I need help manifesting a miracle for a friend

[kthdsn]

I'm pretty new to deliberately manifesting things. I need some help repairing a huge mess that I've manifested unintentionally.

A couple of months ago I split up with my husband James, he left me for someone else. It was fairly amicable and we're still friends. There were a couple of weeks during the breakup that I felt really low and miserable, and I believed that he was the cause of those feelings. I wished and hoped for a way out of the whole situation, I wanted to move from the UK to Toronto to be with my family.

I was amazed and delighted when we were approved for a loan which James agreed to pay back so that I could take the money and move. I moved out here on February 1st and everything I wished for has become my reality. At this point, I really began to believe in the IM/LOA stuff I'd been reading about for so long.

Somehow though, in the process, I've created a huge miserable mess for James. He is struggling to pay the bills for the loan and mortgage that I've left him with, he's not earning enough to cover his outgoings, he has no money for food, and his new relationship is on the rocks. I think the negative emotions I carried during the breakup created this situation for him.

I feel no anger towards James now, I really want to see him get on with his life and be happy. I don't want to see him fall apart emotionally or financially, but it seems to be happening anyway. He needs a miracle.

I believe that I have the ability to help him by manifesting a positive outcome for him, but every time I speak to him he seems to be getting worse. I don't understand what part of me is creating this for him. I feel guilty for leaving him with such a struggle financially, could this be making his situation worse?

Does anybody have any advice for me? How can I change myself and my thoughts to create the miracle he needs to get his life back on track? I would love to hear your thoughts and suggestions. I really want to help him.

[absvan]

Okie reading your mail gives me the impression that you are focussing on what you dont want. Shift your focus to what you want. Its that simple

Let go of any feeling of guilt. You did not intentionally hurt him. Accept whatever has happened was a result of all the actions and events. It was meant to happen. But the present moment is under our control and what we do now will shape the future.

Use your the power of your imagination. Visualize him happy and at peace with himself. Visualize everyday in the morning and before you go to bed. Throughout the day use affirmations to help yourself when you feel negative.

If there is any way you can help him financially, then do it. Also be grateful for what you have today.

A miracle happens when you beleive in it. This is your world, your universe. Pray and you will get what you want.

HTH.

[Velvet]

I agree with everything the above poster said, but just wanted to add that, whether you had anything to do with James's misfortunes or not, (and I don't believe you did), he is lucky to have an ex-wife like you. You seem caring and compassionate.

[kthdsn]

Thank you, you're right, I am focusing on what I don't want. How did I not see that, it seems so simple now.

I'm trying to help him to stay focused on the positive aspects of his life. I've suggested that he get counselling to help him with his emotions and his anger but he refuses to go, so I'm doing my best to listen to him and encourage him to tell me about the good things in his relationship and how it makes him feel.

I'm not sure that I'm any good at it, but it seems to help him in the short term. I do find it quite draining though, it's such an effort on my part to steer the conversation round towards the positive things.

I try to visualise him answering positively to the questions I ask him, and sometimes it works. I wish it were easier. I'm trying to use positive language in my conversations with him and in my thoughts about him.

It's nice to talk to people who don't think I'm crazy thinking I can help by changing the way I think about him. Thanks for listening to me

[Dharma]

Originally Posted by kthdsn

I don't understand what part of me is creating this for him. I feel guilty for leaving him with such a struggle financially, could this be making his situation worse?

Look at your guilt around leaving him and also around leaving him with the financial struggle. Just remember he is a reflection of you.

How about sending him some money?