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tfahkry · 03-19-2007, 08:30 PM

i often see synconicities throughout my life and since becomign attuned to the LoA i am a new person and making great advances in my life. I have found that people around me now are keen to listen to the advice i give them about troubles in their lives. I just seen to know what to say and offer good advice. It seems that something or someone (god) speaks through me. Im amazed at how relaxed and confident i am with this stuff.

One area i have problems with seems to be relationships. i am finding it a challenge to attract a woman that i truly desire. I am trying to become what i am attempting to attract though, i work as a trainer in a gym and am surrounded by a lot of 'negative' influences. I seem to attract the 'wrong' type of woman as a result of my perceived job role. As a trainer i have a lot of women flirt with me, which leads them to assume that i am somewhat of a player. I have not dated a girl since last sept after splitting up with my girlfriend. I really would like to attract the right type of woman. Advice kindly sought?

trthskr · 03-22-2007, 08:06 AM

Check out the clip that someone posted about The Secret after show on Oprah. The panelists spend a good chunk of time coaching a girl on the show who appears to be in denial about feelng bad that she's not in a relationship. Anyway, they give alot of good advice that can help you.

Trina · 03-22-2007, 08:29 AM

Well, I don't necessarily follow LoA, but I can give you a few pieces of advice from the female perspective, since most of the women you will come into contact with won't follow LoA either.

First and foremost, don't be desperate. LOL. Women can smell desperation a mile away. if all you focus on is how to make yourself more attractive to women instead of how to become a better person for yourself, a woman will know. At least, any woman who isn't desperate herself will know, and based on your description of what you want, a desperate woman is not it.

Second of all, looks aren't the most important thing. Not to a woman, and they shouldn't be to you. Just keep that in mind.

Good luck finding a good woman.

03-19-2007, 08:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
tfahkry Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 15	Attracting a loving relationship with a woman i often see synconicities throughout my life and since becomign attuned to the LoA i am a new person and making great advances in my life. I have found that people around me now are keen to listen to the advice i give them about troubles in their lives. I just seen to know what to say and offer good advice. It seems that something or someone (god) speaks through me. Im amazed at how relaxed and confident i am with this stuff. One area i have problems with seems to be relationships. i am finding it a challenge to attract a woman that i truly desire. I am trying to become what i am attempting to attract though, i work as a trainer in a gym and am surrounded by a lot of 'negative' influences. I seem to attract the 'wrong' type of woman as a result of my perceived job role. As a trainer i have a lot of women flirt with me, which leads them to assume that i am somewhat of a player. I have not dated a girl since last sept after splitting up with my girlfriend. I really would like to attract the right type of woman. Advice kindly sought?

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03-22-2007, 08:06 AM	#2 (permalink)
trthskr Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Chicago Posts: 44	Check out the clip that someone posted about The Secret after show on Oprah. The panelists spend a good chunk of time coaching a girl on the show who appears to be in denial about feelng bad that she's not in a relationship. Anyway, they give alot of good advice that can help you.

03-22-2007, 08:29 AM	#3 (permalink)
Trina Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: The most Utarded place on the planet. Posts: 160	Well, I don't necessarily follow LoA, but I can give you a few pieces of advice from the female perspective, since most of the women you will come into contact with won't follow LoA either. First and foremost, don't be desperate. LOL. Women can smell desperation a mile away. if all you focus on is how to make yourself more attractive to women instead of how to become a better person for yourself, a woman will know. At least, any woman who isn't desperate herself will know, and based on your description of what you want, a desperate woman is not it. Second of all, looks aren't the most important thing. Not to a woman, and they shouldn't be to you. Just keep that in mind. Good luck finding a good woman.

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