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Old 02-16-2009, 05:10 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi alll need your help
Actually last three years had been dull for me in life with nothing significantly done ...lemme put u myself i just changed my place of living and took up to alcohol (not to a larger extent to some extent
) and i started to procrastinate and i lied to all tht i ve a job which i didnt had then........and still i dont ve good job but i can work hard and i ve realised my mistakes as such but still i m in some debt and i can get over it...how can i get over my past mistakes.......if any more info needed do ask me and need some genuine suggestions....
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You actually did well by admitting to your mistakes. The next step to take is to learn from your mistakes and not make them again.

You should set a goal and create a plan to help you follow through on it. Hope my suggestion helps.

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Old 02-16-2009, 04:38 PM   #3 (permalink)
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As above said, set a goal, any goal and follow through on it. Then read Pavlina's site, and read his book and read 7 Habits of Highly Effective People and just keep reading nad doing. Good luck.
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First: Stop Lying.
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Hi alll need your help
Actually last three years had been dull for me in life with nothing significantly done ...lemme put u myself i just changed my place of living and took up to alcohol (not to a larger extent to some extent
) and i started to procrastinate and i lied to all tht i ve a job which i didnt had then........and still i dont ve good job but i can work hard and i ve realised my mistakes as such but still i m in some debt and i can get over it...how can i get over my past mistakes.......if any more info needed do ask me and need some genuine suggestions....
try making a mind map of what you want to do with your life. ^,^
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First: Stop Lying.
QFT!

Wow. That is probably the most profound, spot on thing here. Be utterly honest with yourself, and listen to your conscience. It's not always right, but it's important to talk to it. It's the little voice buried under everything else. It nags you a little bit about things you feel you should be doing.

Be completely and utterly honest with yourself and it's freakin hard.
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Do what you know you should do, and ignore all the voices inside and outside your head that tell you otherwise.
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