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What is this, your Facebook page? Although, reading your extended blog-like posts really makes my heart pound. I can feel your energy, bro. Really inspiring stuff, and I love hearing stories of young people's journeys. You're 19, yeah? That means you're only a couple years older than me. Which makes me wonder...if I really started living at the capacity and energy that you're bringing, I wonder how far I'll be by the time I'm your age? |
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Hey I bet if you put your mind to it like you are right now, and you wanted to you could sell the Antarctic to polar bears, or ambulances to ER. This is a really interesting thread, keep it coming and look out for any help that manifests, as the world does provide. Take good care and remember to take time out to relax so you can think straight, learn from what has happened in your pre existing enthusiasm so you can move forward after such time out and take good care of yourself. Keep posting even when you're struggling, I've gone through what your going through now, some years back though and your life does change, though perhaps not always in the ways you expect it. Magdalen x |
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This is gonig to be short. I'm not even going to revise that typo in the previous sentence.... I turned 20 in March. I just can't edit forum titles. Some very big things are currently in the works. Originally, I was going to go to my last day of working on Aug 20th, but I think I'm going to leave mid-day on the 19th and just enjoy the 20th all to my own. Frederick, MD is such a beautiful city. I haven't spent much time seeing it because I've been indoors most of the days. The funny thing is that I've been working 12-14 hours a day, 7 days a week, since May 1st. My body has gotten adjusted to it. Even though I hate waking up early, I'm still able to do it. Oh yeah, Ambaya Gold products/MonAtomic gold really help out also. I really enjoy doing what I'm doing right now. It's just that the time>>>money trade isn't something that should go on forever. I see the people who I work with. 40, 50, and 60, and some 70 year olds who have dedicated their lives to working for one company. They've pledged heart and soul to serving the company only to be told "you are no longer needed" the next day. When you work for someone else, you have 0 levarage. Millionaire Fastlane broke that down pretty clearly. I probably would have stayed in this job forever if I didn't read Millionaire Fastlane. Slowlane IS acceptable to get to the Fastlane, however, it can't be the main route. It can be an exit most definitely, but it can't be the whole path. (If this isn't making sense, then don't worry; it's cryptic language only understood by creators of the Universe [jk {not really}]) But really. Life is short. Make the most of it that you can. An asteroid could hit in five minutes without us knowing. It could be moving at the speed of light. lol. Yes. Asteroids. Here's a Haiku: This is the first ever. Alexander written Haiku. I hope you like it. |
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T-Minus 6. So... I let go of worrying about the place that I'm currently living in. I wanted to help the young family who lives here and have them not have to worry about finding another tenant. I had something inside of me that said, "just let go and the right person will find you". Then today, I was just on my computer and my friend E and my friend Jenny came up to me. I told Jenny that I was looking to rent out my place, but she ended up telling my friend E. Long story short - housing is handled. ------ I was browsing Craigslist for a place to live in Austin. I found about....3 or 4 good places. Most of them downtown (right where I need them to be) So that's going to be handled very soon. ------------------- So I'm going to focus in on selling life/health insurance again. It's going to be pretty fun. Goal: make 30k-50k with life/health insurance. Use that money to SOLELY blow on internet marketing. Spoke to my friend Alex. Him and his other friend Alex made about 10,000 today with a new launch product. Pretty cool. It's time for me to learn some new skills then. ------------ I'm going to go back to "going out 7 nights a week" **** yes. My ID came in the mail. It's a beautiful thing. This is the closest thing that I have to a real life baby/child in my life. I could literally caress it and look at it all day. ------------------ going to have to order some colloidal silver for my ear. i have a feeling that i'm rather sensitive to smoke. There was a white truck driving in front of me that had a super smokey exhaust. I drove behind it for about...30 seconds. The smoke got into my car, but i felt nauseated. My ear has been hurting (ear infection like) for the entire day. If I'm going to be going out every night, then it's time for me to take care of my ears. ------ Everything is slowly piecing itself together. amurka....fukyeeeeee |
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Ceoarob, congradulatlions in your journey, you mentioned you have you liscense to sell insurance, im working on my p&c test, the whole book is 400pg long, how did you tackle studying and retaining all that info, man, that book is not attractive to me in the least lol, i know i will forget more than half of the book when im done with it, any suggestions how to tackle it and ace this test. Thanks!
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Hey bro, PandC was by doubt the hardest test that I've ever had to take in my life. I have my Life/Health, P/C, and Adjuster...and by far, P/C was the most difficult and time consuming. I used these two books to help me out: -a 400 page kaplan book which I can't find anymore -http://www.amazon.com/Property-Casualty-Insurance-License-Exam/dp/0789732645/ref=pd_sim_b_12 that book I basically went chapter by chapter. Taking notes...highlighting stuff, and making sure that I understood everything. The 1st kaplan book came with a CD that quizzed me over 900+ questions that were identical to the test. There's really no way other than to just go chapter by chapter and make sure that you THOROUGHLY understand everything. Each chapter is a foundational block to something that follows later, so you truly do have to make sure that you understand it all. Plus, the test is only going to be 100 questions, so you need to make sure that you know EVERYTHING because you don't know what those 100 questions could be. They could all be your strong points or they could all be your weak points. Just read, highlight, take notes, and find a practice CD. If I find the name of my book, I'll give it to you...I just remember that it is Kaplan and it saved my life. | |
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Yeah...I think I'm going to cut this forum for 30 days. Correction: Gonna cut this forum for 30 days. Basically my life right now: -Wake up whenever I want (usually around 12 PM). -Do whatever I want...whenever I want. -Spend lots of money -Make lots of money -Live downtown -Walk to bars and clubs. -Go out every ****ing night. -Shuffle everyday....party rock is in the house tonight....everybody's gonna have a good time -Party hard. Drink nothing but water. Got water in my left hand girl in my right. Banging in this club everything's so tight, in the light, bust a fight with a hook done with my right time to party like a motherfwaka ALL damn night. (Freestyle baby) -Make money -Read very little. -Read verryyy little. -Just kidding. Read a moderate amount. -Make lots of friends. Have lots of fun This is pretty much going to be my pattern for the next 30 days. Fun fun fun. Everyday is friday...because it's fun fun fun. Which seat do I take? |
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Ironic... Last time I logged on was 9-3-11 Today's date? 10-4-11 Has anything much changed since then?? HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAOHAHAEHSNAEOSNHAOHSAEOHSAOUEHR LAEOHLHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAH -I think I've been in Austin for 40 days. Been out on at least 30 of those nights. -Countless adventures -I moved to 6th street. It takes 30 seconds from Bed to Bar -Sedona Method is where it's at. -I'm done actively updating this. The past 30 days was completely alright with me leaving the forum. I didn't really miss much. I'm sure that there was a guy complaining about how some girl flaked on him and how some chick wants a more dominant dude. It's all good in the hood. 6th baby. Austin Texasssss. -Anyways, this will be my backup journal for the things that are just too awesome to forget. I'll probably update it....whenever. ehhhh. Austin Texassssss |
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Today: -Eat dinner at 5 AM -Almost get followed by a homeless dude to IHOP -Wakeup early at 2PM -Get internet fixed -Watch homeless people fight over a rotten piece of bread on 7th street -Drink mid-day with a stripper -Buy handle of rum from liquor store which is one block away -Check bank account - there's actually more money than I expected -Set up insurance career -Meet women outside my door -Use computer for first time in while I love Monday's...they are my day of rest. |
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"I effortlessly have in my life multiple relationships with beautiful women that are fun, free, sexual, and adventurous" Hahahah....yesssss..... ---------------- 75 days left in the year. 100,000 is the magical number |
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Love in the Moonlight. HAHAHAHAH. -Parking tickets -Making chair babies -Falling in love -Love at "Bend Over" HAHAHAHA -Financial Freedom**************** -Winning the lottery -Calling my shots. More on the horizon. Yes. Winning. Winning is only winning when you're winning. |
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| Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: United States, Ohio
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This is a pretty inspiring thread, it's great to see you follow through and achieve so much. How did you get into the insurance biz? That seemed pretty profitable, though it definitely seemed tough as well. I should be heading to South Korea to teach English in a few months, but maybe that would be something I should look into when I get back. Any tips or things you could tell me about how you got into it? Were you lucky to make so much money doing that or does time=money in that job? |
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At first, I got my Life/Health Licenses, then I got Property/Casulty (home and auto), then I got my Adjuster's Licenses. The first 2 made me a little bit of money. I actually ended up making the most money with Adjuster's. Basically, the more natural disasters that there are in the world, the more adjuster's will be needed. Insurance companies pay EXTREMELY well for adjuster's who are good with computers, who know (or are able to pick up on) construction well, and who can just get ♥♥♥♥ done. I'm pretty sure I was the youngest active adjuster in the nation, but I made a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ of money, so it worked out nice for me. Now I just party every night and have fun timez in the moonlight | |
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There's a course out there called The Sedona Method. It's a 20 CD course that goes in depth about making money and also having whatever it is that you choose financially, relationships wise, etc. That was really the catalyst for me getting off my feet financially. And it's also the catalyst for some HUGE changes that are occurring in my life right now. It's a round-a-bout answer to the insurance question, but what I'm saying is this: The insurance industry may or may not be for you. Sedona Method will help you find the answers within yourself on your path to financial abundance/freedom. ------------ But to answer your questions: It all depends on who you sign up with. If you get a good agency, they will provide you with the best leads in the world (for that location) and you'll have a high close ratio. It mainly works on commission. The more you sell, the more you make. The higher ticket items you sell, the more commission you make. Pretty simple | |
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I'm writing this from my old room in Atlanta/TTown. It's been over 6 months since I've actually been here. As I came back, I realized that I created my reality EXACTLY how I pictured it in my mind over a year ago. I imagined taking a BC, moving to a completely new city, and just pimping it out. The drive back was a bit of an emotional one for me as I passed by Lanett, Alabama and I realized that's where the story really took a turn for the best and took a turn for the worst. Almost two years ago exactly, I made that drive from Alabama to Georgia. I had virtually nothing in my life except for a couple of dollars. I was still in college, but I was hopeless in the relationships department. My health was so-so, and my mental clarity was rather poor. I had no purpose in life and I felt like I was floundering around. I dreamed of changing my life, but nothing actually came to fruition. I'd start different business endeavors only to stop once the going actually got hard. I didn't want to study because I thought that academics were boring as ♥♥♥♥. I had a lot of trouble focusing in on actually studying because partying was my main priority. I just enjoyed meeting people more than studying with my nose in a book. I could see past the illusion/delusion of college, and I knew that if I was ever going to be successful on a massive scale, then I'd have to leave college. That was the first true step of my Path, my Personal Legend. --------------------------------------- A couple of things happen after I left. I got my licenses for Life and Health Insurance, then Property and Casualty. Then, adjuster's. Nothing came to fruition on a massive level in my life for about 1 year+. During that year, it was the best of times, it was the worst of times. I didn't go out at all. I rarely socialized, but I was still social. I had very...anti-social behaviors. I woke up everyday wanting to die, I hated the fact that I lived with my parents, and I just wanted to live a new life. I wanted money, I wanted women, I wanted sex, and I wanted my life to change. All the wanting in my life just compounded my misery and everything...sucked. Ha. Then, I actually got "serious" about life. I realized that nothing I had previously done really worked for me. All of this "motivation" hoorah and different techniques to get myself disciplined for certain goals didn't seem to work on me. While they might have worked for others, they certainly didn't work for me. ---------------------- I started listening to The Sedona Method 20 CD course and I had some initial breakthroughs in my life. My financials were the main things that I wanted to change in my life, so I focused on that dilligently with the goal of, "I allow myself to live in financial abundance". At the time, I had no clue what that would be like. I just wanted to be able to go to Chick-Fil-A, get a salad, and not have to worry about breaking my bank/running out of money on my debit card. I just kept releasing on different wants. I don't know if I ever got "hootless" with this goal, but all of a sudden, opportunities started popping up out of the blue. Not even that, but it was like, I could see things happening that just made financial abundance INEVITABLE. For example, I was with my father in Dallas and he was worrying about spending some money to get started on our business venture together. He was afraid that we'd break even or that we'd go in the hole. However, I just had a calm and quiet certainty that EVERYTHING WOULD BE ALRIGHT. I didn't know where this was coming from. Even looking back, I had no tangible reasons to believe that I'd actually reach my goal, but I just KNEW. There was something inside of me that just KNEW I'd get there without me having to worry at all. Hell, even looking back, I remember my initial training session class. There were about 20 or 30 people who were more qualified than me for the position I applied for. They had more background in adjusting and construction. They were a lot older than me, and they seemed to have every advantage over me. I was just a college dropout with no resume, but I had good computer skills. Scratch that, I had mindblowing computer skills, so I just excelled to the top. Even though I had no clue what I was doing, I was good with the computer and I could type 100 words per minute (which blew these 40-60 years old people's minds). I kept releasing on my goal of financial abundance and things just kinda "happened" and all of a sudden, I'm making more money each day that most people make each month. I started making more money than my father (a commercial Pilot with Master Degrees and Aeronautical Engineering and all that jazz), and he actually was kinda glad that I dropped out of college. I no longer had to ask for money. I just had it. I didn't have to change anything in my life. I could just do/buy whatever I needed. At the time, back then, my only expenses were food, and gas. ---------------------------------------- Eventually, my Karma burned away and signs started pointing in a different direction: Austin, Texas. Magical things just started happening and all of a sudden, I realized that I'd be leaving my "safe, secure job" and be moving out on my own, taking a BC, and just really going back to the way I'm used to living life (6 nights a week, being social, having fun with other people, etc.) Before I made the final decision about moving, I just started releasing on the goal statement, "I allow myself to live a life of Freedom in Austin Texas". Even though I wasn't sure whether or not it was the right decision, the more I released on it, the more I realized that I'd be able to do it and successfully make it happen. As I released on my goal, new solutions and opportunities presented itself. In addition, I did things that I would have normally never done. It was really the same things that I was doing initially, just in a different way/different manner. On a calculated whim, I moved to Texas. I gave my employer a 24-hour notice. I thought that we would be leaving on "bad terms", but it turns out that they really loved the work that I put out and they thought I did a phenomenal job coming from 0 construction experience and 0 background at a job that has some of the most technicalities and minute details from anything that I've ever seen. I still think that it's the coolest "job" in the world. If I ever would go back to working, I'd do that. However, I made a firm decision that I would never work for another person again. I'm more of an order maker than an order taker. Some might call it a need for control, I look at is as a desire for freedom and willingness to break away from the social norms of a 9-5 job and the security of "The System". So, I just left, packed up all my things, said goodbye to the friends I made, and headed to Texas. --------------------------------------------- -------------------------------- Once I got to Austin, I just kept releasing on actually settling down and finding a good place for me to stay. At first, I ended up getting a place that was 10 minutes away from all the bars. It was posh, upscale, nice, and extremely...luxurious. But I was looking for something a little bit more exciting. All of a sudden, the perfect place to live for me just came up out of thin air. I saw the opportunity and took hold of it. However, not I wasn't sure if I would get it, but I WANTED this place really badly. With every second that I wanted it, I felt more and more out of control. I felt like my reactions were caught up in it, and I knew that this was the perfect place for me, but I just felt like "external factors" were preventing me from getting it. Long story short, I just kept releasing till I got to a place of hootlessness. I got the apartment through a bit of persistence, but also constant releasing. If I would just kept "wanting" the apartment, then I would've ended up saying the wrong things at the wrong time. I actually got the apartment because I created enough space inside myself to ALLOW it into my life. I just ended up doing the right things at the right time and BOOM. Looking back, things could've gone completely wrong, but I ended up still getting the apartment. It indeed is the best place in Austin to live...at least for me ------------------------------------ |
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Now that my goal of "I allow myself to live a life of freedom in Austin, Texas" was pretty much at fruition, I just kinda enjoyed everything that I created for the time being. Now, I was going out and meeting a whole bunch of women. I was also releasing on relationships in general, but I didn't have a specific goal. One day, I just decided to set an outrageous goal for myself of: "I allow myself to have multiple relationships with beautiful women that are fun, free, sexual, and adventurous". At first, I didn't believe that this would be possible, but the more I released on it, the more I realized I had a great emotional charge around relationships. I released on this goal day and night for about 2 weeks. During that time period, very "strange" things started happening. (They aren't so strange now and they are actually commonplace). I just kept meeting girls who wanted to have fun with me. Something shifted inside myself where I stopped being a guy that women viewed as "boyfriend material" and well, long story short...it just led to me having some multiple relationships that were fun, free, sexual, and adventurous. Even now, things are compounding. There was a 2 week "clearing space" period where I just continually released on the emotional charge I had around relationships and I just found myself "having" more. The more I let go of WANTING women, the more women just magically appeared in my life. In addition, the more I let go of WANTING sex, the more sex just magically presented itself on my doorstep (literally, on my doorstep). I had some great adventures and realized that this whole relationships thing isn't as hard as I initially portrayed it to be. Rather, the main thing that is holding me back is me and my emotions. This ♥♥♥♥ is already easy, it's just a matter of me ALLOWING myself to have these wonderful women into my life. It's just a matter of me ALLOWING these wonderful adventures to take place in my life. The more I allow, the more these happen. --------------------------------- Past 2 weeks, I've been in a trance-like state. I would just walk around, think of something, and it would almost instantly appear. Winning lottery tickets, parking spots (big one), people, beautiful women on the street, food, etc. Just kept popping up. Even though I wasn't consciously releasing on these (or at least with such an intensity), they just kept popping up in my life. However, to my great fortune, I had a couple of "wake-up calls" that reminded me that it's time to keep CONSCIOUSLY creating. This past week, I looked at my bank account and realized that even though I do have a lot of money (enough that I can do whatever I choose), eventually I will run out unless I create some more. I've been spending anywhere between 100-500 dollars a day just on stuff. Mainly food, but I do have some other minor expenses also. Sometimes, I buy some high ticket items just for fun. Even though I have enough for now, it's time for me to actually have some fun with this part of my life. ----------------------------------- In regards to relationships, I set a goal for myself of "I allow myself to effortlessly meet amazing women and have some amazing experiences with them both in bed and out of it". It was an off-handed goal, I would repeat it only a couple of times during the day and release on it, but it was like, the past 4 days, I've been meeting hotter/higher quality chicks AND (probably the coolest/freakiest part) I've been running into "high quality" chicks who I met before, but for some reason lost touch with. I can usually expect myself running into 1 or 2 of these chicks during the weekend at night, but when I run into 4 or 5 of these chicks during the DAY when I'm out running errands at places that I never visit and/or doing things that I would normally do, it reminds me that this ♥♥♥♥ is just a matter of letting go and ALLOWING these amazing women into my life. On top of that, chicks have just been texting me out the ass and it has gotten a bit overwhelming for me. They know who I am, they know what I'm about, and they're down for some fun. I like it. Regardless, I created the "first level" of this. It's really only come down to a couple of things: 1) Time, 2) Friends, 3) Logistics. Opportunities for love in the moonlight are just thrown my way now. Like, literally THROWNNNNN my way. But also, my relationships have hit a different level. Before, I would SEARCH for high quality women that I WANTED to date/have fun with. Since I've been meeting a whole bunch of them lately, I've realized that the less I LOOK for them and the more I ALLOW them to enter my life, the more high quality/beautiful women I HAVE. I'll meet these chicks and it'll just be like we "run into" each other. It's hard to explain other than I look back and it was "inevitable" that we would meet. Almost like we were just magically drawn to each other. I usually never know this until in retrospect, but it's just like, "Hmmm...interesting". It's hard to explain and quite interesting to experience, but it just comes down to to a couple of things: 1) Be a man 2) Allow 3) Have fun ----------------------------- In regards to Health and Well being, I switched my diet to the Raw Vegan diet. That has produced the greatest amount of physical change in my body. I have zero fatigue during my waking hours (unless I don't eat). My mental clarity is greater than it has ever been...ever. I sleep well, I sleep less (no more 12 hours of sleeping, unless I choose to). I don't have to eat all the time. I just feel a lot better in my body. I have energy out the roof. I feel pretty amazing. In regards to my health and well-being, it's just a matter of me letting go of resisting the diet. I've established the fact that I'm going to follow through with it 100%. It's just a matter of learning how to cook, letting go of resisting, and having fun learning this new skill for myself. There's not much that I can say about that. I'll probably release a bit of my kidneys/bladders, but other than that, my health and well-being are on point. Most of it, I attribute to the Raw Vegan diet, but it's just like...effortless. ------------------------------- What now? I've come to the conscious realization that my "creation time" has maxed out to 3 weeks. By this, I mean that the amount of time that it would take for me to create any goal in my life takes 3 weeks maximum. It's really brought down to 2 weeks and it's like I 100% have what I choose in the 3rd week. The first 2 weeks are "clearing the space". During this period, I see gains from the second that I start releasing. It's not like I magically have everything after two weeks. Rather, I start letting go, creating more space, and opening myself up to HAVE more. Everything is right here, right now. Depending on how much I WANT the goal, I may or may not get it instantly. The more I let go of wanting it, the quicker it gets to me. Or rather, the quicker I have it. It's already right here, right now. It's just a matter of me allowing and having it. I'm open to the possibility that I can have anything I choose at any point (instant creation), and I'm ALSO open to continuing to release no matter how long it takes for me to do so. So, with that in mind. I've got three goals: Money - "I effortlessly allow myself to have 75,000 dollars or more in my life" - pretty simple. This is just the first time that I've ever put a concrete dollar amount on it. This is just a test and also enough to get me through till the end of year. It's also the "prelude" to my Personal Legend. Relationships - "I effortlessly allow myself to meet amazing women and have amazing experiences with them, both in bed and out of it" - this is just to push the envelope and see how far I can push this. I know that easy/fun relationships are possible. Right now, it's just pushing the adventure and quality, so yes. Health/Well-Being - "I effortlessly allow myself to live a raw vegan lifestyle" - this is the first Health/Well-Being goal I've set out for myself, so yes. ------------ Now, it's just a matter of releasing and letting go of "wanting" and just having fun in the process. Cheers. |
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Your ongoing story is absolutely an inspiration man. I find myself in a very similar place as you when you started this adventure. Thank you for sharing. How was the Real Social Dynamics bootcamp? I have had some marginal succcess with opening myself up and allowing people into my life recently through new hobbies but I still have alot* to learn in this area. I find that I have difficulty 'meeting people' in general (especially attractive women) outside of a setting where I am highly comfortable with myself such as mountain biking, climbing, camping, cooking etc. |
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So this is what I thought about bootcamp. It was a lifechanging experience and it was the catalyst for all my recent relationship success. I took mine with Nathan! in Austin, Texas. And I just happened to also move to Austin also. The lessons that I learned were invaluable and he told me "exactly what I needed to hear". I HIGHLY doubt that I would've been able to discover what he told me on my own, or it would've easily taken me 4-5 years extra. The first month was really rough for me because I kept getting flaked on by different girls, but that was mainly because I wasn't 1) Being myself 2) Being a true man. I was still trying to use "Game" to get girls and stuff like that. Come the 2nd month that I was in Austin, something magical started to happen. Girls started flaking less and they took more initiative to come and meet me. Consequently, I started getting laid alot more, but that was only the byproduct of being a real man, bringing true emotion to my interactions, leading, and being myself. Now, I feel like every night that TI go out, I'm "entering the Matrix" so to speak. I'll go out to a nightclub/bar/etc all by myself and I have all the tools that I need to meet chicks and have a great experience (either in bed or out of it). Before, I used to worry about what exatctly I should do/say after I walk up to a chick. I was emotionally closed, and I didn't really have much ability to really lead things forward emotionally. Most people would've disagreed if they say me, but the main thing for me was CONSCIOUS understanding. I would get girls, but I wouldn't have ANY clue on how I did it. Bootcamp kinda changed all that. Also, going out 6 nights a week definitely helped with that too. but yes, BC is pretty bad-ass. I suggest Nathan! highly. Cheers. -AR | |
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Back here in montreal, girls are soo difficult and picky. I just came from one downtown right now.. And yeah, I also went all by myself (my friends are all broke) and I thought I looked awsome. But next thing you know, I'm getting rejected by 3 out of every 4 girls I try to dance with. Got any tips? | |
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