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Footballman · 06-28-2010, 11:08 AM

Hi,

Ever since I was young I believed I would be a succesful soccer player..and succesful in other areas of life.

However over the past two and a half years I lived with a narcisist(I think that's what they are called). Basically with one of these people, you have to focus your thoughts on them..to think about yourself would be to offend them.

I have since moved out and I am struggling to begin thinking to help myself again. Do you think after two years the stream over thoughts for what my desires are would reconnect..or do you think I would need to learn to do everything again?

Thanks.

themaster · 06-29-2010, 10:38 PM

Every thought you ever thought is recorded in a way.. and even still active in some part of you

If you hung around a "narcissist" for 2 years you could have picked up there "negative" thought patterns or you could have used that experience and that relationship as a great bouncing point for what "you don't want to be" (which did you do?.. there's no wrong answer)

I would not hold any hate towards this person you hung around with in fact.. if I were you I'd make quite a few red roses (one at a time) 13-15 inches from your face put that person in it

and blow it into sparkling lights/fireworks show when it says "ready"

In this small act you reclaim your energy/attention points on the person

Also just stop using the word "narcissist" that label and that feeling you get when thinking about the person doesn't help you.. let go of everything that doesn't serve you.. that includes any hate you have for people ever!

What have you done recently to complete your goal of becoming a soccer player?

Did you go to a field watch a game?

Did you talk to a coach?

Did you go on craigslist/meetup.com and see if anyone wants to put a team together?

Did you try organizing your own team?

It's best if this is your dream to immerse yourself in its activities.. start practicing your skill.. do that which you say you "love"

Do you think after two years the stream over thoughts for what my desires are would reconnect..or do you think I would need to learn to do everything again?

This question all depends on you.. as I said what you thought is not lost.. but whether your disconnected from that is another matter

06-28-2010, 11:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
Footballman Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 123	The stream of thought or emotion? Hi, Ever since I was young I believed I would be a succesful soccer player..and succesful in other areas of life. However over the past two and a half years I lived with a narcisist(I think that's what they are called). Basically with one of these people, you have to focus your thoughts on them..to think about yourself would be to offend them. I have since moved out and I am struggling to begin thinking to help myself again. Do you think after two years the stream over thoughts for what my desires are would reconnect..or do you think I would need to learn to do everything again? Thanks.

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06-29-2010, 10:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
themaster Banned Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: I'm a traveler everywhere and nowhere.. currently in Denver.. where else? Posts: 3,618	Every thought you ever thought is recorded in a way.. and even still active in some part of you If you hung around a "narcissist" for 2 years you could have picked up there "negative" thought patterns or you could have used that experience and that relationship as a great bouncing point for what "you don't want to be" (which did you do?.. there's no wrong answer) I would not hold any hate towards this person you hung around with in fact.. if I were you I'd make quite a few red roses (one at a time) 13-15 inches from your face put that person in it and blow it into sparkling lights/fireworks show when it says "ready" In this small act you reclaim your energy/attention points on the person Also just stop using the word "narcissist" that label and that feeling you get when thinking about the person doesn't help you.. let go of everything that doesn't serve you.. that includes any hate you have for people ever! What have you done recently to complete your goal of becoming a soccer player? Did you go to a field watch a game? Did you talk to a coach? Did you go on craigslist/meetup.com and see if anyone wants to put a team together? Did you try organizing your own team? It's best if this is your dream to immerse yourself in its activities.. start practicing your skill.. do that which you say you "love" Do you think after two years the stream over thoughts for what my desires are would reconnect..or do you think I would need to learn to do everything again? This question all depends on you.. as I said what you thought is not lost.. but whether your disconnected from that is another matter

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