Be careful what you wish for

[Riverstone]

A few months ago, a friend of mine at work was not happy working with a particular person and was constantly moaning and getting angry and complaining to a lot of people. He went around excluding a lot of negative energy about how he didnt want to work with this person.
He then decided to get on with it, with with the occaisional moan, but mostly got on and starting feeling fine with the situation.

Then came yesterday, our manager decided to change a few people around, he thought it would benefit a few people in their work and deal with people complaining about who they were working with (not just my friend).

My friend decided he wasnt happy with this, he just got upset because he was actually liking where he was and felt he was being moved because of someone else not getting on with another person (technically true as the reason for the big change around). He is now going around giving off more of this negative energy. Complaining again.

I asked he if he was at least happy to be away from the person he didnt like and his reply was "I like that person, I like where I'm working".

He got what he wanted, it was later and longer what he wanted, or at least not in the way he wanted it, but he did get it.

[loapatti]

Originally Posted by Riverstone

A few months ago, a friend of mine at work was not happy working with a particular person and was constantly moaning and getting angry and complaining to a lot of people. He went around excluding a lot of negative energy about how he didnt want to work with this person.
He then decided to get on with it, with with the occaisional moan, but mostly got on and starting feeling fine with the situation.

Then came yesterday, our manager decided to change a few people around, he thought it would benefit a few people in their work and deal with people complaining about who they were working with (not just my friend).

My friend decided he wasnt happy with this, he just got upset because he was actually liking where he was and felt he was being moved because of someone else not getting on with another person (technically true as the reason for the big change around). He is now going around giving off more of this negative energy. Complaining again.

I asked he if he was at least happy to be away from the person he didnt like and his reply was "I like that person, I like where I'm working".

He got what he wanted, it was later and longer what he wanted, or at least not in the way he wanted it, but he did get it.

This is so true! I have complained about relatives and friends being a drain on me and my resources and when they're out of my life, wish how much I could have them back! I'm shocked how much I miss them even though my goal was to remove them from my life.
Some of passed on and there is no getting them back.

ok, now I'm sad