Trying to decide my primary focus

[SamBeaven]

I've had a bit of trouble of late choosing a primary focus, because while I'm fostering an attitude of gratitude and feel I'm really getting somewhere, I can also see lots of different areas of my life that need improvement. I've narrowed it down to two options:

Relationships
I'm 21 and have never had a serious (or even non-serious) relationship. I feel that needs work because I'm a little behind everyone else, and working on my social skills and whatnot could help me a lot in later life. Plus it looks like fun

Business / Financial
I'm in my third year of college, and I've been thinking that since I've got a lot of free time coming up (I'm taking mostly self-study extension modules which require little actual teaching this semester coming), this would be a great time to grow a few small businesses (I've got three blogs at the moment, but only one is updated with any serious regularity - I also have other business ideas I'd like to pursue and see if I can get some passive income streams set up).

So what do you guys think? I figure I'm not going to have such a good opportunity for business growth once I'm out of college, but at the same time college is a great time for getting involved with the ladies, and also I am a little concerned that my doubts about pursuing relationships right now are manifestations of fear - it's something mostly new to me, after all.

[RT Wolf]

If it's just the two, you could try switching them up. That is, make relationships your focus one month, the business the next. Be careful though, if/when you get a partner, you'll prolly be spending a lot more time with them, so you might not want to switch your focus the next month.