I've never been late to my work! And, moreover, now I have that necessary time in the morning for doing the exercises. As for my back - before the challenge I could sit maximum for 10 min., then it felt as thought my back had been set on fire. It went on like that all day long, so I even took medicines when it was too unbearable. Today I noticed that I didn't have any pain while I was going by bus (and it takes 25 min) and it was more or less bearable during the day. And I think everyday work out pretty much added to the result, not just the back exercises alone. Writing is also ok, though I stopped describing the washing machine and proceded to the refridgerator These days the word "pointless" doesn't occur to me every minute, but on the whole I still consider all what I've started quite pointless no matter of the results. That's why I know only "a mindset of a robot" will help me keep it going. Good luck to anyone! P.S. On the whole, it' s an easy challenge |
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| I have taken Steve's excellent 30 Day Trial and started a challenge on my blog, CoachChar.com. Why reinvent the wheel when Steve came up with an excellent concept that works so well? I'm calling it Coach Char's "Change-A-Habit Challenge". So far 3 readers have signed up to officially participate. We're on day 9, but anyone is welcome to join anytime they want. Pick any number of habits you want and make them specific to fit your priorities and preferences. I chose 3 habits for my first challenge:
I'm writing an update blog at the end of each week and an overall summary at the end of the 30 days. I posted the first week's update on Sunday, 4/22. It's going well and I'm already seeing results and having powerful insights. Some days are easier than others. If you want a tracking sheet to record your progress, I posted one on my site. Go to the link in the previous sentence and click "Get the tracking sheet". Feel free to use it in your own challenges. Take care and let's continue to support each other in our goals! Char
__________________ Char Slaughter Success Coach, Professional Speaker and Workshop Facilitator www.CoachChar.com Please check out my show on BlogTalkRadio: The Growth & Gratitude Hour, airing live at 12 AM Eastern time on Saturdays. |
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| Hi to all, These are results from April challenges. Please comment if you feel to write. 1. Surprisingly, I able to wake up continuosly at 5:00 AM. Dude, keeping alarm clock far distance helped me to keep the early raiser habit for one week, then not really used alarm clock. 2. Got MCST SQL Server 2005 certificate with highest score. 3. Went to GYM and did meditation most of the days, but not all days in April. Need concentration Please help me guys to stick with this one. 4. Office in and out, I made it couple of days, but not went great. How to get in and get out office on time ? please throw some lights. Cheer to all and wish you all happy days coming. Thanks, JAK |
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Mine are: 1-5 (hard, depressing, seems pointless, want to give up), around the 7th (got accustomed more or less), 9-12 (fine!), 15-18 (hard, pointless, sometimes thoughts of giving up), after that - thoughts about whether I shoud drop it or not, whether all this is right or wrong never even occured to me. P.P.S. One thing about habits being on autopilot. The idea is pretty clear for everyone, but I've learnt what it really means. Being on autopilot means 2 things: no resistance and paying no attention to what you are doing. It's like switching off the light: you know you need to do it, so you just come up to the wall and push the button. You need no force to do it and a moment later you don't even remember that you did it |
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