RockChick26 has been banned. This thread, and her refusal to see her responsibility in creating it, was in violation of this rule:
Do not whine (i.e. no pity parties) - It's okay to share your problems and challenges and request advice and help from others here. It is NOT okay to incessantly whine, complain, unload negativity, or seek commiseration. Members who exhibit a pattern of negative "poor me" posts with minimal receptiveness to change will be banned. These forums are for people who assume full responsibility for their lives, not for those who are looking to be objects of pity or to assign blame. (italics are mine)
There are those who have gotten value from this thread & RockChick's other thread, especially folks who say she's a great mirror for their own stuckness and unwillingness to change. There's nothing keeping you from starting your own thread about your own stuckness, and I encourage you to do so - as long as you do it from the perspective of someone willing to learn and grow! You don't need to hide in anonymity behind RockChick's willingness to put herself out there! Taking responsibility might well start with you asking for help, and becoming vulnerable in that way.
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09-14-2010, 10:59 PM
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