What is best here, being a lightwork or darkworker and how to become one?

[sanny]

Hi everybody, I'm new to this forum, please can you help me.

My goals in life are to become successful and famous, by becoming a microbologist thus benifiting the world. I want to be noticed for what I do and acheive awards for it.

I also really want (now) to find a loving girlfriend who suits my needs and desires for looks and personaility.

Which path would be best for this?

Another question is, if I chose to be a ligthworker, then when I ask for things do I have to think, "I'm so happy and grateful now that..." and say thank you for it? If I decided to become a darkworker do I start of my thought with,
"I want..." and believe I can have it but not be thankful?

Thanks for the help

[Lauxa]

I don't think to be a lightworker or darkworker that you need to phrase your wants in that way, although they do need to be phrased differently. It is more that for darkworker, your focus should be that you want fame, fortune, recognition, etc. where for lightworker your focus should be that you want to benefit the world. For a darkworker on the gf question, your focus would be that you want someone to love you where for a lightworker your focus would be that you want someone to give your love to. Darkworker = inward focus, lightworker = outward focus.

[sanny]

What should I say then?