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I understand it takes 21-30 days to form a habit, but it's a big committment. I'd be willing to bet, many people who are overwelmed by a 30 day challenge would commit to a 10 day challenge and after the 10 days, many would probably amend it to a 30 day challenge. Also, you could make a 10 day challenge to accomplish something you've been putting off or to accomplish something you've always wanted to do... sort of a focused blitz . That could be a lot of fun AND very productive. Plus, friends and family would probably make more allowances for just a 10 day challenge. |
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Then: What when you skip two days in a 10 day challenge? Did you complete it? Two days in a 30 day challenge shouldn't be a problem. | |
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Why not 30 days? 30 days is just a number that seems like a good amount since its an about a months time period. You could easily do a 10 day trial, a 15 day trial, a 300 day trial, or even a 3 day trial. 30 days just seems to be a good amount of time to develop into a new habit. Also it depends on your level of self discipline, and the trial that your doing. Kyle
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I think if you're doing a 10-day challenge and strictly restarting at Day One every time you 'fail' you will be conscious of the challenge for a lot longer than 10 days. If 10-days is too easy for you and you sail through it the first time around then I think you will have no problem extending the time period beyond those original 10 days. Cheers, Eisho |
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But if you go to 10 days, what's to stop you from decreasing it to 1 week, then 1 day, then 1 hour? It would be madness. MADNESS I SAY(pulls out his hair)!!! Seriously though, I agree as well that it depends on the person and the challenge. If the person has a hard time setting and completing goals, then 10 days might be a good start, and if it goes well, extend it to 30 days. Like I'm about to go back to school in a couple weeks, and instead of always procrastinating, I might do just 2 weeks of no procrastination and see how it goes. It's more of a mental goal, so results should reveal themselves in a shorter period of time. |
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Once I tried the seven-day challenge, by trying to change something for only 7 days, and the funny thing was, on the eigth day, I figured, If I could do 7, one more day won't harm...and the next thing you know, the habit was off for a longer time. Needless to say, my willpower is weak though, the habit did return, but for a longer time period than 7 days even though that was what I had planned. Regards, AH Personal blog: IGNORE INC. |
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30 days? I don't think it is an accident. We have adjusted to a lunar cycle. Why are women's cycles not 10 days? Personally I think 30 is important, because you should experience enough challenges to know whether you can continue it or not. Your initial post contains the single strongest reason I can find against 10 days: "Plus, friends and family would probably make more allowances for just a 10 day challenge." Allowances? They don't need to make allowances, they need to have acceptance. This isn't for "fun", it's a serious change! :-) As you say, 10 days people can "put up with" your changes... it's not a realistic experiment. 30 days, if people feel strongly about it, they won't put up with it that long. |
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I just like the psychological occurrence of one month -- actually 28 days. Maybe because it coincides with the moon & menses, maybe because my very first month long trial was doing Richard Hittleman's 28 days of yoga when I was a little kid. I like measuring and celebrating my triumphs each week on the same weekday. It's easier to remember. 28 days feels great because I can easily see the light at the end of the tunnel, but it's enough days to "set" an intention like Jello. I can look forward to the end, and it's enough to feel results in a real way. |
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