I want my boyfriend back.

[Blore]

Hello everyone. I know this sounds silly but, I just really want my boyfriend back.

I actually got him using the Law of Attraction. I didn't know it at the time though. I spent a lot of time daydreaming my perfect man, and qualities he would have. Then one day my cousin tells me to add this guy on MSN, and the longer I got to know him, he actually hit every single quality I daydreamed of.

Our relationship was not simple though, we both have issues. But there is a part of me that just 'knows', I guess, that he's the one.

We recently broke up. We got into a fight, and I had been feeling insecure lately, and he was in a bad mood, and he ended up telling me that it was over, and that he loved me a lot to end it. I know he loves me, a few days ago we were talking about how we were meant to be. But he has moods where he gets cold, and I get insecure, and it just crashed.

I told him i'd email him when I wanted to be friends again. I also said that if he wanted me back, he could email me. But not do it unless it was for that. I know he has pride issues though, and hates feeling weak.

He was my best friend and lover, and I just feel so incomplete without him. I can't talk to him about it, because he'll stick to because of pride reasons, or because he feels it's best even if it's not what he wants.

I know you can't manipulate, or control other people. But is there any chance this could help me get him back?

Thank you for any thoughts and Advice.

[IvyW]

you used law of attraction to get him.. you used law of attraction to lose him.. now use law of attraction to get him back.

[wstein]

Use LoA again. This time add elements to have it continue and be as good for him as you.

[Ishh]

Hello,
I feel you can ask for help from your and his Guardian Angel.... If both of your happiness lies in being together then both of your Angels will be very happy to help you.... I am myself new to it... So I will jus direct to you a thread called the gentle way of asking Most Benevolent Outcomes.... In psychic and Paranormal category..... Hope that helps.... I am still researching about how to exactly do it so in case you get some insights please do share....
Hugs....

[Ishh]

Hello...
I found this site informative... For asking help from other's guardian angel...ShiningLite - Working with Your Guardian Angels
Hope that helps....

[Balbrae]

Originally Posted by Blore

Hello everyone. I know this sounds silly but, I just really want my boyfriend back.

I actually got him using the Law of Attraction. I didn't know it at the time though. I spent a lot of time daydreaming my perfect man, and qualities he would have. Then one day my cousin tells me to add this guy on MSN, and the longer I got to know him, he actually hit every single quality I daydreamed of.

Our relationship was not simple though, we both have issues. But there is a part of me that just 'knows', I guess, that he's the one.

We recently broke up. We got into a fight, and I had been feeling insecure lately, and he was in a bad mood, and he ended up telling me that it was over, and that he loved me a lot to end it. I know he loves me, a few days ago we were talking about how we were meant to be. But he has moods where he gets cold, and I get insecure, and it just crashed.

I told him i'd email him when I wanted to be friends again. I also said that if he wanted me back, he could email me. But not do it unless it was for that. I know he has pride issues though, and hates feeling weak.

He was my best friend and lover, and I just feel so incomplete without him. I can't talk to him about it, because he'll stick to because of pride reasons, or because he feels it's best even if it's not what he wants.

I know you can't manipulate, or control other people. But is there any chance this could help me get him back?

Thank you for any thoughts and Advice.

Hi, Blore. What would you rather have? Your old boyfriend back or someone provided by the Universe that truly meets your needs? Now before you judge the meaning of my question, consider that "someone provided by the Universe" might mean getting your old boyfriend back--it just depends on what the Universe arranges. Here's the point, made very well by Mike Dooley in his wonderful audio book, Manifesting Change It Couldn't Be Easier: Manifesting abundance in love requires that you state your general intention (e.g., I want to be loved by someone of the following qualities...."), without getting bogged down in the "cursed hows." In this respect, Mike points out that, while we may know only 100 or so people in our lives, the Universe knows 6 billion people! So when we limit the field of potential mates to those we know (100 or so people)--or worse yet to a single person who we really want--we are blocking the Universe in what it can bring to us.

So my hunch would be that you should visualize for your intentional manifestation the ideal mate, back to your list that you created, and leave it at that. Don't insist that he be the very same person as your old boyfriend. Now, it may be that the Universe brings your old boyfriend back to you, under the LoA, and it may be that someone new enters your life. Best of luck, either way!