Want to speed up the manifestation of your desires?

[karn]

Hey everyone,

I have been researching ways to speed up the manifestation of ones hearts desires in life and I keep coming across articles about gratitude. It seems like expressing gratitude can release resistance to receiving ones desires. Gratitude can also put you in vibrational harmony and alignment to your desires and speed up the manifestation of those desires

In otherwards, if you hate your job and want to leave it ( like me) and you keep resisting it and expressing dislike - you are only going to create more of the same and be stuck in it. When you express gratitude for your job, the details, clients, money, etc you release all that RESISTANCE that is getting in the way and blocking your good.

If you are tired of being broke and financially limited and keep griping about your bills, the state of the economy, how expensive everything is - I can guarantee you will not get more money! As a matter of fact, your bills and unexpected expenses will go up! But, by expressing gratitude for even the tiniest of abundance - say you find a penny on the ground or a friend buys you coffee you not only start to soften that resistance but new and bigger abundance will start to come your way!

The universe loves gratitude! How many times on this forum or in life have you helped someone and they thanked you with real appreciation and you not only felt good but you wanted to continue helping that person? Now, how about the reverse? Don't you feel like not helping or giving to that person anymore? I think this is why gratitude works like a healing balm for resolving issues in people lives. When we express gratitude - the universe wants to keep flowing into our lives the good we are grateful and thankful for.

In the case of something you want to be freed from - a good grateful statement would be. I am really grateful for the current job I have. I am grateful that I am now freed from a job that no longer satifies me. I am grateful that a new job that makes my heart sing now opens up for me quickly and easily.

If you have been using gratitude to change your life please feel free to post here and let everyone know how gratitude has changed your life and/or situation. I am going to do a 30-day experiment to see if expressing gratitude will help to change my life and I will report back in this post either after the 30 days is up or during the 30 days. If any of you would like to join me in this experiment then please post here and let us know your results. I can hardly wait to see what is going to happen in my life. A helpful tip: Probably not a good idea to think lots of negative thoughts thruout the day and then express gratitude in the evening - the negative thoughts will probably dilute the energy - so try to stay positive!

[ChannelingMyself]

I agree, expressing gratitude is a great way of freeing yourself from the vibrational patterns you are stuck in. Excellent post!

[karn]

Thanks channeling myself, I appreciate the compliment!

[Rezzy7]

You may have read in Ask And It Is Given, the "Rampage of Appreciation" is number 1 on the list of processes for manifesting described in the book. As you focus on something you enjoy and appreciate, your positive feelings about it increase. Then you can look around for another thing to appreciate.

From the book:

...this is a process of practicing the higher vibrations. The longer you focus upon things that feel good to you, the easier it is for you to maintain those vibrational frequencies that feel good. And the more you maintain these good-feeling frequencies, the more the Law of Attraction will deliver to you other thoughts, experiences, people and things that match your practiced vibration.
Since it is your primary intention, as you move through your day, to find things to appreciate, you are practicing a vibration of less resistance, and you are making your connection to your own Source Energy stronger.

[Maya2066]

Very helpful posts for those who are still confused about how to apply the LOA.:-) Yes, gratitude is the first step. I have applied it and saw my life turn around.

[karn]

Hi maya,

Thanks for your post! If you could elaborate that would be most helpful to the viewers. How often during the day did you do your gratitudes - was it thruout the day, in the evening, etc. When you were doing it what changes did you see in your life (ie: was it finanicial, emotional, did some of your desires start manifesting, etc) and how long after doing the gratitudes did it take before you started to see these changes

[Roaring Springs]

I could really use some help and approvement in this area...

In manifesting a relationship, I'm sure the Universe has alerady heard my request but would it be best if I appreciate the relationship already here, the girlfriend being here? Her being on her way? I'm confused.

[Sbonn]

Originally Posted by Roaring Springs

I could really use some help and approvement in this area...

In manifesting a relationship, I'm sure the Universe has alerady heard my request but would it be best if I appreciate the relationship already here, the girlfriend being here? Her being on her way? I'm confused.

It's best to see the end result and feel it! Silva suggested seeing the end result picture in a white frame.. and only dwell on that end result picture..

Write your story how you want it to be write it and write it over again and again.

FEELING is very important too, feeling good, positive, that you have the relationship.. once you have the belief the knowing that it is yours and it is already HERE - no doubts in your mind at all.. it is best to let go of the subject/desire all together so the universe can do it's thing, if your mind wanders back just reaffirm to yourself I know she's here and feel good about it.. do keep yourself busy with other things and thoughts on a completely different subject, but ones that feels good to you as well.

Example when on another thread the person suggested snap shots ( polaroid pictures) they decided and visualized seeing a red corvette, they saw it twice.. I am going to venture to say because they were not attached to heavily wanting or NEEDING to seeing the outcome of seeing that red corvette and were able to let go quickly of the desire/corvette and POOF they see a red corvette quickly and twice..


Big hugs, be gentle with yourself!
Sbonn

[Roaring Springs]

One more thing though, I need to bring out the joy and love from within me before I could have joy with her and give love to her? WHILE I let go and occupy my mind with other things. How?

Thanks for replying.

Don;t I have to visualize her every single day?

[Sbonn]

Originally Posted by Roaring Springs

One more thing though, I need to bring out the joy and love from within me before I could have joy with her and give love to her? WHILE I let go and occupy my mind with other things. How?

Thanks for replying.

Don;t I have to visualize her every single day?

I am also going to venture to say YES to what I bolded above in your quote with the modification of within me to... for you, of you, from you... to you.

This to me means, I love myself I accept myself I believe in myself and I own how AWESOME I am and really believe that about you feel it know it without doubts.

You know she is there, you have put your specifics out there you wrote with such strength and intention in your thread the story you want for you ... you have been heard.. it has happened.. when you feel the feeling of knowing true knowing and belief it has happened ... WHEN YOU KNOW SHE IS THERE, then yes let it go, you do not need to visualize anymore.. do not think of and attach to the "how is this going to happen", when you do it limits the possibilities of the many many many ways for it to happen.

What things do you like to do where you feel happy doing them that you are not thinking about your soulmate? Put your focus on those things.. what do you like/ love to do? what feels good to you?

Me, I love video games, I pet the cat .. I surf the web looking at and reading stuff that interest me ... I watch tv programs on subjects I like .. I love my job so I add work to the mix as well.

I hope this has helped.. BIG HUGS .. I know it seems hard- but it is not when you get your thinking mind out of the way .... Be gentle with yourself.
Sbonn

[karn]

Hi roaring springs,

I just found this interesting passage in something I was reading on gratitude (at the bottom of this reply) and I really like what sbonn said. Yes, go out and have fun so you create the vibration of fun and joy and you could very well likely meet your soulmate by doing that. When you do things you love and enjoy you keep yourself in that higher vibration. Visualize ONLY until it no longer feels like fun and/or you feel like you are forcing yourself to do it. I have manifested things by visualizing a few times (smaller things I could care less about and therefore had little resistance) and manifested what I wanted and some larger things (with more resistance) are taking longer to manifest.

That's why I started looking into blocks I was having with manifesting and when I was asking god, and my angels and guides what I could do to speed up the manifesting of my desires, the word gratitude came into my mind. When I researched it it seemed like this was the one major thing that would help to break me free from my resistances.

I am not sure if you know about resistance but it is the blocks we have to manifesting our desires (ie; doubt, fear, limiting beliefs, impatience, focusing on NOT having what we want, etc) and the great thing about gratitude, is that you express appreciation that what you want to manifest is already here and by doing that you stop focusing on your desires as not being here and you release a lot of that resistance that blocks your desires from manifesting and thus speed up the manifestion of what you want. It's quite simple and fascinating. I loooove easy things like this!

Here is that passage
Now, go one step further and think of all those things you would like to have in your life - feel how would you feel having them right now and express gratitude for them as if you already have them. Gratitude is the fastest way to draw those experiences into your life.

When you feel gratitude for something, you acknowledge that you have already received it. You program this desirable experience as your reality into your subconscious mind, you expect it to happen, you begin looking for proofs that it is a part of your life, you begin acting as if this is true for you now and you begin to experience what may be nothing short of miracles.

Remember that you program your subconscious mind by what you FEEL to be REAL for you NOW! When you express gratitude for something you would like to experience as if you already have it now, you acknowledge that this desired experience is REAL for YOU now, you CLAIM it as YOUR OWN and you open the way for it to come into your life! The Power of Gratitude

[Roaring Springs]

Once again, thank you very much.

However, I think about her a lot--and I suppose you're right. I should move on. No more rituals, no more visualizations, nothing. I have asked several times and the universe is just waiting on me to do my part, which is to let go, let the universe, and work on finding my self-love, sexual-satisfaction, and happiness.

For me, I like to plan trips. I usually don't plan trips this far in the future, but I fantasize about going to Six Flags with her and that is another one of my intentions. I will plan the trip and save her a spot, list the things and gifts I want to buy for her, edit my list one last time, describe how I want our relationship to be like, and then I'm really going to let go.

Also, it's not that I'm thinking "Oh, how is this going to happen," or I try not to because I know that ain't my job. That's the Universe's job, not mine. I still wonder and worry if I'm obsessing, attaching to it. What exactly is "obsessing" because if you do keep attached to your intention, it won't manifest itself.

I am planning on writing a self-help book on how to manifest a soulmate.

[Sbonn]

Karn BIG HUGS! I believe I have manifested you showing up here at this forum with me!

Thank you for putting the part in I forgot on appreciation and resistance ( you used great words for describing that one)..

I sent you a PM btw

Thank you again so much!
Sbonn

[linviolin]

Hi karn,

Excellent way of bringing gratitude into perspective for me. I'm going to start applying it now.

I am very grateful for your post setting me on the right track

[Roaring Springs]

Hi Karn and Sbonn,

I just thought that you both would like to know that I've finally decided to give up on trying to manifest my soulmate girlfriend.

It's not as bad as it sounds. I've just given up on the wanting as I told the universe this. Last night I told the universe that if it is not in the cards for me and if it's not meant for me to find The One, I accept that. HOWEVER, if it IS meant for me to have, then I want to see her before September 1, 2011. I then asked the universe if it was meant for us to find each other or not and if it is I wanted to see her by then.

But then, when I woke up this morning, I found myself still surrendering but wanting to see her so then I prayed to the universe and changed the deadline to August 1, telling It I wanted to see her if it was meant to be by then. But now I'm feeling like I;m willing to wait for my answer at September 1, considering it isn't too long from when I posted this. It's all up to the universe, but I'm just working on me in the meantime.

[Sbonn]

Karn made a really long and great reply on this thread that I have linked below

Getting into Theta during the day.

the last two posts on the thread belong to Karn. Even tho the topic is about money it explains, that when you focus on your end result so hard you are keeping it away..

You said you are working on yourself now which is very good, I would like to suggest not putting a time frame on the universe.. you need to let it bring you your soulmate with no time limits for it to happen.

The work the universe needs you to do is the loving yourself the appreciating yourself, your home, your mom when you can really feel joy for everything around you.. the universe can do its job .

Big Hugs,
Sbonn

[Merr]

Roaring Springs-

I think the issue here is that rather than wanting a girlfriend and believing that it will happen, it's still come across as a desperate need. The deadlines form part of that and I think also are limiting beliefs. You need to truly let go imo, no deadlines. Just feel the gratitude attitude. Good luck. :-)

[Roaring Springs]

Thank you for replying Sboon and Merr-

I told the Universe many times that I was letting go, and I'm for real this time. I've been obsessing too much over the end result, and it's the block that's been keeping us away from each other all these years.

I've been really exhausting myself, forcing myself to do visualizations, and exercises when they all feel like chores and they really shouldn't. That should be a sign that I'm attaching myself to the end result, but it wasn't and it's not now because I won't do it anymore unless I'm really motivated to do so.

I just put the dates on the stuff because I want to know whether or not it was meant for me to have. If it isn't, I'm just fine with that because I don't need a girlfriend to live or to be happy. For the time being, I am my own soulmate!

[geniegal]

I'm in for the 30 day trial - when shall we start? Shall we start a new thread? I'm doing a 30 day trial for my business and that's going really great.

I find one good thing is to look for the perfect moment of happiness everyday. Sounds corny but is really powerful.

This is usually something simple like doing the crossword or for me my kids laughing . What happens is when something you experience makes you smile, you then elevate it to be a perfect moment. It's like pausing for a second to deepen your enjoyment and appreciation of the now.

So today what I appreciated most was getting out of a black mood by hearing the story of the crocodile - an ex google employee said that when he worked there it was not possible to say you couldn't do anything - so if you hit a wall, get a ladder, if you meet a crocodile, give him your arm to dsistract him but there is always a way to achieve what you want. My goals have been achieved hundreds off times, so they are achievable for me too.

[msmanifest]

Originally Posted by Roaring Springs

I just thought that you both would like to know that I've finally decided to give up on trying to manifest my soulmate girlfriend.

It's not as bad as it sounds. I've just given up on the wanting as I told the universe this. Last night I told the universe that if it is not in the cards for me and if it's not meant for me to find The One, I accept that. HOWEVER, if it IS meant for me to have, then I want to see her before September 1, 2011. I then asked the universe if it was meant for us to find each other or not and if it is I wanted to see her by then.

My experience with allowing universe to manifest within a time frame has been fantastic. It usually works if I do not have strong sabotaging limiting beliefs. In fact this is the purpose( to by pass limiting beliefs) when we ask universe.
But the problem here is you have not made up your mind.
You keep changing your vibrations. How can the universe respond?
If you really want a girl friend , ask universe to get you one and give a reasonable time.
You need to give a reasonable time because your limiting beliefs wont allow you to manifest a girl friend within 10 minutes.
Once you have put the thing in the hand of Universe, stop worrying. And this is the trick.
This is why we want Universe to take over the manifesting business so we can stop having sabotaging or negative thought.
It is no longer " I" who is manifesting................it is the Universe.

[richest]

Interesting. Can you explain more clearly about how to express gratitude?
Is it merely say thank you or you have to feel it real?