Manifestations of the heart

[technorani]

Does anybody have any manifestations related to matters of the heart?

I'm 26 and have been single for 5 years for reasons I could only describe as quizotic. I have without any concious beliefs of lack, (infact, the opposite, I have always been in the comfortable knowing that I will meet and marry a person that I love immensely) have attracted to me a most difficult love situation.

A person from my past, who loved me and left me, had apparently been spreading rumours abt my unfaithfulness (false) and this happened in my adolescence. This same person is now the love interest of my sister, whom I practically raised. For the past couple of years, she has been distant and emotionally unavailable to me and I didnt know why.

Now , finding out that she has chosen him over me, breaks my heart.

1. I want to move on from her. She has betrayed me by trying to make a life with someone who was responsible for much of my problems (not blaming him directly but he started something very horrible and im still paying the price for it)

2. I want to manifest a loving relationship in my own life. I find this so hard when I am constantly being compared to her and how she has scored while Ive lost. I dont even care abt the guy!

have any of you manifested love , despite the odds?

[technorani]

anybody? :/

[Salem86]

Well, I think I've manifested my current relationship. Back then before I knew about LoA, I was often thinking about dating a girl I knew, how it would be if we were together and so on. After a few months we've got together despite the fact, that it seemed like she's going to end up with another guy back then. Now we are together for almost 4 years and happy

[SethWilliams]

Im not sure about manifesting love, however i can manifest romantic interest. You can manifest the person into your life, thats the easy part.

The harder part comes afterwards :P

Im not sure what you mean "despite the odds"?

The odds are never against you. The only thing that is against you.... is you.

[TiffyLove]

I would like to manifest romantic relationships. Dating would be nice.

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by technorani

Does anybody have any manifestations related to matters of the heart?

I'm 26 and have been single for 5 years for reasons I could only describe as quizotic. I have without any concious beliefs of lack, (infact, the opposite, I have always been in the comfortable knowing that I will meet and marry a person that I love immensely) have attracted to me a most difficult love situation.

A person from my past, who loved me and left me, had apparently been spreading rumours abt my unfaithfulness (false) and this happened in my adolescence. This same person is now the love interest of my sister, whom I practically raised. For the past couple of years, she has been distant and emotionally unavailable to me and I didnt know why.

Now , finding out that she has chosen him over me, breaks my heart.

1. I want to move on from her. She has betrayed me by trying to make a life with someone who was responsible for much of my problems (not blaming him directly but he started something very horrible and im still paying the price for it)

2. I want to manifest a loving relationship in my own life. I find this so hard when I am constantly being compared to her and how she has scored while Ive lost. I dont even care abt the guy!

have any of you manifested love , despite the odds?

Yes!
Read here: How did I attract this good guy into my life?

Since I wrote that, things are even better and we are closer than ever

And I can add, that the relationships I came from were at least as bad as the situation you're in with your sister.

[shasah]

Yes. Keep trying. It can happen. Living proof. Good luck.

[technorani]

Originally Posted by SethWilliams

Im not sure about manifesting love, however i can manifest romantic interest. You can manifest the person into your life, thats the easy part.

The harder part comes afterwards :P

Im not sure what you mean "despite the odds"?

The odds are never against you. The only thing that is against you.... is you.

seth, you are right!
taking responsibility for it gives me back the power...
its better than thinking these situations are out of my control.
i guess ive been on a rollercoaster of sorts when it comes to this thing

[technorani]

Originally Posted by Bliss Sage

Yes!
Read here: How did I attract this good guy into my life?

Since I wrote that, things are even better and we are closer than ever

And I can add, that the relationships I came from were at least as bad as the situation you're in with your sister.

Thanks for pointing me in the direction of your post.
I feel like I've been given a rude shock lol. I've always had a pretty rosy picture of how my love life would be. I didn't feel the lack so much during these years because I was occupied with other things.

But now, it seems so strangely 'closed' and I have to keep reminding myself, there are millions of men in this world and I will find one just for me.

phew!

I have to work on my new found anxiety.

I find your story very inspiring!

[technorani]

Originally Posted by shasah

Yes. Keep trying. It can happen. Living proof. Good luck.

Thanks shasah and salem !

[technorani]

Originally Posted by TiffyLove

I would like to manifest romantic relationships. Dating would be nice.

Tiffylove, lets manifest some love our way

[TiffyLove]

Originally Posted by technorani

Tiffylove, lets manifest some love our way

Sounds good. Co-creating is even more powerful.

Imagine yourself with your dream partner now and share with me how it feels.

[technorani]

Originally Posted by TiffyLove

Sounds good. Co-creating is even more powerful.

Imagine yourself with your dream partner now and share with me how it feels.

I feel Secured and loved when I imagine myself with him.

He is warm, compassionate, generous and most importantly funny. He is kind and intelligent. Good looking. A person who is centered .

He is appreciative of my attributes (which is similar to what I mentioned abt him, except for being centred, im all over the place at the moment :P)

Someone with a keen business sense. (I am starting my own business).

Single, straight and between the ages of 26 - 32

your turn tiffylove

[TiffyLove]

I feel safe, cherished, adored, and treasured by him.

I love to feel how much I adore him. I can't keep my hands off of him (and its not only sexual). Just touching him, kissing him, etc...

I can feel how lucky he feels to have me and I feel the same way. I am very much attracted to him physically as well as every other way. He's intelligent, honest, open, sincere, loyal, has the highest integrity, and oh ya he makes me laugh all the time.

I couldn't not smile when he is around. Not only do I feel like a woman when he's around but I feel girly. He is very grounded and self assure, which makes him irresistible to me.

He takes care of me (not exactly financially, although I wouldn't object that but its not my focus here) like no other man has. He is definitely a man.

I love the way he connects with my son and makes my son feel really good but in a way a man/father only can.

I love sharing life's experiencing with him. Growing and learning with him, sleeping next to him at night.

_________

Now technorani (what is your name?) go again but this time connect with the feeling. Instead of just describing him which you can but do it from a place as if you are touching him. Tell me how life is, as if it already is! )

[st33med]

Yes. It was my first relationship

I was really tired of being lonely. I wanted a special person to talk to me, to support me, to love me as much as I loved her, and to be like me. I manifested a relationship with the person who I had a crush on, but I didn't think I could be with her. I thought she was so much better, but she fell in love with me anyways. It was a beautiful relationship while it lasted.

We still love each other deeply without any regrets of what happened between us.

That's a relationship I will cherish forever because we both grew from it.

[TiffyLove]

Originally Posted by SethWilliams

You can manifest the person into your life, thats the easy part.

You make it sound so easy. Want to share some tips?

[technorani]

Originally Posted by st33med

Yes. It was my first relationship

I was really tired of being lonely. I wanted a special person to talk to me, to support me, to love me as much as I loved her, and to be like me. I manifested a relationship with the person who I had a crush on, but I didn't think I could be with her. I thought she was so much better, but she fell in love with me anyways. It was a beautiful relationship while it lasted.

We still love each other deeply without any regrets of what happened between us.

That's a relationship I will cherish forever because we both grew from it.

How did you manifest a relationship with her?

What does one do when they don't really have a crush on anyone?

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by technorani

How did you manifest a relationship with her?

What does one do when they don't really have a crush on anyone?

Make a list. I had enough experiences behind me to make a list with the best qualities of a few guys I had known, and then add the other qualities that you want.

You know, I'm not even sure how I attracted the guy I did. To this day, I don't know how or why he fell in love with me, and why he has turned out to be the type of guy who seems to decide once in his life who his wife will be, and that's it. I do know how, in time, he "wore me down" so-to-speak. That part had more to do with me getting over issues and pain from the previous guy and starting to open up to the idea of another love.

Btw, you might want to add some morals, like fidelity and honesty in with your lists . You might spare yourselves some grief that way.

The best thing about my guy now is that he makes me feel sooooooo safe. Like you and Tiffy wrote. Safety was always what I most desperately needed, because I never experienced it in my whole life. And I can't really recall ever feeling safe with a guy before experiencing it now. I did used to have ways of making myself feel safe by myself, though.

[SethWilliams]

Originally Posted by TiffyLove

You make it sound so easy. Want to share some tips?

Write down a list of qualities that you admire and add water! Joke.

Intend and allow

Note: When the person manifests, please do not be under any impression that they will instantly love you. Instant love isnt real.

There will more than likely be a noticable connection between the two of you.

Love Seth

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by SethWilliams

Write down a list of qualities that you admire and add water! Joke.

Intend and allow

Note: When the person manifests, please do not be under any impression that they will instantly love you. Instant love isnt real.

There will more than likely be a noticable connection between the two of you.

Love Seth

Mine loved me instantly. At least he said so. He knew right away. That's one reason I didn't believe him.

[gigij]

Originally Posted by st33med

I manifested a relationship with the person who I had a crush on,

Did you intend the relationship to be with her specifically?

Or did you intend for the relationship and she is the one who it happened with?

[SethWilliams]

Originally Posted by Bliss Sage

Mine loved me instantly. At least he said so. He knew right away. That's one reason I didn't believe him.

Define Instant Love.

I was referring to Love at first sight. Of course I could be wrong. Just in my experience, it never really worked like that :S

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by SethWilliams

Define Instant Love.

I was referring to Love at first sight. Of course I could be wrong. Just in my experience, it never really worked like that :S

Technically, not love at first sight, because we met online. But my point is that he fell in love after we had talked just like 2 times, long before he could know me well enough to fall in love and decide he wanted to spend his life with me. It seems too instant for me, anyway and I didn't believe it.

It has made me believe, there are actually some guys who must be able to see more deeply than things that are on the surface.

[st33med]

Originally Posted by gigij

Did you intend the relationship to be with her specifically?

Or did you intend for the relationship and she is the one who it happened with?

I was in a crush with her at the time and I had someone tell her. I hadn't heard from her in a long time and I thought I wouldn't be able to be in love with her because she was ahead of me in a way.

So I just set a list of what wanted and she came back a few days after. I couldn't explain what had happened, but she just felt my energy and fell for me...

She fit my list exactly.

[technorani]

Originally Posted by TiffyLove

I feel safe, cherished, adored, and treasured by him.

I love to feel how much I adore him. I can't keep my hands off of him (and its not only sexual). Just touching him, kissing him, etc...

I can feel how lucky he feels to have me and I feel the same way. I am very much attracted to him physically as well as every other way. He's intelligent, honest, open, sincere, loyal, has the highest integrity, and oh ya he makes me laugh all the time.

I couldn't not smile when he is around. Not only do I feel like a woman when he's around but I feel girly. He is very grounded and self assure, which makes him irresistible to me.

He takes care of me (not exactly financially, although I wouldn't object that but its not my focus here) like no other man has. He is definitely a man.

I love the way he connects with my son and makes my son feel really good but in a way a man/father only can.

I love sharing life's experiencing with him. Growing and learning with him, sleeping next to him at night.

_________

Now technorani (what is your name?) go again but this time connect with the feeling. Instead of just describing him which you can but do it from a place as if you are touching him. Tell me how life is, as if it already is! )

Admittedly , this has been a bit hard, getting into the 'mood' to feel . Which is why I put it off. It isn't abt the resistance, its just abt being in another place, preoccupied with feelings of being passed over for another..
sigh. Gotta work on that. I watched a few Abraham videos and there seems to be this whole upstream/downstream thing. I feel like im actually going upstream in trying to maintain my good mood..

ok here goes!!

We connect instantly. His eyes are smiling at me and this warms my heart. He sees me for who I am, without a filter, he has a big smile. I feel infinitely secure with him. I feel like my years of being true to who I am and trying to get ppl to see the real me , has finally paid off. HE is warm and geniune and funny. There is a lot of chemistry... a lot of witty banter back and forth. I know with him, I can be invincible. He makes up for all the (dumbfounding) betrayals. He desires me passionately...there is passion between us even in the mundane things we do. He makes me feel so good, I start to even wonder why I doubted the universe.I feel lucky to feel his support and loyalty. I deserve this sort of love, because with this sort of love, I am inspired to turn it towards many other avenues of my life to help touch other lives. He is a compassionate soul who wants to help the less fortunate. HE is financially well placed and ambitious. He encourages me to do my best with my own career. Together we are a positive, dynamic force, helping to form a more conscious community here. He is exceedingly positive, helping me to banish my own negativity, that has come from years of circumstantial stuff.He helps me feel like I did when I was a child, full of wonder, with great love for myself. (I used to think I was the most special person on earth, lol) Together, we build a life full of laughter and love, attracting friends, only interested in the same goals of creating a better future for everybody else around us. he gives the best hugs. I am the center of his world.

I release this desire into the universe and I know it will turn out for my greatest good.

[technorani]

Originally Posted by Bliss Sage

Make a list. I had enough experiences behind me to make a list with the best qualities of a few guys I had known, and then add the other qualities that you want.

You know, I'm not even sure how I attracted the guy I did. To this day, I don't know how or why he fell in love with me, and why he has turned out to be the type of guy who seems to decide once in his life who his wife will be, and that's it. I do know how, in time, he "wore me down" so-to-speak. That part had more to do with me getting over issues and pain from the previous guy and starting to open up to the idea of another love.

Btw, you might want to add some morals, like fidelity and honesty in with your lists . You might spare yourselves some grief that way.

The best thing about my guy now is that he makes me feel sooooooo safe. Like you and Tiffy wrote. Safety was always what I most desperately needed, because I never experienced it in my whole life. And I can't really recall ever feeling safe with a guy before experiencing it now. I did used to have ways of making myself feel safe by myself, though.

Bliss Sage,
The reason I wanted to hear all of these stories is because I needed to have something to believe in. Your story renews my faith. It is so comforting to know there are men on this planet who arent just into superficial things..
This guy saw u inside out. That is the most important thing.
And yes, I've made my list and included loyalty .

I was wondering, should I add more physical attributes? Just so I can recognise him? I am not form obsessed, I am more attracted to personality . I've been with good looking guys.. the looks part becomes inconsequential after the initial stages..

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by technorani

Bliss Sage,
The reason I wanted to hear all of these stories is because I needed to have something to believe in. Your story renews my faith. It is so comforting to know there are men on this planet who arent just into superficial things..
This guy saw u inside out. That is the most important thing.
And yes, I've made my list and included loyalty .

I was wondering, should I add more physical attributes? Just so I can recognise him? I am not form obsessed, I am more attracted to personality . I've been with good looking guys.. the looks part becomes inconsequential after the initial stages..

Only if you care about looks. I didn't care about looks or "funny." Two things that are usually the most important to girls. Yet, I got this annoyingly, disarmingly cute guy who is "funny". Both of those traits worked against him in his trying to get me, because he had all these silly, young girls drooling over him online.

If you just want those traits to recognize him, I think it would be better not to put those limitations on the universe, because then you will automatically eliminate a lot of guys. You may not recognize him at first anyway. Or you may dump him at first like I did lol. But if you keep the faith, eventually you two will come around to each other, in some unknown way.

Take a listen to this one, have you seen this one? There is a short part of this about a woman talking to Abraham about her potential love:

YouTube - Abraham-Hicks: This will make you laugh!

[technorani]

Originally Posted by Bliss Sage

Only if you care about looks. I didn't care about looks or "funny." Two things that are usually the most important to girls. Yet, I got this annoyingly, disarmingly cute guy who is "funny". Both of those traits worked against him in his trying to get me, because he had all these silly, young girls drooling over him online.

If you just want those traits to recognize him, I think it would be better not to put those limitations on the universe, because then you will automatically eliminate a lot of guys. You may not recognize him at first anyway. Or you may dump him at first like I did lol. But if you keep the faith, eventually you two will come around to each other, in some unknown way.

Take a listen to this one, have you seen this one? There is a short part of this about a woman talking to Abraham about her potential love:

YouTube - Abraham-Hicks: This will make you laugh!

I loved that clip! haha
thanks

I guess we take ourselves too seriously.

I got an alpha reflection of sorts, today. Related to the 'list' I made here.
Interesting.

[TiffyLove]

Lucia,

Your listening to Abraham stuff again! How's it feel for you now?


It helps me a lot when I talk to others about it because it anchors it.



technorani,

I thinking raising our vibration as well as setting the intention is going to be double support in manifesting!

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by TiffyLove

Lucia,

Your listening to Abraham stuff again! How's it feel for you now?


It helps me a lot when I talk to others about it because it anchors it.



technorani,

I thinking raising our vibration as well as setting the intention is going to be double support in manifesting!

Well, I'm not listening again regularly. I remember the ones I've watched and find some of them good to recommend to other people sometimes. The ones I have on my YouTube list I've already listened to a million times . I haven't had time to listen to new ones.