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Now you may expect this thread to be one of those threads that detail the personal problems of a member and hope to extract a cure from their peers; but no, I am a happy, healthy individual, with goals and desires like all other positive people. What I mean is that 'Life' has no puropose. (imho) Life is just life. Complex carbon behaviour. No 'other side', no external influences' just atomic interaction and chemical reactions. So whats the point? Where does personal effectiveness matter. Does it matter? Well, yes. Experience is everything. Being effective squeezes more out of our short existence than what the masses generally get. Effectiveness increases good experiences. This I suppose is akin to an Existentialist worldview. ie Nothing matters - 'being' is what is important. Someone once said, without 'god', everything is possible, or words to that effect. What I translate this to be is by throwing off any old yokes we have, we can free ourselves from unnecessary burdens and stretch out our potential and personal effectiveness.(Remember, morality isnt a religious phenomena. In fact I would argue that religion is divisive and a-moral.) Just a thought. Does existentialism broaden your horizons? PS Not too sure here to post this in the sub-forums, so mods feel free to move if you want. |
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Life HAS purpose, but it doesn't have to be big. We're not all destined to become the next Mother Theresa, Michael Jackson, or Hitler. We are here to learn, to experience, to grow. And just by living, you are experiencing new things. It could be that your calling is something more simple and that, since you're already there, you're happy. But many of us feel like something is missing, and for those of us who discovered their purpose but aren't there yet, learning to be effective can work wonders. How can you ever become a great painter/write a book/raise children/start your own business if you never have the time? By becoming better at PE, you can make that time and live life the way you were supposed to |
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My first post here, so hello everybody! I adhere to the existentialist point of view and, though I was bred a Christian, I've been an agnostic for quite a while now. (ever since I reached the age of reason I think that the very concept of "purpose" is a human invention - it is artificial and non-existent outside human societies. It's easy to tell: can you picture a walrus contemplating the purpose of life? The only reason we do and other animals do not, is simply that we're smarter. I believe there is no qualitative difference between humans and animals - the difference is quantitative, meaning there's nothing special about us: our intellects are just more evolved. Another argument in this sense is offered by past experience. Namely, the evolution of humanity from a place of disdainful arrogance (believing the Earth to be the center of the Universe and humans to be the ultimate purpose of Creation itself) to one of enlightened modesty. We now have a vague sense of proportion and we're just coming to realize how utterly insignificant we are in relation to the breadth and complexity of the Universe. Knowing what we know today, I think one has to be rather conceited to still believe that there is some great purpose for each individual human life, when even the importance of the human species, of Earth itself, of our galaxy even, is questionable given the immensity of Space. So I agree with Stephen. We decide our own "purpose" - not to be mistaken for "destiny". We should seek that which makes us feel happy and fulfilled and avoid that which makes us feel sad and empty. To me, that's the bottom line of our species' plain, meandering existence |
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| Actually Stephen this sounds more like a nihilist point of view - i.e. that nothing matters. As for existentialism, people often have the mistaken notion that it's contrary to a belief in God. Not at all. You can be agnostic, atheist or deist and still be an existentialist such as Kant was. We have the freedom of mind to find meaning or lack of it in anything we choose. Life is as meaningful/meaningless as you allow it to be. I prefer to find meaning in it, especially in the beauty of music, art and nature and in man's ability to transcend himself. |
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Personally I think we don't have any real life purpose. So we make up our own. But who said we need a life purpose anyways. I think to experience all the wonderful things life has to offer is enough. There is no need to get all wrapped up in a all concept of a high and mighty life purpose. |
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Hi Mate Yes I am aware of the personally held beliefs of different existentialist thinkers. Søren Kierkegaard was a devout christain and Nietzsche was atheist for example. I agree, not suprisingly, with Radu. Humans are arrogant. Eating sentient animals unnecessarily, fighting over who believes in the 'real' god, stripping the planet as if we were the last generation to populate it, believeing that life has a purpose. So what is the purpose of the head louse? Or is it merely an organism that breeds and survives; enjoying life as it satisfies its blood thirst? Because humans are self aware and capable of calculation and reflection we invent things to make our lives less brutal. Gods.....Jesus, Apollo, Zeus, Flying Spaghetti Monster. Death....Reincarnation, After Life, Ghosts, Heaven, Hell. It goes on and on. It really appears to me, we will delude ourselves as much as large bird will stick its head in the sand. Hugo said..."The soul does not give up to despair until it has exhausted all illusions" How true. Marx said...."Die Religion ... ist das Opium des Volkes" translated as "Religion is the opiate of the people" We are deluding ourselves. Life has no purpose other than being. Therefore, isnt it more productive to embrace the reality of life and not waste our time; such little time, on such matters that only fool us? Its not nihilism; its not hedonism, its pragmatism. | |
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Sounds a crapload like eastern philosophy, you know Buddhisme and the like. Or Eckhart Tolle if you prefer or perhaps Alan Watts if you like that guy more. Personally I prefer Alan Watts. | |
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I am an eclectic I must say. I am a fusion of all thinking, theories and beliefs surrounding me. Although I respect other people's view of life, soul and spirit, but extentialism for me is quite pessimistic. I'd like to think that life is always with a purpose, it is here not merely for personal or material self-gratification. Anyway, just my two cents! |
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Have a look at my Philosophy and Personal Development where I quote William Ralph Inge who said: "The object of studying philosophy is to know ones own mind, not other people's". The beauty of it is that we can each think and believe what we want and we can decide what has meaning for us. Quote:
Just because you don't know what the purpose of life is, it doesn't meant there isn't one. It's possible that our human minds are limited in their capability to grasp existence beyond our self-centered arrogance. | ||
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Is this a question or a statement? Of course its my view! The natural order of things doesnt come in to play when humans are involved. thats why we have laws. Its natural for males to inseminate females with sperm. However there are laws to protect the vulnerable in society so that your granny isnt humped on the way home from the bingo. And so, my point about eating sentient creatures. It might be natural to eat, but is it right? There are other choices that avoid killing, farming, skinning, wearing animals that respects their right to life. Is factory farming natural? Conscious vegetables? Hardly. They have no central nervous system, they are evolved in such a manner that they can be consumed and deposited as their seeds in dung to populate again. They are not the type of thing that is conscious or ever could be. Straw man; nice try. | |
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Does a blade of grass wonder what its purpose is? Does a bird wake up, concerned or depressed that it is off-track, without no purpose or meaning in its life? No (as far as we know :O)), they just are. The difference being is that we have the 'gift' of being conscious of our consciousness - we cannot know what it means to be 'connected' unless we have experienced what it is to be 'disconnected'. We cannot know light, unless we knew dark etc etc Our primary purpose may be to come to be the truth in this lifetime. Discovering such truth does not end the debate. We are still human (otherwise we would not have form, so it is also just as true that we have this limitation to deal with) and we are coming to terms too, with what that means. There is a universal truth within us, a life-force that is one, yet we are all so unique in our human-ness Can we align the two in balance, and in harmony? Louise |
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IMO, the only broad purpose to life, that applies to everything living, is to evolve. Our individual purpose is something we choose ourselves (wether we consciously choose it our not). Although I do try not to think about these things too indepth, because it tends to be quite mind-boggling as you go further down the track, and then I can't sleep for worrying about the sheer miracle of existence. Which usually leads to me wondering if we do exist at all, or if we're just an illusion. Makes my head hurt just thinking about it really.
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The Universe is infinitely big. We are infinitely small. As such, there is no reason to believe that we have any Grand Purpose, because we cannot possibly affect anything on the grand scale of the Universe. We have all of the basic functions and needs of other species of animals. (ie. breathing, eating, homeostasis, sex etc.) We differ from other animals in that we are more intelligent and we are capable of reason. We were not always so - we just evolved and became gradually smarter. This is why I believe we would have to be arrogant to assume that us humans have some Grand Purpose to fulfill. However, do not confuse the idea of a Grand Purpose (such as being an instrument in some divine plan or some other nonsense) with that of a purpose that we set for ourselves. Neither I nor Stephen (if I understand him correctly) are denying the latter. For myself, I'm just saying that we're not meant to do anything. That there is no grand scheme of things in which we are to play a certain part. That no god created us for any specific reason. Rather, by our actions, we ourselves create a reason, a purpose for our existence. Of course, I have nothing against anyone believing that they're a part of some divine plan. It may even be true -- we may all be a part of some divine plan. But that this should actually be true - is extremely unlikely. |
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I donīt believe that we as humans have a grand purpose to fulfill, written down somewhere. But to have your own personal purpose defined for yourself Iīve found very valuable. Defining oneīs purpose in life (that individual one) is not a point itself, but itīs helpful to have when you go further into giving your life a direction! Itīs all about defining that dream, that vision and goals for our life. But what lies behind the dream/vision? Why is it your dream/vision? Dreams, visions and goals (your WHAT) should come from your true purpose in life - your WHY. Without your purpose identified firmly in your mind, you will easily wander through life, never quite feeling that you're "in the flow". We all have a unique purpose; that unique set of talents, skills, passions and interests that seem to naturally unfold, simply because they are in resonance with something within us. So how do you discover your unique purpose? One of the first things to determine is what you value the most. Your values represent what is important to you and they indicate what you express on an emotional, mental and spiritual level. When you become aware of your values and find a way to express them through your life, you will feel aligned with your inner driving force. And, for those afraid of anything permanently defined - you are free to change your purpose as you wish |
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