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Richful, how do you deal with others in your life that you can not control but have a negative effect on you. Example my adult son. Still living at home. Age 26 years. He has a very negative attitude. When ever he is around I find myself becoming very anxious. My desire is to see him mature, find good employment and move on with his life. He has had frequent outbursts that have caused me to develope a fear of him. I have no idea how to deal with this on a intentional level. How do I change my vibration toward my feeling about him?
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I think we are saying the same thing in our own way. Last edited by eternomi; 11-16-2006 at 11:35 PM. | ||
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I think that we allow others to have an effect on our emotions, we give them control. Look at your motivation for your son maturing finding work and leaving. Could it be so he's not bringing negativity into your life? That's the feeling I'm getting, but you would know the true answer. I know from personal experience that parents expectations or desires for your own life are not likely to be alligned with your own, which causes friction. If his outbursts are serious then I would suggest seeking help locally, counseling or social service. If you really can't live with him then you could always ask him to leave, it's your home. I get the feeling from your post that he's not happy and could use a helping hand, changing negative patterns can be hard. Help where you can, but stay safe. To deal with it intentionally, what do you believe is wrong? Belief is the foundation for intention. Change your beliefs about your son and it will change your feelings. Most importantly though, look at why you want to change the situation. It's not a happy home, which makes for an unhappy elizalex. Is this the only place your not happy? Your beliefs about your son are important, but they'll be based on deeper ones, like your beliefs about men, beliefs about yourself and what you expect from life. Big task. Very worth the effort though. I guess I don't see intentions as a quick fix, we'll never be happy till we're expressing yourselves truly, not running beliefs we picked up along the way. Good luck Anyone else got a suggestion? | |
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| This is interesting. I often will attain my goals by avoiding pack mentality, especially with grades. I have a group project coming up in school and we are being encouraged to be as creative as possible. I will not be creative, but present the material in a forth right manner with all the technical information accurate. I can't receive a bad grade for lack of creativity, but everyone else's focus on creativity will put a smaller focus on their technical accuracy and may lead to inaccuracies or muddled explanation. I will look more knowledgeable by comparison even though I'm not necessarily smarter, I just had a different approach.
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