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| My 30 days challenge: For next 30 days (19 July 8, Saturday TO 17 August 8, Sunday ) I am going to do following 10 things: 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. 3) Meditation 20 min. at same time and same place. 4) Creative visualization - at least 15 min. daily 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios - minimum 10 min. 6) Write my daily updates in this thread 7) Daily self hypnosis and affirmations. 15 to 20 min. 8) No drinks - tea/coffee 9) Daily improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages(depending upon type of material) of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding everyday. From tomorrow 19 July, I don't know how to fail. Burning the back bridge: If I fail in doing any of the above things I will shave my head.
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 Last edited by shivraj; 07-19-2008 at 11:57 AM. |
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Good luck! I wouldn't recommend shaving your head if you fail, you've set the bar pretty high. I'd shave a friends head if you accomplish all your goals! :P
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How do you define failing? If one day you only leave your bed at 6 am does that mean the whole experiment has failed?
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| yes, that would be failure of my 30 days challenge. I don't want to make any excuses.
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 |
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| Day 1:19 July 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE Today I woke up exactly at 5:00 am. 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym.DONE Running : 1 km. Yoga: yogasane and pranayama. Gym : 45 Min. 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE Listened to Adelaide Bry - Directing the Movies of Your Mind. 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE Listen to Dr. Phil McGraw - Getting Real - disc 1. 6) Write my daily updates in this threadDONE Writting now. 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE My affirmation of today: With God everything is possible. Infinite intelligence leads me to success in my aim. 8) No drinks - tea/coffeeDONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speechDONE English Tenses study. 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages(depending upon type of material) of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding everyday.DONE read 53 pages of Illustrated C Sharp 2008 Wrote approximately 100 lines of code.
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 Last edited by shivraj; 07-19-2008 at 07:25 PM. |
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| Day 2:20 July 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE Today I woke up exactly at 5:00 am. 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. DONE Running : 1.2 km. Yoga: yogasane and pranayama. Gym : Sunday closed. 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE 6) Write my daily updates in this thread DONE 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE 8) No drinks - tea/coffee DONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech DONE 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages(depending upon type of material) of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding everyday. DONE
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| Day 3:21 July 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. DONE Running : 1.4 km. yes Progress: 0.2 Km Yoga: yes Yama: Ahimsa(Non Violance): Not hurt anybody (including me) with my thoughts or action. Satya(truthfulness): Not lied anything. Asteya( non-stealing): yes. Brahmacharya(celibacy): No, Got some nasty thoughts Aparigraha(No greed): Yes. Niyama: Shaucha( purification of body and mind): a little Santosha(contentment.): NO. Tapas(austerity):yeah, whole day! Svadhyaya(Study): yes. Ishvarapranidhana(surrender to God): Yes ! Asana: 10 Asanas. Pranayam: 5 pranayamas Pratyahara: Trying to control outgoing tendencies of the mind .. but not much success. Dharana(concentration): With daily activities and meditaion .. Yes. Dhyana(Meditation): Yes. 20 min. Samadhi: No Clue. Gym : yes 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE 6) Write my daily updates in this thread DONE 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE 8) No drinks - tea/coffee DONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech DONE 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding. DONE
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 Last edited by shivraj; 07-21-2008 at 08:24 PM. |
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| Day 4:22 July Old tendencies are trying to bounce back but I am going to follow just 2 strategies: (1) One foot in front of the other. One thing at a time. One thought at a time. Living one moment at a time. (2) Visualization.. It is miraculous ! 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. DONE Running : 1.6 km. yes Progress: 0.2 Km ![]() Yoga: yes Yama: Ahimsa(Non Violance): YES. Satya(truthfulness): Not lied anything. Asteya( non-stealing): yes. Brahmacharya(celibacy): YES Aparigraha(No greed): YES Niyama: Shaucha( purification of body and mind): YES Santosha(contentment.): NO. Tapas(austerity): YES Svadhyaya(Study): YES Ishvarapranidhana(surrender to God): YES Asana: 11 Asanas. Progress: 1 asana Pranayam: 6 pranayamas Progress: 1 Pranayama Pratyahara: YES Dharana(concentration): YES Dhyana(Meditation): YES 20 MIN. Samadhi: NO Gym : yes Push ups: 50 Sit ups: 20 Leg Press: 12X3 Chest Press: 10X3 Shoulder Press: 6X3 Dumbbells: 5kg 3X20 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE It creates Miracles for sure ! 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE 6) Write my daily updates in this thread DONE 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE 8) No drinks - tea/coffee DONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech DONE 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding. DONE
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 Last edited by shivraj; 07-22-2008 at 07:44 PM. |
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| Day 5:23 July 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. DONE Running : 1.8 km. yes Progress: 0.2 Km Yoga: yes Gym : yes 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE 6) Write my daily updates in this thread DONE 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE 8) No drinks - tea/coffee DONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech DONE 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding. DONE
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 Last edited by shivraj; 07-23-2008 at 08:08 PM. |
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| Day 6:24 July 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. DONE Running : 2.0 km. yes Progress: 0.2 Km Yoga: yes Gym : yes 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE 6) Write my daily updates in this thread DONE 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE 8) No drinks - tea/coffee DONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech DONE 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding. DONE
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| Day 7:25 July 1) Wake up at 5:00 am. DONE 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. DONE Running : 2.0 km. yes Yoga: yes Gym : yes 3) Meditation DONE 7:00 to 7:20 am 4) Creative visualization DONE 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios DONE 6) Write my daily updates in this thread DONE 7) self hypnosis and affirmations. DONE 8) No drinks - tea/coffee DONE 9) Improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech DONE 10) Daily read 50 to 250 pages of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding. DONE
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It is not possible for me to update this thread as my ISP decided to terminate my account for some unknown reasons. See you guys. I will continue this 30 days challenge and I will definitely succeed in that.
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I am back again.. There was some misunderstanding with my ISP..
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I shaved my head finally.. I am going to restart my challenge from tomorrow but slight difference. 8 August 2008 to 8 September 2008 Main Strategy is: The brain learns either through habituation or through massive action. 1) Wake up at 4:00 am. 2) Daily Running, Yoga and Gym. 3) Meditation 30 min. at same time and same place. 4) Creative visualization - at least 20 min. daily 5) Daily reading of self help books/ listen audios - minimum 10 min. 6) Daily self hypnosis and affirmations. 15 to 20 min. 7) No drinks - tea/coffee. 8) Daily improve my English - vocabulary, grammar, accent, speech 9) Daily read 50 to 250 pages(depending upon type of material) of study book and do at least 100 to 125 lines of coding everyday. 10) Get mastery on following qualities: 1> Willpower : Test resistence to temptations and physical / Mental pain. 2> Imagination : Imagine end result before start of work. 3> Persistence : Persist till total completion of work. 4> Concentration and Awareness : Live in Present , 200% focus on work at hand. 5> Fearlessness : List my fears and overcome them with understanding and courage day by day.
__________________ Pulsating burning desire + Unshakable Faith + Indomitable spirit + Imagination + Persistence + Creativity, new ideas and Innovation = #1 Last edited by shivraj; 08-07-2008 at 02:08 PM. |
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| Day 0. Olympic of 31 days (8/8/8 to 8/9/8) .. Making System.. I am going to make system of winning for next 30 days based upon my failures and successes so far... Here is my system : Main Idea behind this experiment: The brain learns either through habituation or through massive action. Main strategy: One foot in front of the other. One thing at a time. One thought at a time. Living one moment at a time. Miraculous Mantra: If I can make it a minute, I can make it an hour If I can make in an hour, I can make it a day If I can make it a day, I can make it a week If I can make it a week, I can make it a month If I can make it month, I can make it forever My Motto: Higher, Faster, Stronger day by day in everything.. My daily ritual: At the end of day write diary and burn small piece paper written on it "My Old Self". For saving time do following things: No TV, No unnecessary Internet, No online chatting up to 8/9/8 . • During lower energy levels do following: 1. No matter what avoid negative thinking 2. Affirmations 3. Visualization 4. Read loudly purpose of life and values 5. Remember Ideals and Role Models 6. Praying ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I am God's Property my success is ASSURED.
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I failed because I missed running, yoga, gym for 4 consecutive days.
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Yeah I don't quite understand... It sounds like you set a gigantic list of goals with no flexibility, did rather well for a while (doing those ten things for a week is quite impressive, IMHO) then you're starting all over again with an even harder version. Why so aggressive?
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I was totally inspired that you managed to keep it up for a week, shivraj! Since you're attempting this again, would you not consider a less "cut-throat" attitude for attaining your goals? How about 3-5 core goals you should achieve every day, and then looking to tick maybe 50%-75% of remaining subsidiary goals? Be encouraged by progress and success, rather than fear of failure and self-punishment! Surely this staggered approach would be more encouraging, rather than setting yourself up for miliataristic regime?!
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Doing 10 30-day trials at the same time is like trying to juggle 10 balls. Usually you end up dropping all of them. I recommend 3-4 items max... and even then only if they're mutually supportive, such as diet and exercise changes. Better to achieve one new habit and lock it in than end up dropping all of them. Going 30 days with one new habit is a MAJOR accomplishment.
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Try to achieve your goals , but even if you fail,don't do things like shaving your head. | |
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Of course it is possible. I am trying to break my machine nature.. Even if i fail for thousand times I'll not give up.
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Namaste!
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We aren't goverened by our emotions, I suggest you read about subjective reality . Otherwise the more you try ,more you will reinforce that nature and give power to your emotions. | |
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