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Old 11-26-2009, 12:54 PM   #1 (permalink)
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What is the reason that makes you work harder, be more proactive and less lazy? What gets you excited and enthusiastic?
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Old 11-26-2009, 01:00 PM   #2 (permalink)
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The vision I have for my life...the things I want to do, and the people I want to share it with.
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Old 11-26-2009, 01:56 PM   #3 (permalink)
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just trying to make sense of it all. at this particular time in my life i have a lot of "whys" and no answers.

the whys make me question and doubt and search for more answers.

i may never make sense of it...but it is my impetus to get up every day and keep moving forward.
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Old 11-26-2009, 02:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Joy
Expansion
Peace
Generation
Love
Connection
Gratitude
Vitality
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Old 11-26-2009, 02:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Just the idea that I'm 15, And that I determine the type of life that I have, and that a losers life isn't worth living. Yet one of my priorities, is to keep living, So by consequance... I can't live a losers life.
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Old 11-26-2009, 04:29 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Beautiful things may happen if i do
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Old 11-26-2009, 08:29 PM   #7 (permalink)
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My main motivation comes from the fact that I have a desire for growth.

I think that all there is constantly changing. If you use your life energy to mastering the present time, in order to be happier and thrive, then you have the energy, excitement and enthusiasm for all.
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Old 11-26-2009, 08:35 PM   #8 (permalink)
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The vision I have for my life...the things I want to do, and the people I want to share it with.
^^ This. ^^
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Old 11-26-2009, 09:09 PM   #9 (permalink)
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To make this one life meaningful.
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Old 11-27-2009, 05:49 AM   #10 (permalink)
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The unexpected.
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Old 11-27-2009, 06:36 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Freedom
Passion
Joy
Fun
Trust
Respect
Quality
Fairness
Contribution
Love
Creativity
Growth
Courage
Abundence
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Old 11-27-2009, 02:07 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Now that I think about it, it all comes down to passion.
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Old 11-27-2009, 03:53 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Because i learned that everything worth having doesn't come easy.

I also work because I choose work I love. Work is only drudgery if you let it be.

Life is as good (or as bad) as you make of it.
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Old 11-30-2009, 08:17 PM   #14 (permalink)
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^^ This. ^^
Hey thanks David, I always wanted to write something quotable ha ha
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Old 11-30-2009, 09:13 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Helping others grow and showing them that life can be awesome. Knew this for a long time, but never really took steps towards it until this year. I also like making money, I'm not going to lie about that. Making money is awesome and fun when you do not let it control you.
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LOVE+LIFE+Fun+PASSION+JOY+PEACE+CONNECTION+GRATITUDE+HEALTH
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Not having to do anything. I get so much more done when I don't have to... In one word; Freedom.
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I'm curious why Angela didn't mention freedom. Was that an oversight or not? For many that's like the holy grail for which they strive.
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If I'm enjoying what I'm doing, I'll naturally work harder without any other incentive. I have a hard time figuring out what motivates me beyond simply enjoying myself in the present moment.
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Hi,

Very nice question!

For me, this the pleasure to help others and make my life better.

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Old 12-01-2009, 05:55 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Freedom.

That's it.
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Old 12-01-2009, 06:49 AM   #22 (permalink)
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Moving forward and helping others move forward with me.
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the cathartic feeling i get from creating and sharing my work and connecting with other brilliant people. the prospect of spending my life doing what i love is too exciting to do aynthing else!
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Hi, escapeplan. Freedom is certainly near the top of my values in every context, but it's not really my answer to the question of
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What is the reason that makes you work harder, be more proactive and less lazy? What gets you excited and enthusiastic?
....because Freedom is so deeply Who I Am, it doesn't feel like something for me to strive for -- to get me fired up and motivated. Possibly because it is just continually running, firing me up and motivating me at an unconscious level. The other values I listed are my conscious "Movers."
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To be overwhelmingly good at something useful, and to impress my wife.
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Challenge.

The chance to help others, especially by educating and entertaining them (improving their skills, exposing hypocrisy, helping them make choices, reporting information).

Freedom to work on projects that excite me.

Better quality of life for my family members.
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