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06-06-2010, 09:25 PM
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I enjoyed the dialog and support I seen for "rockchick" and would like to offer myself authentically and see if anyone would like to offer some guidance and support on my journey. I have attended dozens of seminars and camps. I read lots of personal and spiritual growth books. I journal at times but not consistently. I do Byran Katie's "The Work" on my own and with others on skype. I do Dyads with a friend, which is a technique I learned at an enlightenment intensive. I have a hypnotherapist who I see weekly and she also does energy work. I have studied reiki myself. I am currently learning NLP. I tried EFT. I have tried past life stuff, going into the emotion, etc. My life and decisions have slowly improved over the years but I still feel very stuck in my negative patterns and programming. I am in a job that is completely opposite of who I am and what I wish to do. I only have a hand full of friends but all are married with kids, so as I love our all night conscious chats, I would like to have some fun. I have been seeking "a hobby" (as people call it) that I enjoy for a while now. My long term relationship of four and half years just ended a little over two and half weeks ago, I feel because I couldn't love and accept myself enough to really love, accept and embrace him. My son is about to go through puberty and I have no confidence in guiding a maturing boy through this process and am more scared of losing the relationship we have than anything. My limiting beliefs that I can't seem to get away from and I continue to experience are: life is always a struggle, my life is a struggle. Everything good or even remotely good requires a lot of struggle and effort. Bad things come out of the blue. When things are good, it won't last too long. I never get what I want, if I want something I know I am not getting it. My fears always manifest, my dreams never manifest. The universe doesn't support me. I don't know how to enjoy myself. Growth happens very slowly and only through pain, at least for me. I don't deserve good things, Good things require things to be done in order to deserve them. But more importantly what do I want. I want to live from the truth inside me. I want to stay connected to the love I feel inside and the love I have for others. I want to live from this place and at peace. Having confidence in myself and believing in myself. Moving to a career that is rewarding and fulfilling, allowing me to express who I am with passion and helping others in some way enhance their lives. Making a comfortable living doing so. Staying connected to my son. And experiencing a beautiful fulfilling relationship in which I feel loved and supported and I am able to fully love and support them, with honesty and full acceptance of each other. But most of all in a relationship,I would like to live in a way that I am enjoying them and living from the true love I feel. Unconditional love most of all. Basically enjoying life and living from love, feeling it, expressing it and connected to it. Living with Peace. Without worry, trusting life, trusting source, trusting myself, trusting the universe. And living in the that knowing. I am open to any thoughts. And willing to do the work. Also I am willing to support anyone else on their journey. Last edited by TiffyLove; 06-06-2010 at 09:30 PM. |
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06-06-2010, 11:55 PM
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You seem to know what you want.. and how you want to do it.. so I'm just going to treat this as a "workout buddy" thread.. as we discussed.. I will give you a workout I've done in the last 24 hours.. then you can try and match me..  - Many, many times have I put up a rose and blew up multiple roses for my uncle.. I have also ordered the rose to "collect me up"  - I have watched various "lightworker" videos - I submitted a list of 5 sets of 3 negative words to my teacher as was asked (or to my teachers wife.. roxanne )- I activated my teachers power methods/words.. - I used rays 4 through 6 to bring balance and ease to some of my sets of 3 negative words What have you done today to improve yourself? (besides for this post )What small step did you take for you? What did you release, let go of.. or how did you be "more you" today? I want to remind you and anyone reading.. the goal of "workout buddy" is to check in with people and ask them what they did today.. I offer what I did as a balancing act to that.. I personally do "new age" workouts daily (most times) |
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06-07-2010, 10:48 AM
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Well over my last 24 hours this is what I have done. I listened to several chapters of Byron Katie's book, "I need your love. Is that true?." I watched an inspiring movie. I wrote a gratitude journal entry. And I talked to a guy at work today about the way his beliefs effect his mind. "He kept saying he would never be able to do something." I would like to get myself to get off the computer before I am too tired to do some work like Byron Katie stuff, journaling, and visualizations. |
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06-08-2010, 01:36 AM
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K.. matching you best I can.. let's see.. I forgot to say yesterday.. also I paid for and decided to go to the 10-10 thing.. with Steve Rother and my teacher I also decided not to stay at their $120 a night hotel.. motel6 will be fine for me I have posted.. here's a brilliant piece of info Future of the USAI have talked with my uncle about more metaphysical things.. I researched "new age" people and groups to see last night.. and am considering seeing a free channel on the 10th I have used the ray's again last night to bring some ease and balance I have to do the idea of "dating" I have done some "divination" And I have actually done more then all of this.. but that's a list for now If you want some suggestions on "works out" let me know there TiffyLove I'll point you in some directions |
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06-08-2010, 02:55 AM
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- Blow up roses for 15 minutes or so.. try to blow up about 100 or so.. of people and places that annoy/bother you.. see how you feel after words? (and don't focus on the ones that annoy you most.. start out with EASY people and things) http://www.masteringalchemy.com/audio/june28_t3.mp3 If you have problems imagining.. the rose.. then let me know.. but it should be simple.. see it 10-15 inches in front of your face.. Then I would suggest doing this 3.. times in one day.. consciously (say the next day) "Center of Head" - http://www.masteringalchemy.com/audio/june7_t3.mp3 Report back how you feel..? Did it make you feel better.. ?
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06-09-2010, 07:21 AM
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and make sure to take some time for you!(that's what dis-ease is all about  )And remember the universe will throw you some "bus's" whenever you try to do some things.. let me elaborate on that.. Inconsistent Intentions My workout today.. - Email'd my teacher (got a reply I didn't like much )- Read some articles on spiritlibrary - Activated the power words.. - Posted.. good stuff with joelr Coincidences- BTW now that I remember.. I worked on one of my "future time moments" today This one doesn't count.. - Wanted to listen to my teachers audio's but didn't.. (tomorrow) | |
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06-09-2010, 11:45 PM
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Come up with some VERY strong images of what you want from your career and relationships. For instance, write out how much you want to earn, what you want to do, how many hours, how you'll feel while doing it and more. Then come up with a list for your ideal man; kind, caring, rich, successful, great in bed, anything else that you want. After you have those done, come up with a plan to make your images a reality and start getting to work on them. Lastly, spend 1-2 minutes a day seeing and feeling as if your images were real right now. Believe that you can have them. Tell yourself all the reasons why you will succeed. Develop an attitude of success. "Act as though it were impossible to fail." Think, talk, and act as if your images were coming to pass. What area are you in? Depending on where you're at, I might be able to recommend some good teachers for you to see. |
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06-10-2010, 01:21 AM
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Hi there I find myself in a very similar position. I grew up with many very negative beliefs and I think I have come a long way. But circumstances aren't quite what I would like them to be. I'm working in boring, mind numbing job that's just barely enough to pay the bills. I've worked very hard on changing my thoughts on money, but still had to file bankruptcy this spring. I've been a single mother for ten years. I'd encourage you to not worry about your boy. I don't think anybody needs to be taught how to be a man or be a woman. They just need to be allowed to be themselves more than anything. There are a million different ways to be a man just like there are to be a woman. Trust him, support his dreams - don't try to make him who you want him to be -- let him be himself. Focus on what is good in your life and on adding more of it bit by bit. (trying my best to follow my own advice.) |
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06-12-2010, 05:02 AM
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Okay I am back in business. I was pretty sick and had three finals and a 7 page paper all due yesterday. I am graduating tomorrow with my bachelors in business.  )TheMaster - I am going to check out your links and get a list going. TonyToneTone - Writing that stuff out sounds like a perfect idea. At night when I remember or wasn't too tired, the last thing I would do before I went to bed was imagine myself being the person I want to be, experiencing the things I want to. And I would "feel" it as much as possible. I don't really see a visual of things so sometimes it has been difficult to get fully into the feeling. So I think writing it out will REALLY help me. Also I am in Southern California about 20 minutes east of LA. Summerwish - You have no idea how your advice about my son helped me. The things you said were all the exact things I have been learning about in love relationships and with myself. I would have eventually applied it to my son but because I was so worried about him not having a positive male role model, I wasn't able to see it yet. Thank you so much for that. And hang in there. We can toss ideas around and share things that have worked for each other if you would like. Email LoveGrowth@gmail.com BUT I HAVE TO SHARE ABOUT SOMETHING THAT HAS HAPPENED THAT WAS HUGE!!!!!!!!! I have been working on acceptance and forgiveness with myself. But also doing a lot of Byron Katie's work and just really learning to allow people to be themselves. That true love is letting people be who they are, even making choices I would label as "mistakes", loving them anyway. Even when people "attack" me, that its never personal. Joy causes Joy, Pain causes pain. And just really finding compassion for myself and allowing myself to be broken, or not perfect, or make mistakes, etc.. Knowing I was doing the best I could and that no matter what my actions may look like my heart is still filled with love, even though it doesn't appear that way. I never in a million years thought this would impact my dad. My dad is a person who lives from 100% ego. He is controlling, mean, manipulative, he lies constantly, he wants the world to please him, and he knows what is "right" better than everyone else. If we even disagree with him he is pissed. Most people make comments like he thinks he is God and wants everyone to revolve their life around him. Well I had the most amazing conversation with my dad a few days ago. I went to his house, expecting just to run in and out. Because of a conversation I had the night before with a friend about allowing people to feel what they feel and that we make the choice to remain peaceful and that we don't have to take on what they are putting out. But we don't have to resist or change them either, that love is understanding and acceptance. So as my dad insisted on expressing his anger he had for my sister for not doing as he wanted her to do (she is 25 years old and lives in another state), he was just being mean and angry. Usually I would get really uncomfortable, either defend my sister, be mean back or just resist his anger and him even telling me. Instead I was paying attention to the pain behind the anger, the man who just wants to be loved and feels like he is all alone. I allowed him to have his emotions. I told him he had a right to feel what he felt and that I can understand. I never agreed with him or disagreed, I just understood. To try and make a very long story shorter. I shared with him a lot of things I have been learning, but I did it in a very compassionate way only sharing with him what felt natural. We went through waves of him resisting what I was saying and I allowed him to resist, I understood his resistance and then I would just give examples and share me. It was amazing, my dads anger turned to pain and I seen my dad cry for the first time in my life ( I am 30) and then his pain turned to love. I don't think anyone has ever allowed my dad to be him because of how he is. But the most amazing part of this was because of my past with my dad, which is very intense and was extremely painful, I never thought I could forgive him. Matter of fact just a few months ago I was telling some one that I wanted to forgive him but I couldn't see how it would ever be possible, that it would feel like I was okaying his behavior. BUT.... I found complete forgiveness for my dad that day. Not only forgiveness but compassion and understanding. I already almost can't see why I was so angry with him, I remember the experiences and the situations weren't my preference but I can't understand what I was thinking to be so angry and hurt. He was a man doing the best he knew how with what he knew. He was trying his VERY best. He was a man in pain that didn't know how to do anything better. The best part was I wasn't trying to change his mind or "working" at helping him see differently. I was just there, I responded from the peace in me naturally. I couldn't believe the things that were coming out of my mouth, even more I couldn't believe he was actually listening to what I was saying and he was even thinking about it. I was shocked. It took no effort, no force, I was just being myself for the first time ever. I didn't sensor myself or "protect" myself from him, I was just me. The more angry he got at times, the more it pushed me into my peace and grounding, the more things just seem to come through me. It was so beautiful. I still can't believe the things I was saying to my dad. If anyone that knows my dad would have heard the conversation, they wouldn't have believed what was happening. They would of been completely shocked, thinking I replaced my dad with an actor or something. And the only difference was, I allowed him to be him. And I was just me. I didn't "do" anything. THIS IS HUGE!!!!!! Sorry so long. I will write later when I catch up on all my "workouts". |
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06-12-2010, 05:15 PM
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06-14-2010, 10:06 AM
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Summerwish - I am really getting how huge it is to allow people to be who they are. It requires a lot of work on oneself but when we let people be who they are, not only do we get to really "feel" them and their love but we are allowing them to grow into their "greatness". I have done quite a few things. I am still a little bit sick and I was busy all day yesterday with graduation stuff but here is what I did today. When my eyes are not so blurry I will get back on the comp and check out the links I was given earlier. I had a long conversation with a friend about the law of attraction, learning to find joy within ourselves and teaching kids to be conscious, etc.. I finished listening to my Byron Katie CD Started listening to a new Audiobook, "A million little pieces." At my graduation a friend reminded me to "take it all in" and I immediately shifted from being patient to practicing being in the now and really enjoying it. I felt a complete shift in my body. I called my ex. I allowed him to be him and I was me without any filters or censoring of my truth. It was a great conversation. I came away with a realization that I am not in a place to even consider "us", I have some more work to do on myself first, and that I love him but that doesn't mean he is best for me or that I NEED him. And as long as I feel like I NEED anyone, the only thing I NEED is to be alone. I listened to a self worth healing mp3. Talk to another conscious friend of mine about growth and we have the answers to everything and allowing ourselves to find those. hmmmm, thats all for now. But I am not asleep yet. )
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06-16-2010, 11:47 AM
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(I get there physical locations mixed up)The center of your head is the 6th chakra base.. or the "mind's eye" Anyway.. if you just know how to put yourself there.. you just do.. just like the exercise says.. but maybe giving you these different labels will help If these tools don't resonate with you.. get you excited or interested.. you don't need to use them.. I can if it helps look up or try to find what bashar said about.. using the pituitary late at night (before sleep) I think you ask it to produce more DMT.. or something.. I'd have to look it up.. if you like to try that?Anyway.. since this is a workout buddy thread.. I'll share.. Today.. I listened to my teachers lecture twice.. (most often I do that ) and posted.. and that's about all for today.. feeling tempted to read some spiritual articles now that I think about it.. But over the last few days.. I've read a lot of spiritual articles.. listened to last week's lecture.. posted obviously! and considered going to see Bashar for the weekend..
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06-16-2010, 06:39 PM
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06-21-2010, 06:29 AM
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I am working on creating morning and evening routines. I was curious what everyone thought would be good to include or would like to hear what others do for their routines. I am talking about the routines that you feel help support and create the life you want. Not like routine, "get up, take a shower" type stuff. |
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06-21-2010, 08:18 AM
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I'm going to skip my workout portion this thread.. This is a routine.. I'd recommend if you could get good at it Rockchick thread and.. "nothing works for me"! (segment intending )
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06-21-2010, 08:26 PM
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I have created some morning and evening kind of like affirmations of giving my day over to source and asking for guidance, etc... I would like to know if anyone would like to read it and help me make it a little more powerful and reduce the length if possible. |
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06-21-2010, 09:36 PM
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They are still very rough and I am change things here and there as I go along. Thank you! Morning Divine Spirit, bring me into union with you. Please take my negative thoughts and feelings, please take my fears and pain, I release them to you. Please show me divine love and miracles, today and everyday. Please help me to have trust and faith be a part of every aspect of my life. Help me to stay open and accept love in my life. To experience unconditional love, peace and joy. Show me self confidence and empowerment. Help me live from my heart and enjoy this lifetime. Every moment. Show me the divine, show me the divine within me, and help me remember and trust in your love. Open my heart, Open my eyes to all the miracles in my life and show me the magic of this world. Show me the magic within myself, show me how powerful and miracles I am. I turn over this day to you and I offer myself to you. Show me the way. Evening Divine Spirit, Thank you for this perfect day. Please take today’s worries, pain, fear and negative thoughts and feelings, I give them to you. As I sleep, please heal my mind of these things and align me with divine love and my heart. Help me to see the miracles in which I have lived today and the love that I experienced. I give my sleeping self over to you, to heal and protect and create alignment within to source and the divine. Please take advantage of this time while my mind is asleep to give me your guidance and build confidence and trust within my earthly mind. Please forgive me of the moments in which I disconnected and show me the miracles and the way of living from my heart and divine source. May you take me and unite me with you as I sleep. Thank you for this beautiful day. Open me to living in love and joy, accepting and seeing all the miracles and magic I am blessed with. I release my day to you and I give you my sleeping body and mind. Help me to awaken to your presence. May I rest in your divine love. |
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I used to have one that was about 3-4 sentences.. and that was hard to remember.. Let's see.. if I can shorten these for you.. Quote:
Or you could just say "I would like some help (I used the word guidance for at least a year) and I allow that help, to help me "Quote:
The only thing I see "wrong" with these is they may be hard to remember and say back.. I guess if you read them.. maybe that'll work (I have not so good memory with some words all the time.. I'm supposed to remember words like capable, certain, commanding, well-being, graciousness, kindness, senior, masterful, powerful, creative, knowingness, radiance, loveliness, beauty, balance, ease and about here.. I forget )You can just ask.. "this evening and in my sleep I ask to be downloaded with that which will help me integrate myself and make my life better.." "thank you!" appreciation booster And remember you can be playful (another word missing from that list) and make a new litany up every night.. you don't have to be set in your ways Last edited by themaster; 06-21-2010 at 10:51 PM. | |||
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06-23-2010, 08:02 AM
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"Playful" <---- What does that mean? lol, Something I can definitely use more of. However, what do you mean by "you don't have to be set in your ways", what were you referring to? | |
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The point is.. you can make up a new litany.. every night.. I do one most times.. (I forget once in a while.. I don't make it a 'big deal' if I do..) Workout buddy list - I tried out my *new* "new age" gum medication - I listened to my teachers energetics and heard it different this time.. - I talked with my teacher.. and got real questions/answers for once.. (was so close to my last 2 questions )- I posted, obviously! - I used the rays to mess around with video games! | |||
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06-27-2010, 11:53 PM
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Well I have been sick once again. Which is very unusual for me. I normally get sick once a year. Now it has been twice in a month. But I am assuming it is everything I have been going through. I confirmed my trip to Sedona. July 7th to 11th! )I have been reading every night and in some way giving myself over to spirit as I sleep. I started working on my websites again. I went to the Sequoia National Forest on Thursday and that was truly healing for my soul. Prior to this week I had been contacting my ex. I made a commitment to myself to not contact him until I get back from Sedona (If I still want to). This was hard because he had just told me he likes hearing from me and wants to talk to me while we "go through our time apart". But I know this is best for me, I need to focus on myself. I am working on being joyful. At least being conscious of smiling a little more and being more open with others. Trying to express myself more, etc.. |
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06-28-2010, 12:32 AM
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Yah, I was feeling tired and down early today.. seems I've picked back up some Don't let sickness.. be a "bus hit" your going to still have normal things happen for a while.. keep your focus Tiffy and it is you.. who will change your life.. No, I still haven't found that bashar audio.. (haven't searched for a while.. I'll get back on it when I more motivated )But you can have a look at these random youtube videos on the subject.. YouTube - stimulate pineal |
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