Im stuck, someone point me in the right direction

[TheLovelyBang]

Ive been studying LOA/Intention manifestation for about three years, and actually practicing it for the past two.

A lot of things I have read tell me (And other people) that to manifest something , you must affirm it, and let it go.


This, however, has not been the case with me, and lately ive been a bit confused about certain processes.

In the past ive always had to..think and visualize, and make physical changes for things to come my way. For example, Ive lost 32 pounds in the last 6 months. I visualize everyday, I feel what its like to be at my goal weight, and I watch what I eat. No dieting, no real exercise. But ive lost the pounds.

That has always worked. Now Im going through something that has to do with love, and a specific person. Ive gotten to the point where I have brought this person to me, doing the things that I always do. But at the moment I feel stuck He's in my life, but I feel as if I cannot manifest things at a faster pace. IT seems to be taking forever...and Im beginning to obsess. Which I know is a bad thing.


MY question is: Should I brush up [and become more focused on] my usually routine, or should I send a signal out to the universe and forget about it?


Both methods have worked for me, but ive had more luck when I am consistent.

Any advice is appreciated.

[Self Exploration]

Your attraction is in fact a doorway, the key to a hidden part of yourself that needs illumination. You are on your way.

There are fears to be identified and explored too. There are other sides of you manifesting that have been disowned.

They need to be acknowledged and integrated.

[TheLovelyBang]

I ask for advice and no one can help me. Sounds like my life.

[newkaren]

Well, what is the reason for the hold up with the woman? Maybe she is not ready and needs more time. My advice is to go with the flow, relax, take your time.

Who was it who talked about I/M a relationship wth a specific person. In a way its forcing yourself on someone. Im sure you dont want to do that.

[TheLovelyBang]

Wow. Im not talking about sex. Im not even in a committed relationship wit the guy.

I made a mistake on my first post, I used "She" Instead of "he". I think that led you to beleive I was a man, instead of a woman. [Though, I dont see why that matters.]That makes your reply both unhelpful, and sexist.

[Solipsist]

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[Solipsist]

Originally Posted by TheLovelyBang

I ask for advice and no one can help me. Sounds like my life.

Not that I'm an expert on LoA, but I doubt that such negativity is entirely helpful.

When in doubt, be grateful. That's my motto.

[TheLovelyBang]

I think it was unhelpful, and also sexist. You actually assumed I was talking about sex, then, gave me advice from a "woman's perspective", and that led me to believe you thought I wasnt a woman. Which led me to believe you assumed that, since I was a man, that I was forcing myself on a woman.

I feel as if so many people in this section lie.

You spew all of this happy-go-luck-the-universe-loves-you BS, and then when a person calls you out on your posts you want to call them negative, and say they have too much negative energy.


Well guess what? Sometimes you'll have negative energy too. No one is perfect, and the last time I checked, there is as much negative energy as there is positive. You cant escape either one, no matter how much you belittle, and insult others.

I thank myself that I needed up helping myself instead of waiting for a reply from a bunch of people chasing a dream.


Seems as if someone deleted the post that I was replying to. If you dont know where this came from, please overlook it.

[loapatti]

Originally Posted by TheLovelyBang

Ive been studying LOA/Intention manifestation for about three years, and actually practicing it for the past two.

A lot of things I have read tell me (And other people) that to manifest something , you must affirm it, and let it go.


This, however, has not been the case with me, and lately ive been a bit confused about certain processes.

In the past ive always had to..think and visualize, and make physical changes for things to come my way. For example, Ive lost 32 pounds in the last 6 months. I visualize everyday, I feel what its like to be at my goal weight, and I watch what I eat. No dieting, no real exercise. But ive lost the pounds.

That has always worked. Now Im going through something that has to do with love, and a specific person. Ive gotten to the point where I have brought this person to me, doing the things that I always do. But at the moment I feel stuck He's in my life, but I feel as if I cannot manifest things at a faster pace. IT seems to be taking forever...and Im beginning to obsess. Which I know is a bad thing.


MY question is: Should I brush up [and become more focused on] my usually routine, or should I send a signal out to the universe and forget about it?


Both methods have worked for me, but ive had more luck when I am consistent.

Any advice is appreciated.

Congrats on the weight loss, that is terrific you were able to lose that much in 6 months. As for the guy you would like to attract, I take it you mean you would like to know how to move the relationship forward? Are you dating and involved or is this something you're trying to get off the gound? If it's the latter, I would send it out to the universe and see if he gets the message and asks you out and wants to pursue something. But I'm old school like that. I have never had a relationship work out when I pursued it. Oh they are interested and will date but they aren't not motivated to do much after that. They turn out to be short lived relationships or I'm the one that always has to initiate things. Not my thing.

[TheLovelyBang]

Originally Posted by loapatti

Congrats on the weight loss, that is terrific you were able to lose that much in 6 months. As for the guy you would like to attract, I take it you mean you would like to know how to move the relationship forward? Are you dating and involved or is this something you're trying to get off the gound? If it's the latter, I would send it out to the universe and see if he gets the message and asks you out and wants to pursue something. But I'm old school like that. I have never had a relationship work out when I pursued it. Oh they are interested and will date but they aren't not motivated to do much after that. They turn out to be short lived relationships or I'm the one that always has to initiate things. Not my thing.

Thanks.
We are both interested, and dating, so I think Its already off the ground. We talked about dating awhile back , but he lived in a different state. I sent a (Brief) message to the universe, and a couple months later he's an hour away from me.[Literally] When I say I brought him to me, thats what I meant. We arent committed, and I understand why because we havent been dating long. I just want to make sure I send the right signals (TO him and the universe) about what I want. Its not necessarily the commitment that im pushing, Ive just felt as If something was in the way, or something is out of place. I frequently feel as if he doesnt make me feel the way I want to feel. I know you're supposed to teach people how to treat you, but I never though I would have to write a book on it, then send it to him in the mail.

A part of me doest want to ask him to do certain things, the opther part of me is saying I should tell him exactly what I want.

I think im taking the whole "treat others as you want to be treated" and extremely applying it to my situation.

I'd hate to ask something of him, because I myself would probably get offended if a man [thats not a boyfriend or husband] asked me to do things a certain way.

'if you wanted more info I think I gave everything above

[TuningIn]

Originally Posted by TheLovelyBang

I think it was unhelpful, and also sexist. You actually assumed I was talking about sex, then, gave me advice from a "woman's perspective", and that led me to believe you thought I wasnt a woman. Which led me to believe you assumed that, since I was a man, that I was forcing myself on a woman.

I feel as if so many people in this section lie.

You spew all of this happy-go-luck-the-universe-loves-you BS, and then when a person calls you out on your posts you want to call them negative, and say they have too much negative energy.


Well guess what? Sometimes you'll have negative energy too. No one is perfect, and the last time I checked, there is as much negative energy as there is positive. You cant escape either one, no matter how much you belittle, and insult others.

I thank myself that I needed up helping myself instead of waiting for a reply from a bunch of people chasing a dream.

Hi. I agree. Everyone and their duplicity. I find most people never answer the question asked, but skirt around it.

You have manifested something, and it scares you that you are so mezmerized by what was given. View it as you said a prayer that got answered. Nothing more. Enjoy, and realize it found you, and not the other way around. You saw it coming, and you didn't move.

[loapatti]

Originally Posted by TheLovelyBang

Thanks.
We are both interested, and dating, so I think Its already off the ground. We talked about dating awhile back , but he lived in a different state. I sent a (Brief) message to the universe, and a couple months later he's an hour away from me.[Literally] When I say I brought him to me, thats what I meant. We arent committed, and I understand why because we havent been dating long. I just want to make sure I send the right signals (TO him and the universe) about what I want. Its not necessarily the commitment that im pushing, Ive just felt as If something was in the way, or something is out of place. I frequently feel as if he doesnt make me feel the way I want to feel. I know you're supposed to teach people how to treat you, but I never though I would have to write a book on it, then send it to him in the mail.

A part of me doest want to ask him to do certain things, the opther part of me is saying I should tell him exactly what I want.

I think im taking the whole "treat others as you want to be treated" and extremely applying it to my situation.

I'd hate to ask something of him, because I myself would probably get offended if a man [thats not a boyfriend or husband] asked me to do things a certain way.

'if you wanted more info I think I gave everything above

Well, have you visualized exactly how you would like him and the relationship to be? How about writing down what you would like to ask him but don't feel right doing it right now. There is always the age old wisdom of going with the flow...I don't think it works out the same to treat others as you want to be treated in a romantic relationship though, men and women have different agendas. Although, I am a firm believer of keeping your boundaries in the beginning and paying attention to any red flags that come up.

[moonrambler]

Originally Posted by TheLovelyBang

Seems as if someone deleted the post that I was replying to. If you dont know where this came from, please overlook it.

Just wanted to mention that the person who made that post you responded to deleted it.