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MancsAdonis 08-27-2010 12:15 PM

Immeditaly lose belief when I dont see evidence!
 
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

Showtime 08-27-2010 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

YouTube - Bob Proctor on Letting your results dictate your mental state

Marty McFly 08-27-2010 02:13 PM

If you don't experience the magic of life you're not living the right way. I'm in the same boat - looking for understanding of finding / receiving the right inspiration - at the "right time" (when the heart wants it).

SunnyDays 08-27-2010 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

Just remind yourself that if you plant seeds for Tulips for example you will not see the flowers the next morning ;)

wolfgang 08-27-2010 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

Take a look at the times you term as nothing or bad - and see that it is just a signal for you to see what it is you want or are desiring.

Turn a crisis into opportunity.

Quote:

from: Disturbance

Take any of those daily disturbances that course through us and have their way with us. We resist these little shocks with our whole being. Yet each and every one of them brings a needed life lesson to us. The problem is that we usually don't "hear" these silent teachings (of peace) because the noise of our own answers drowns out her voice. With a touch of hindsight we see that all of these lessons boil down to one instruction: "Stop! What you are doing does not work. Wake up! You're looking in the wrong place. This kind of pain does no one any good!"

If we could only become quiet enough to listen anew, we would learn that peace is a gift given freely to each of us, right where we stand. But it is a gift given only when we give up our position that it is in our power to possess peace as we would all other desires.

Peace cannot be bound but must be let loose by our growing realization that only in willingly losing ourselves within its life can we hope to know its everlasting tranquility. And yet, even though this peace cannot be bound, neither can it be lost! If you ever feel that you have lost peace, you must look to see where it is that you unknowingly, in error, gave it away or set it down by identifying with disruptive dark thoughts and conflicted feelings.

Kishka 08-27-2010 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by SunnyDays (Post 679910)
Just remind yourself that if you plant seeds for Tulips for example you will not see the flowers the next morning ;)

SunnyDays, that's sooooo beauitiful and so TRUE! :)

AaronB 08-27-2010 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

Addiction to results won't be cured by believing more strongly that you'll get the result you want. There is no result that separates you from where you are now and where you want to be. The basic illusion is that a situation has power to influence how I feel, so I want to create the situation that brings about the feeling I'm looking to get. Situations really have no power over how you feel, it is only your perception that does. If you changed your perception to one that gave you the feeling you are looking for now, the situations you were looking for would become much less fascinating.

Marty McFly 08-27-2010 04:53 PM

So what we want, I think, is to fall into a natural flow state. To be guided through our days to experience fulfiment, meaning and clarity to satisfy our mental intentions. Which, are often misguided and conflict with what would bring about our true and full contentment.

jeff3 08-27-2010 05:27 PM

Read up on the definitions of FAITH and TRUST. Both of these are required for Conscious use of the LOA. We all use the law unconsciously and it requires no faith or trust to do so, we simply maintain the status quo via our observations and reactions to events around us. To use the law pro-actively requires believing before seeing. So.....you will not always see evidence.

Silenced140 08-27-2010 06:10 PM

This is science.

In the higher density dimensions, things are so fluid that you can manifest instantly. I can't wait till I die because that's where the fun begins. I've always wanted to bring down Imperial Starships with the force! :D Lol

Since this is they physical dimension, energy is dense. It moves much slower than the higher dimensions. This is all you know that's real to you because you've only experienced the physical.

Just remember that it has to come to you, because otherwise it would be against the laws of the univere.


I used this example before. Taking a straw, and blowing bubbles into chocolate milk. It's easy and when you were a little kid it was fun as hell.

You blow air, and instantly the bubbles appear. That's because it's a more fluid substance. It's less dense. That's what it's like in the higher dimensions.


Now if you tried the same thing, blowing air into melted dark chocolate through a straw. It's going to be much harder, simply because it's so dense. That's how the physical dimension is, it's slower to react.

You don't doubt the possibliity of it just because it's not working immedietly.


Give it time :)


Have faith, because your in control. God or the universe does the work. You control what happens though.

Hope that clears it up a bit at least :)

inri 08-28-2010 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

I find when I'm working on a particular manifestation that it helps to keep a 'proof' journal. Anytime something occurs that indicates I'm moving closer to my goal, I record it. As the proof begins to add up, my belief and vision of my manifest desire becomes more clear.

On a bad day when you're having trouble believing, it can be really helpful to read through your list of 'proof.' We can all use a little boost now and again regarding our levels of belief.

HeartExalted 08-28-2010 05:11 AM

Also, it can help to largely focus on manifesting stuff that could easily happen anyway. Like, "I intend to meet someone I know when I go out today." Then, when it happens, you can tell yourself "See, I manifested this...LoA really does work!" Or, try manifesting pennies on the ground when you're out and about; it's likely to happen anyway, so it can help build your faith. Good luck!

nowgirl 08-28-2010 04:55 PM

Ideally, it's not about 'results' at all but about feeling the vibration. Results are nice, but really the feeling of manifesting something is a gift itself. The feeling of vibrating with your desires, rather than your fears. Of course, this is all theoretical. I do this too sometimes---lose sight of the vibration and focus on the results.

I guess it's about reminding yourself that the vibration is actually what you want and the results are just the final tangible souvenir of it, not the actual goal. The results are like the great scrapbook of photos from your trip, but the vibration was all the fantastic experiences along the way. Or something.

Marty McFly 08-28-2010 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by nowgirl (Post 680821)
Ideally, it's not about 'results' at all but about feeling the vibration. Results are nice, but really the feeling of manifesting something is a gift itself. The feeling of vibrating with your desires, rather than your fears. Of course, this is all theoretical. I do this too sometimes---lose sight of the vibration and focus on the results.

I guess it's about reminding yourself that the vibration is actually what you want and the results are just the final tangible souvenir of it, not the actual goal. The results are like the great scrapbook of photos from your trip, but the vibration was all the fantastic experiences along the way. Or something.

I'm with you on this. The best thing I've read here.

Nea 08-28-2010 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

I sometimes have the similar problem. I mostly overcame the part with loosing faith when results don't come fast - I just tell myself: "I won't let myself that so called "reality" distracts me, cause true reality isn't out there, but inside me". That helps to hold on to vibration.

I also like a lot the idea of inri! It's a great idea, cause there are always some manifestations, and they proved to me so many times that LoA works, if I would have them written down, I could always remind myself. I'll definitely try this one. Thanks! :)

The second part - about forgetting to believe when busy or when my mind is on something else - didn't overcome yet. What bothers me the most is that sometimes happens: when I find myself in situation I was previously visualizing, I totally "forget" what I was visualizing, so instead of holding that previous vibration, I become to reactive... maybe we need something that would constantly remind us... :)

Diandra25 09-07-2010 01:07 PM

Bashar talked about it--- it is the worst thin you can do...expect something appear in your reality before you shift yourself 1st.

1st you change your beliefs,and you keep continuing it. the fact that you dont expect it to change your reality all in a moment,it is when you re showing the FAITH IT IT.in you and in your capabilities of your manifestation skills.

you will see that in a particular situation,that will appear,exaclty like in your !past,if you really had shifted,you will see the difference,when you re-act differently to that situation.

ONLY THEN! the reality will shift too....

inri 09-07-2010 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Diandra25 (Post 689882)
Bashar talked about it--- it is the worst thin you can do...expect something appear in your reality before you shift yourself 1st.

1st you change your beliefs,and you keep continuing it. the fact that you dont expect it to change your reality all in a moment,it is when you re showing the FAITH IT IT.in you and in your capabilities of your manifestation skills.

you will see that in a particular situation,that will appear,exaclty like in your !past,if you really had shifted,you will see the difference,when you re-act differently to that situation.

ONLY THEN! the reality will shift too....

awesome advice Diandra! You've really encapsulated how it works. If the absence of our desire has the ability to cause us pain or upset or any negative response whatsoever, we have not yet shifted our vibration to the place it needs to be to attract our desire into our reality.

Our vibration is a match to our desire when we begin to feel happy and excited because we absolutely KNOW that our desire is on its way!

It's kind of a catch 22 because initially, in order to identify something as being a 'desire,' we must first feel the absence of it in our reality.....but you are so right....we MUST shift from that place of identifying the desire and move to a place of positively 'expecting' it before we are a match to its manifestation.

Diandra25 09-07-2010 03:48 PM

im happy to help :)

see some videos of Bashar where he talks about that

YouTube - Bashar on Abundance and Trusting What Is

This ONE IS SO IMPORTANT!

YouTube - Bashar - Circumstances Don't Matter Only State of Being Matters

Philemon 09-08-2010 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I stop this? When nothing happens throughout the day or if I have a bad day it really effects me in terms of my vibration! However if i see results my belief/vibration strengthens ten-fold. How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Also I always forget to keep believing when I am busy (at work) or when my mind is on something else. How can I rectify this?

It sounds like you've already begun. Keep going!

Jaiysun4 09-08-2010 12:29 PM

Good luck. I am sure that if you keep going and have faith then meaningful things will happen for you.

Sorry to operate on the other side of the coin but I would say you are being unfair to yourself by expecting too much. This could be in terms of not having enough patience, or by wanting something that is unlikely or impossible to occur if you ever ask for definitive proof.

You could go the other way and say - "it is good to believe something only when i see evidence." Or hold a lack of evidence as evidence to the contrary.

But yeh, if you want a magical experience of life you need to trust more, and drop the barriers for evidence. Take a little less as evidence, take anything as evidence! Convince yourself it is true first then go out, and this will happen. This is what the "have faith first" bit is all about. You dont want to think logically and weigh things up, you want to believe something for the sheer hell of it and see what happens, and ignore the evidence to the contrary. This can be explained by the density of the physical world and your imperfect manifestation skills.

devanand 09-10-2010 07:44 AM

RE:MancsAdonis
 
Your on the right path towards belief, its the human nature to forget something when we are seriously involved in something else. So don't worry everything will be all right.
Try this blog Sajeev nair for some ideas on Thought Process, this author has written some good stories that i think will help you out.

All the Best..!!!;)

Acting Like Godot 09-10-2010 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by MancsAdonis (Post 679786)
How can I keep the belief if nothing/bad things happen throughout the day.

Lots of things are bad, if you look at them and choose to think that they are bad.

If you choose another kind of mindset, you'll see that crises and problems usually offer great opportunities.

inri 09-10-2010 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Acting Like Godot (Post 692734)
Lots of things are bad, if you look at them and choose to think that they are bad.

If you choose another kind of mindset, you'll see that crises and problems usually offer great opportunities.

This ability really does involve moving up to and being at a higher level of consciousness...AND when you find you ARE able to adopt this perspective, and hold it on a regular basis it's a good indicator of spiritual growth.

No doubt, when we can look at something that we would have previously called 'bad' and instead see the beauty, goodness and most importantly 'rightness' of it, (after all...we never get anything other than a reflection of what's within), we know we've jumped up a level! LOL...I'm working on it....not there yet, but I do have my moments!:p

That's how I see the evolution of our consciousness and the evolution of the perspective we hold at any given time, regarding our reality....levels upon levels with no end to the expansion...ever!

Thanks for this, ActinglikeGodot,....I think I'll adopt it as my theme for the day!:)

Acting Like Godot 09-11-2010 12:19 AM

I should have added -

if you simply change the way you look at things, many "bad" things could also simply become neutral, even if they don't transform into opportunities.


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