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[bluesharpist101]

So recently i have set the intention on manifesting women to be attracted to me, and that worked, but then as soon as knew they liked me, i kept thinking, "they probably aren't going to like me anymore" and basically, that pretty much messed up 2 girls in the last month who i would have dated. So how do i stop this?

[theknightwhosaysni-NI]

Originally Posted by bluesharpist101

So recently i have set the intention on manifesting women to be attracted to me, and that worked, but then as soon as knew they liked me, i kept thinking, "they probably aren't going to like me anymore" and basically, that pretty much messed up 2 girls in the last month who i would have dated. So how do i stop this?

It seems that counsciously or uncousnciously, you are resisting your desired manifestation.

Reading this article might help you :
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...ut-resistance/

"They probably aren't going to like me anymore" is obviously a limiting belief. Replacing it with a more empowering belief would be of a great effect for your goal. Find something that you love about you, become more confident in your ability to make women have a good time and be happy with you. Then you can replace your limiting belief with something better like "Maybe I not perfect, but I know I am a good guy and I can definitely make a girl feel good inside".

I had problems with girls too a little time ago. My problem was that i was ashamed to show I needed affection. This might not be the same problem as you but I know it is a problem many guys have so here's the link to the thread I started in this forum :
how to not be ashamed of needing someone?

I had some good advices in this thread. Since then, I have largely overcome my problem. I am now able to meet girls pretty easily and I have a girlfriend I like since 2 months.

[John Wesley]

This is an example of the old relationship paradox. People are always more interested in you when you aren't interested in them. As soon as you change your mind and become interested, they become repulsed.

[Interpreneur]

I went through that for many years. I was grossly obese and have always had a minor speech impediment (I talk way too fast), and every time I would meet someone I liked and who seemed to like me back, my own insecurities kept creeping in.

On new year's eve 1999 I went to a party at a friend's house and met a girl and we hit it off, to the point where I took her home that night. She was the most beautiful (read: HOT) woman I had ever gotten close to, and as we were making out in my apartment and her clothes kept coming off, I remember thinking "I don't deserve her"...."she must be drunk"...."she must have some creepy VD"....etc.

Everything turned out great that night, and for a couple of weeks after that, but my negative attitude towards the future eventually ruined the relationship. There she was. The perfect girl (at least in my eyes and by my standards at the time) and all I kept thinking about was the moment when she would cheat on me or dump me.

She hated that I was so insecure and constantly told me, but I couldn't change, and that is what did me in.

Later in life I learned that women melt over a secure man. If you're insecure, they sense that immediately and you will get nowhere. So even if you're not perfect (who is?), when you are with a woman, pretend that you are the most handsome, richest, and smartest man in the world with the biggest manhood in the world. If you believe it, she'll believe it too....at least for a little while!