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Old 02-15-2009, 04:14 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How many ways have you bettered yourself in the past year?

My spiritual progress started accelerating about 8 months ago when I started reading occult/religious/mythological books, and I decided to start logging the ways I've improved myself since, because I find that I kind of forget.

I have an old list with more on it but can't find it:

I...
  • mellowed out
  • get along better with everyone and accept them more
  • am no longer weird about physical contact
  • stand up for myself more
  • am more clear about what i want to do
  • am more aware all day long
  • procrastinate less
  • do yoga in the morning
  • follow my own rules better
  • am knowledgeable about many systems and religions
  • better at manipulating external conditions to reach my goals (William S. Burroughs - The Now... must read).
  • more self-disciplined.
  • More productivity with laptop (from less procrastination and more focus
  • am able to follow a routine more consistently
  • No longer scared about situations in which I am the noob (e.g. going to muay thai, i have a history of making a fool of myself)
  • able to control my weight, well getting there anyway!
  • feel like dancing all the time!
  • am unmistakably happy
  • am more sincere and bring out sincerity in people more
  • am closer to my friends
  • am nicer to my friends
  • am less of a drunken muppet
  • am more responsible with drugs

Not bad eh? Didn't expect to come up with such a big list, I'm delighted with myself
Let's hear yours

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Old 02-15-2009, 11:52 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Nice List! Well I...

  • Developed a winning attitude
  • Became a father
  • Learned patience because of it
  • Learned how to think positively
  • Unlearned how to think negatively
  • Challenged myself and others around me
  • Moved more calmly and carefully, so less clumsily
  • Learned the importance of friends
  • Learned that everyone has strengths
  • And also weaknesses
  • Survived Cancer, and became stronger
  • Began writing and blogging
  • Took responsibility for my success!
  • Got rid of all the junk I didn't need (both physically and mentally)
  • Began to focus on what I enjoy and love!
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Old 02-21-2009, 01:40 PM   #3 (permalink)
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No more takers?

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Old 02-21-2009, 07:39 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I actually get up in the mornings and think about something else apart from going back to bed. It wasn't always that way.
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Old 02-25-2009, 01:34 PM   #5 (permalink)
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When I say something to myself, I will follow through with it and NOT compromise.

I always found a way to compromise.... but eventually, that compromise was like the sea, washing away the shoreline slowly: until the compromise was the norm.
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Old 02-26-2009, 05:06 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I slept in more, I got less work done, I have never been happier.
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Old 02-26-2009, 04:43 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I have taken strides in many areas over the last year, hard to measure, but I feel I have made definite progress:
  • Moved much closer to obtaining my future career goals
  • Attained more mental clarity and balance then I have ever experienced
  • 100% eliminated alcohol (had 98% eliminated it prior, but still struggled on rare occasions)
  • Packed my lunch for work every day, period
  • Reduced my reactivity to stress from my family
  • Greatly increased my ability to see everything in a positive light
  • Was very supportive to my husband while he worked on a goal that occupied months of his time
  • Solved and improved some behavioral problems in my felines
  • Increased my consistency on projects/to do lists around the house
  • Eliminated Eggs and Soy 100% after allergy testing (in addition to wheat already)
  • Developed and performed multiple large group training sessions at work that pushed my group speaking comfort levels
  • Took my marriage to new and better levels through communication and awareness
  • Traveled the farthest I have been outside of the continental US for a nice vacation

Hrmmm, thought I couldn't come up with much, but it wasn't a bad year at all for me now that I look back

Thanks for the exercise!
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Old 02-27-2009, 05:07 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I slept in more, I got less work done, I have never been happier.
High five
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