|01-18-2010, 11:28 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jul 2007
dayyum so i started thinking, im not earning much money, my dating life has been virtually non existant, i have not really achieved what i have wanted to and feel so lowly motivated and stuck
i just would love to be earning about double what i do now, of course ideally i wanna be a millionaire, buy big house fast cars etc, be doing things i love, and to have women chasing me (because i am attractive to women), so there will be fun times. my mind switches between just have fun to, hmm yeah i could settle with someone, then it goes, want to have alot of fun first, then settle.
im not sure i can achieve anything in life.
i pretty much am unfulfilled with my life
|01-19-2010, 05:50 AM||#3 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jan 2010
Then go and do it.
Everyone sees the results of hard work such as the money, and the cars, and even the women, but people always overlook how much work is necessary to get there.
There is nothing that is out of your reach. If you really want the things that you say, then there is nothing stopping you. You just need to get to work getting them. It just takes hard work and time.
You want more money? Find out how you want to do that and get to work planning it. You may need to work hard on some business idea, or maybe youll need to do some classes to get into a career you want. Is it the money or the job itself that you are more unhappy about? Only you can decide.
You want women chasing you? Then start working out at the gym, and start setting some time apart to go out and build up your social skills and social circles. Again, it will just require hard work and time, but it is again something that is not out of your reach, and understand it is never too late.
The most dangerous thing you can do is get stuck in a cycle of victimhood and depression about your life. You just gotta get your head down, for what may be quite a few years of continuous grind, and youll get there in the end.
Anything is possible. You just need to want it enough.
|01-19-2010, 06:23 AM||#4 (permalink)|
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: St. Louis, MO
You just need to work man. Seriously, you sound lazy. Get yourself a passion and get good at it. Then make money or something. Work is good people. Exercise your mind and body or else it won't cooperate when you want to use it.
|01-20-2010, 09:20 AM||#5 (permalink)|
Join Date: Sep 2009
you (OP) could pretty much be me about 6 months ago.
Seriously, I'd have written almost exactly what you did.
Things are different now, because I've showed a determination to get my life sorted out. It takes time and effort for good things to come together. Keep working at it.
My view is that we need to show that we are worthy of good things before they come to us. This amounts to a little more than a few thoughts one night...
You can achieve plenty in life if you believe you can. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.
|01-20-2010, 12:37 PM||#6 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jul 2007
Would a big house and fast cars make your life fulfilled?
It would be a part of it, that part that says you pretty much have made it financially.
I train at the gym and keep in shape. Its just getting everything else together. Sometimes I think I just need a mentor to help me a little.
I think I am lacking that passion at the moment.
I do think I need to change my whole mindset. Maybe make a major change in my whole life, what I do etc.
|01-20-2010, 06:14 PM||#7 (permalink)|
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: In the moment
I'm willing to bet the emotions behind the "things" are what you actually crave. You're desire to have attractive women chasing you can be achieved now. You don't need money, homes, or cars to make this happen. There are things you can do now to cultivate an attractive personality. Just look around, the info is out there
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