polarizing love

[wolfgang]

Is this an application for being polarized?

If you are focusing on loving/giving, you also have to appriceiate being loved back. If you don't appriceiate love back, then the energy is not flowing.

If you are focusing on being loved, you get more love by also loving/giving. If you don't also give, then the energy is not flowing.

Do those two statements classify lightworker/darkworkers, givers/takers accuratetly?

How is it that it's more effective to focus only on being loved, or loving/giving?

Is it really impossible/non-effective to focus on both giving and receiving?

It does seem like both are present all the time or one becomes drained (gives too much) or blows up (full of himself).

[bellbird]

I think it was mentioned by God or who-ever that*: our purpose as a human being is to love and to experience life. You could ask yourself the question: how can we notlove if it is inherently build into us (well if you believe that sort of thing )

If you are focusing on loving/giving, you also have to appriceiate being loved back. If you don't appriceiate love back, then the energy is not flowing.

If you are focusing on being loved, you get more love by also loving/giving. If you don't also give, then the energy is not flowing.

Do those two statements classify lightworker/darkworkers, givers/takers accuratetly?

Good point and you could say that 'darkworkers' ** love themselves (and money in regards to Steve's blog) and that they receive by sending energy out to acquire this, opposed to lightworkers like Mother Theresa who focus on others and give love/energy and thus receive love/energy back? Both light and dark workers put energy out and receive it back. So I guess yes that you're way of putting it is a good description allthough you obviously have to think which description is for which .

Lightworkers and darkworkers both are excellent at moving energy, it's their focus and their perception of what it means to them that is different. It's the same energy stuff though, just different content and how it ciculates. (Does that make any sense?)
*Probably out of one of the Conversations with God books by Neale Donald Walsh
**(I can't help it I keep seeing Darth Vader type figures with that image, saber in hand and making noises which implicate to stop smoking... )

[searstower]

bellbird is right I think, it's all about where the focus is.

Here's a cool example a friend showed me a while ago. Have you ever had the experience of spending weeks picking out the perfect gift for someone you loved? And when you give it to them, their eyes light up and they smile, laugh and give you a hug?

It feels good, right? But what if they had refused to accept the gift instead? Part of the joy in giving is seeing what joy you bring others.

But when someone is unwilling to fully accept your gift, they are preventing that.

A truly light focused person would never refuse a gift, whether it comes in the form of a salary raise, a recognition or a million dollars to their charity, because to do so may cause unhappiness in the giver.

Food for thought...

[bellbird]

I hadn't thought about it in that way, but that sounds true to me. Thanks for that searstower!

[nichibu]

I'm a Nichiren Buddhist who chants Nam Myoho Renge Kyo as a practice...translated means "Dedication to the mystic law of cause and effect through sound (or vibration)"

I keep a prayer journal and consider these hopes, dreams, and desires to be intentions that will manifest. And they do!

My experience is that when I chant, my life condition begins to rise and expand; it becomes activated, like I am able to tap into an unlimited reservoir of energy, but it's also a rhythm, a synchronicity. Like exercise or yoga, my body and spirit warms up and I begin to feel energized and emotionally happier. The experience of chanting also has physiological effect in your body, is what I'm saying.

How I experience the concept of polarity is that I send out my prayers through chanting and then receive them, actually attract them, like a magnet. As a basic metephor, it's a circular pattern. However, the timing of benefits (answered prayers) is not necessarily immediate, but the prayer "seed of benefit" is planted. Whether the seed matures in a day or a month, whether it grows or withers, is based on the intensity and sincere resolve of my chanting.

And I don't have to force it, what needs to happen does and I just have to be able to spot the clues, keep an eye out for them. This process is definitely non-linear.

But, and this is a big but...you have to do it, you have to chant, and as simple as that seems, it's so hard to do it consistently, at least it is for me. But when I do chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo as a means of sending out my prayers and tapping into this gigantic pool of universal energy, I get results. And the more specific I am about the prayer, the more I am able to see the actual proof.

I'm sure there's more than one way to be happy and make your hopes and dreams come true. However, I have found this practice to be particularly effective.

Have any of you ever heard of Nam Myoho Renge Kyo?

[ethereal]

My take on polarity and love...

Lightworkers see love from within, and seek to purify themselves to be able to love everyone and everything.

Darkworkers see love outside themselves, and seek to get everything to be able to gain that love.