To manifest getting someone to talk to you

[HoneyHeart]

It helps if you kno the person pretty well, and had conversations with them already... And they stopped giving you attention, maybe because of neglect, or intentionally for whatever reason...

So what you would do is get yourself a notebook and write out a conversation between the two of you... The way you would like it to go, but you also have to incorporate what you think the other person is most likely to say. You can imagine this conversation taking place via internet instant messaging, or on the phone... (maybe even texting; tho it would be less practical because you are likely going to want to write alot)...

Visualize the internet messenger as well as you can, or imagine yourself talking into your phone, and hearing the other person's voice; and them using their characteristic speech patterns, and kind of pretend to get into their mind so that you can write down what you feel like they really would say so that it feels real.

You can go on to write your part of the dialogue including anything that you want to say to this person (even if you wouldnt actually say it to them in real life... Like your honest feelings that you may be a little nervous to be open about ...; if this applies)...

ex:

(Other person): ... Hey ... blah blah blah .. etc....


Me: blah blah blah..........


(other person): yeah, so... blah blah blah......




And it's important to end the conversation on a good note.

I used this technique, and later I reflected and for a moment I thought the conversation actually took place... Putting me in a state of vibrational match for a conversation with the person to actually take place..

[JeffistheAnswer]

OR you can call them/text them/walk up to them and talk to them. You know, cut to the chase, none of this visualization fluff in between.

[Anagogy]

Originally Posted by HoneyHeart

I used this technique, and later I reflected and for a moment I thought the conversation actually took place... Putting me in a state of vibrational match for a conversation with the person to actually take place..

Nice technique HoneyHeart.

[Showtime]

Originally Posted by JeffistheAnswer

OR you can call them/text them/walk up to them and talk to them. You know, cut to the chase, none of this visualization fluff in between.

Yea, this is my preferred method. You gotta watch because the only reason I see someone visualizing and whatnot (besides if you literally have no contact info for them) would be out of fear to approach them yourself.

[kenny r]

Maybe I will use this.

My close friend has been stressed out lately and she always benefits from our talks but has hesitated due to feeling she can't make time, she's feeling overwhelmed.

Texting or calling is not a good idea b/c she will see it as just another of many interruptions and things demanding her attention in the day.

So in my visualized conversation I imagine her telling me she got a moment and feels relaxed and comfortable...ahhhh, so calm and good.

I always benefit from it, too.

[HoneyHeart]

Thank you Anagogy...

And JeffistheAnswer.... I didn't even think of this...! .... Jk,... But the reason why I wanted to use the technique is because I texted them and they did not reply for 3 days. And the text included something about my feelings for them, and I was hurt because I thought they were deliberately not replying to it and I was scared that our feeling for each other aren't balanced.. I was like wtf, are they just going to stop talking to me...? Or they better have an excuse, when they do talk to me... So I contacted them, and didn't want to do one of those bugging things, or have a one-way conversation with them, and waiting til they responded was killing me... :O

[Darren]

was it your ex boyfriend by any chance?

I picked that up from this part: (ex not e.g)

ex:

(Other person): ... Hey ... blah blah blah .. etc....

[HoneyHeart]

I feel more comfortable using "ex:" to abbreviate example... What the hell is "e.g:" ... "eggxample"...? xD ... rofl ....

That was just to indicate an example... But yes he is my ex-boyfriend... It wasn't, like, a bad break up,.. it was just he wasn't as enthusiastic about being in a relationship anymore, and his own personal reasons, needing time for himself or whatever the hell... But he still wanted to see me and still claimed he cared about me... Which sometimes I felt he did, and sometimes I did not

[HoneyHeart]

So initially it worked to just get them to contact me, but by now we have talked through the subjects of my written dialogue...

[Bizarre Jester]

That sounds like a good method. I might use it, as I want to get in touch with a few old friends.

Originally Posted by JeffistheAnswer

OR you can call them/text them/walk up to them and talk to them. You know, cut to the chase, none of this visualization fluff in between.

A lot of the time it is that simple. Sometimes I get shy or want to know what I am going to say in advance, so visualization is helpful for me. I take it you don't believe in the manifestation process.

[HoneyHeart]

Oh that would also be a cool idea to combine what Jeffistheanswer said with the idea I presented, ... To actually go up to the person and talk to them or call them (If possible, or desired), after having mapped out the conversation in advance; so that you know how to convey your feelings to the other person, and so that you may be more comfortable actually telling them.