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Old 11-07-2006, 09:48 AM
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Question If you had to choose one...

If you had to choose one person who had the most impact on your personal development who would it be?

I'll start - Stephen Covey (author of "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People")

Covey's writing helped me to take my life in a new direction.


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Old 11-07-2006, 09:52 AM
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Old 11-07-2006, 11:12 AM
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I think the person that has the most impact on your PD is the person that decided they want to improve themselves and focus on PD......

ie: You, or me in this case.

Im still very new to the whole PD scene, I started simply by typing 'success' in Google. It took me a day or two to eventually come to StevePavlina.com
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My boyfriend - Stuart Tan.
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Covey's writing helped me to take my life in a new direction.
Ditto. This was my foundation.
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My boyfriend - Stuart Tan.
Yeah.

My girlfriend. When I realized things weren't just about me, it sparked me to change for the better.
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Old 11-08-2006, 01:55 AM
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I enjoyed a couple of books by Cheryl Richardson.
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Trina is (yep, the person right above me in this thread). She is my inspiration and sounding board, even if she isn't a published author.
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@ Adam and Trina

You're such a cute couple.

EDIT: And on-topic, for me, probably the biggest influence has been Steve's works.
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Haha, thanks. LOL. I actually would have said Adam, but I think all of the damage that my mother did to me (not all intentional) when I was growing up has had the most profound impact on who I am and why I even care about my own personal development at all. Adam has been an amazing influence in my life though, so he does deserve some credit.
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Stephen Covey, that's where it all started.
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If you had to choose one person who had the most impact on your personal development who would it be?
Steve Pavlina (surprised there aren't more of these, actually).

I'd read a number of Personal Development books, but it wasn't until I found this site that I actually started making progress (30 day trial = genius!). Since I found this site I've lost 37lbs, almostly entirely given up meat, become a (comparatively ) early riser, joined Toastmasters and have begun looking for my purpose (haven't found it yet ) as well as generally feeling a lot more competent and determined in life.

I'm still working on it (I'm currently on a 30-day trial to minimise forum usage! ) but the improvement over the past 6-12 months has been astounding and I credit Steve as the impetus for that...
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I would definitely have to say Steve has had the biggest impact.

...Matt and Trey from South Park would be a close 2nd...LOL

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It's an obvious one I know. But reading How to win friends had a profound effect on my life.
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Illuminatus is still programming my neurology 25 years on... and it goes way beyond personal development into transpersonal experience
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Another vote here for Stephen Covey
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Illuminatus is still programming my neurology 25 years on... and it goes way beyond personal development into transpersonal experience
Oh my, that reprogramming [fnord] was only supposed to last for 23 years. You must have gotten the edited [fnord] version that didn't have the proper safeguards. [fnord]
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Old 11-10-2006, 05:16 PM
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After reading the first answer (Stephen Covey), I automatically changed the question in my mind to "If you had to choose one PD writer...". I stand corrected. Now that I payed attention, I would have to say... my parents. Yes, I know they are two persons, but dad wins my proactive/optimistic award, and mom wins the most organized and punctual one.
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