LoA and staring at attractive women

[quiethumir]

I read some attraction book and it said that you shouldn't look at attractive women in a lustful kind of way since this will reinforce lack and you wouldn't be able to attract women.

Do you guys agree with this?

[newkaren]

Originally Posted by quiethumir

I read some attraction book and it said that you shouldn't look at attractive women in a lustful kind of way since this will reinforce lack and you wouldn't be able to attract women.

Do you guys agree with this?

I think it depends on your mindset. If looking at attractive woman reinforces lack, then don't do it.

BUT with the right mindset, I don't see where it would be much difference than a vision board.

[Balbrae]

Originally Posted by quiethumir

I read some attraction book and it said that you shouldn't look at attractive women in a lustful kind of way since this will reinforce lack and you wouldn't be able to attract women.

Do you guys agree with this?

I agree with NewKaren. Men and women should stop apologizing for communicating what they want. Look at what you want. Otherwise, not looking is tantamount to shying away.

[SlicK]

As long as you love them, you can look at them any way you want to.

[Suzanne Yang]

I think it is ok to look at an attractive woman. I feel very good when people look at me in a nice way. There were several times I felt that I wanted to talk to the people looked at me. Definitely one time I regreted that we didn't have chance and time to talk to each other. These looks made me feel that I am very attractive and feel good. These looks didn't make me think these men are less attractive.

However, there were times people looked at me with lustful look which made me really uncomfortable which definitely made these people really unattractive to me.

[quiethumir]

Originally Posted by Suzanne Yang

I think it is ok to look at an attractive woman. I feel very good when people look at me in a nice way. There were several times I felt that I wanted to talk to the people looked at me. Definitely one time I regreted that we didn't have chance and time to talk to each other. These looks made me feel that I am very attractive and feel good. These looks didn't make me think these men are less attractive.

However, there were times people looked at me with lustful look which made me really uncomfortable which definitely made these people really unattractive to me.

Thanks for sharing Suzanne

[JagJ]

And it is a real turn off. Most women do not want to be looked at in a lustful way. Not a LoA thing, just common sense.

[crazysoul]

Originally Posted by JagJ

And it is a real turn off. Most women do not want to be looked at in a lustful way. Not a LoA thing, just common sense.

I can only confirm that, no woman likes it, in fact I get really annoyed

[Bonadea]

Everything in balance.... woman want to know they are desired, but not to the point we think you'd lock us in a basement somewhere.

There's, hey I'm into you and there's you mean nothing to me but sex.