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07-21-2007, 11:24 PM
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 I need some help from you guys... I want to break up with my girlfriend, who I've been going on and off with for way too long now. I would like some help getting the courage built up to do it... Can anyone help me out? ~ David
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07-21-2007, 11:45 PM
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 There's no easy way to do that, even if you tell here in a letter and move to Mars, you'll still feel her wrath  Just be honest and do it as quickly and easy as possible, make it your fault, but be careful, women are super smart and can spot a snow job a hundred feet away From a consciousness POV, it's just you not requiring the experience that relationship showed you, is just not important anymore, you don't need it and now you seek a new experience. Consciousness spends the entire game searching for and enjoying different versions of itself to see all the possibilities of itself. Just don't tell her I said that, apparently it's really cold on Mars Max |
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07-22-2007, 12:10 AM
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| XeutonMojukai! All is fair in love and war... So my advice to you is to tell her that she's just too good for you... that you feel stifled in front of her... and that you can't bear to hold her back any more... that she has a great future... and that she can do way better than you... Man, you'll come out smelling like a rose and free as a bird... Good luck to you... PS... If lying bothers you... just remember that ol' George Bush does it all the time... . |
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07-22-2007, 12:19 AM
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| Thanks for the advice. I have a good idea what *NOT* to do now!  Seriously, that's certainly helped me feel better about what should be no big deal. ~ David
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07-22-2007, 04:34 AM
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 Honesty Rules David, I know exactly what you mean. My suggestion is just plain ole honesty. Think about this for a second. What are the challenges and differences that are negatively affecting your relationship? Go to a coffee shop or somewhere else and think about it. What's the major differences between your relationship now and in the past when you two were happily loving one another? Think about everything, get all of your ducks in a row and present your findings to her in a very pleasant, friendly and compassionate manner. Be honest and share your heart with her and I believe you will receive the breakthrough you seek...Freedom. Good luck.
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07-22-2007, 04:52 AM
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07-22-2007, 05:34 AM
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| Luckily, it went over smoothly. I found that it wasn't too hard. We're still friends too. As in, we're talking right now at 10:30 at night about Planet Earth friends. ~ David
__________________ My Website is a simple idea: Every time I learn a life lesson, Every time I see a vision of positive possibility and love for the world, Every time I get a radical idea for something special, I will put it up here. Enjoy! P.S.: Please click the ads just a bit... |
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07-22-2007, 06:48 AM
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| I agree with Mpowered... Just be honest and truthful... it'll benefit you in the long run...
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